Paying for sex

[windycityplay69]

HYE paid for sex ? Have you really wanted to but are scared of the risks? Maybe you have used sex to provide or get favors. Have any of you Lit women ever fantasized about selling yourselves? Would love to hear about all of it.

As for me, I have always wanted to get a sexy hooker, but the logical fear of STD"s and pimps are a big factor. Hot fetish though imo.

 

[windycityplay69]

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[jakereeder22]

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[MILFSauce]

I've never had any fantasies about being a hooker. In theory, I think prostitution should be legal, but I want no part of it personally.

 

[windycityplay69]

It is an interesting legal debate, that is for sure. I have a feeling most males (myself included) think it is an arousing topic, but with it being unregulated, the risks are pretty high, or so I would think.
On another note, getting a "high-end" escort or two while visiting Vegas would be one hell of a time

 

[hardcollege4]

I have never paid for sex, but I did do a favor for someone online in exchange for a dirty picture. It was totally worth it

 

[HoldYouDown]

Only rub-n-tug massages. No hookers. I'm not against it, but I'd rather spend the money on nice clothes, and go out and seduce women. But I can certainly appreciate a man not wanting to deal with the hassle and just get right to the sex on occasion. I just wouldn't make a habit of it.

 

[Blase]

I think making prostitution illegal is a foolish policy. All it does is drive the activity underground and create a black market so profitable that it makes human trafficking worthwhile to criminals.

Bring it out into the light and regulate it.

*Edit*

I guess the above strays from the original question. Just to address that, I don't personally care for the idea of paying for sex. I wouldn't judge anyone for doing so - I can certainly imagine circumstances where someone might wish to - but to me it would be like paying someone to pretend to be my friend and go to the movies with me. I might enjoy the movie, but I'd be painfully aware that my companion was only there because of the money rather than any affection she felt towards me. Not really an idea I'd fantasize about.

 

[MILFSauce]

I think making prostitution illegal is a foolish policy. All it does is drive the activity underground and create a black market so profitable that it makes human trafficking worthwhile to criminals.

Bring it out into the light and regulate it.

I think prostitution should be legal, too, but not because being illegal drives it underground. Any illegal activity, by definition, has been driven underground by the fact of its being illegal. Making bank robbery illegal drives it "underground", too.

I think prostitution should be legal and as you say, regulated, because if we consider it a crime, we have to ask who the victim is and inquire about the degree of victimization. I believe this is how Vegas and Reno look at it. In the case of prostitution, fundamentally no one is harmed by the activity itself.

In general, it's a slippery slope when you try to incorporate sexual morality into the legal code. I'm not saying you shouldn't do that, necessarily, because a civilization has a responsibility to at least try and take the high road. A civilization without morality is a civilization in chaos. Most laws grew out of moral concepts anyway, directly or indirectly.

But the particulars evolve over time. Oral and anal sex used to be expressly illegal in many parts of the US, an idea that seems patently silly today. And don't even start on the topic of homosexual activity.

And as for prostitution being the "oldest profession", you can make a case that it's even older than we think. There's a famous story about a group of primate researchers who were working with chimpanzees ... they set up a token-based "economy" in the chimp colony. The chimps were paid a "wage" consisting of tokens that they could use in vending machines for fruit and whatnot.

What the researchers discovered was that over time, several of the female chimps got rich.

 

[Curiousguy3825]

I was paid the first time I let a guy suck me off. I was a poor college student back then and horny as hell. I loved it.

 

[MarkMphsTN]

"I've never paid for sex, but I've paid a few to leave".

 

[TwistedJenn]

We all pay for sex whether or not we realize it. LOL

 

[TwistedJenn]

I should also add that I think prostitution should be legal also. After all if you can get paid to have sex in a porno why not off camera? They could always require the same laws for testing as such as they do in the porn industry and it would probably keep people safer.

 

[windycityplay69]

I should also add that I think prostitution should be legal also. After all if you can get paid to have sex in a porno why not off camera? They could always require the same laws for testing as such as they do in the porn industry and it would probably keep people safer.

This^^^. I have always wondered what the difference is. The only problem is exploitation of minors, considering that scene would blow up overnight. However if it was "legal" and monitored it would be very hard to not participate.

 

[Erochic]

Prostitution is legal (and/or decriminalised) in many countries.
I'm from one of those countries and I really don't see what the problem is.

 

[dacoach44]

$ for sex

I have bought pussy all over the planet. It is a lot of fun; great adventure, sometimes dangerous, usually expensive; and always exciting. The Germans, for example, are safe and organized. In the P. I. and Latin America, you got to watch your step.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Not all males find it arousing, strippers & hookers frankly do nothing for me. They are just a collection of warm holes & I am nothing but an ATM.

I am sure higher end hookers are excellent at role playing the lie that she gives a shit about you...but I see nothing attractive in that relationship.


Now having a friend role play that she's a street walker...even going so far as to dress in public in her sluttiest outfit, and pick her up on the stroll...that can be fun.
Bonus points if she has the cojones to get offers from strangers, then turn them down.

 

[chimike]

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[Blase]

Not only a great story, Mike, but you write very well.

 

[bill3901]

Remember you don't pay a prostitute to have sex with you, you pay her to leave after the sex is over....lol

 

[chimike]

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[Ooceanic9]

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[soflabbwlvr]

Never really paid for it. The closest was one time a stripper in a club pulled my cock out of my pants and gave me a hand job while we were sitting at the bar. She kept pulling while I fed dollars into her garter. When I was ready to cum I told her it was time and she pointed my cock downward as I shot my load onto the floor.

Another time I was driving home from work in the middle of the afternoon. I was stopped at a red light when a woman in a tight tank top and tiny little shorts ran up to my car and pounded on the window. I opened it and she begged me for a ride. I let her in and she told me that she was in a motel with her trick when he freaked out and started acting crazy. She ran out to get a way from him. I drove her a few miles until I had to turn. She directed me to park behind a warehouse. She leaned over, opened my pants, and blew me as a thank you. Best BJ ever. I came in about 5 minutes.

 

[Andybest]

I have never paid, do you I should?

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

You know I just have to tell all of you something - maybe not all of you because some will also this type of exposure to varied cultural behaviours.

I lived and worked in Chicago in the mid to late Eighties. I found that the attitudes of the women there, very noticeably to me anyway, and also across the board of all the women I met there, was that they were nice to me and I think to anyone who was a foreigner, and very dismissive of the local males of every type and category no matter what.

Chicago women, appeared to me to be distant, possibly difficult to access or with many conditions that went along with knowing them, and there was a distinct subculture going on of parties overnight in hotels and 'expensive women' on the arms of rich not necessarily good-looking men in the cocktail lounges from late afternoon on.

Rap music, alcohol, drugs... Definitely.

Ah but, you see, social patterns are subtly different everywhere across the whole world. In London, all women hate all men and some other women too and both local males and females are often pretty abrupt if not rude. But service staff seem very nice to me and genuinely nice too. I can't work that one out...

But then there are those places around the world where women are totally light years away from all of this 'barrier' and 'price' thing that goes on in frankly, some supposedly sophisticated cities. I don't find them sophisticated. In these places, many women who are genuinely sexually-accessible anyway, use the idea of sex-for-money to actually get around the sheer lack of warmth and adult openness that is obtained in genuinely socially sophisticated places.

I don't think that's quite the same thing as 'prostitution...'

It's more of a social response or effect from a real social malaise.

Sticking some theoretical or mechanistic 'fixed' price on the sexual compliance of women is an utterly crass, if well, nonetheless a real idea that very typically comes from an overly materialistic society that has a blind trust in money over everything else.

GIVING money to someone because you have a lot more than they do, is not an act of prostituting the other person, I don't think.

HAVING some relatively mediocre sum of cash, that theoretically 'buys' a sex act from a woman (or man or whatever!) IS prostitution and demeans all parties.

A woman making herself sexually accessible to you by her own decision and discretion, is a positive judgement made about you - and any transference of money ought to be on account of the fact that you have a lot of it and are generous to your friends. I think a woman who has sex with you ought to be a friend, even if she is by personality dominant and even aggressive, or sexually aggressive and adventurous.

I think you should be nice to women.

And I think if you are a lot of them will be nice to you.

I think it's all about your own sense of judgement of any other individual's character. And I do agree with those others here who have floated the idea of play acting at being sexually available for money and dressing in an overtly sexually available way as part of a sexual game.

You know, with very sophisicated people - and there are more of these than you might think - have you considered that some of them meet people who are just as sex-interested as themselves by using the pretense or the pretext of 'escort?' Because in some parts of the world, people are so closed-off, so disconnected, and superficially so conservative and puritanical, that any other way is just too time-consuming and inefficient?