The Sexuality of Women in Their 40's and 50's

If that is you in your avatar - tell your wife she is mad! I am on the way over to sexually ravage you, baby!!!!:devil::devil::devil:

I have tried.. LOL.. better yet.. lets meet half way.. i can hardly wait for you !!! If that is you in your av.. PLEASE do ravage me...

oh yea.. yes it is definately me!!:cool:
 
Sounds familiar

My wife lost complete interest at about 45 and hasn't gotten anything back....as I have gotten older mine opus growing more and more than ever! :rose:

My wife hit the 40 and became bi curious, that lasted for 6 months. Then 45 appeared and it was like a switch had been thrown into neutral or stop. Since then no interest in sex what's so ever.....like you STG mine is increasing. Any suggestions from the beautiful women or men of LIT would be appreciated.
 
My wife hit the 40 and became bi curious, that lasted for 6 months. Then 45 appeared and it was like a switch had been thrown into neutral or stop. Since then no interest in sex what's so ever.....like you STG mine is increasing. Any suggestions from the beautiful women or men of LIT would be appreciated.

Interesting........I first discovered my bicurious side in my earl 30's but didn't act on this until my mid thirties when the opportunity presented itself. Since then, my sex drive has gone crazy - I'm now 49 and sexually on fire compared to when I was younger and physically better looking, but sexually I'm 2000 % better at this age!
 
It's great you never felt lost in motherhood. I didn't lose my confidence exactly, I think I was just too busy and too tired to even think about the "fun" stuff for a while. lol Have fun with your younger guys....seems lots of ladies here enjoy the pleasures of younger flesh. :)



You sound similar to me. :) I couldn't have said it better...."open to being directed to leave my comfort zone...." Yep, that. :D



I am so glad to hear this. I hope I follow in your heels. ;)

Well done ladies. Sadly I had lost a feeling of my sexual self in the tide of motherhood and being a housewife. I had a couple of miscarriages in my twenties so my first born came when I was 30 and my second at 34.

Coming here has been great though. I definitely feel that if anything I'm sexier now than when younger.
 
4o's

I have found the older I get the less interested in sex I have become.
 
It doesn't bother me at all Shaun. To be frank I would rather masturbate alone these days.

Whatever makes you happy I guess, as long as you get what you need from it that's all that matters
 
Menopause

My wife is 55, takes good care of herself and her six foot tall good looks can still turn heads. Post menopause at age 46, her libido disappeared. It was disappointing at first but once sex was initiated the enjoyment superseded the low libido. It became incumbent upon me to keep the fires lit. Once warmed she continues satisfy my needs and never fails to reach her orgasm. It can still be a bit frustrating because before menopause she was a real take charge tigress in the bedroom, in the car, in the woods, next to the river- you get the picture. It takes two to make it work I just have to work a little harder now.
 
i'm 45

I'm 45 and have found my sex life has changed so much. No longer am i stuck in boredom. definately more adventourous
 
50 plus

My sex life just gets better with age more adventure more play more different and definitely more fun
 
I am 43, and I never really "lost" my sex drive. I kept it all through having babies and raising my kids. My youngest left for college in August, so I am more free now at home maybe? But I am unlike most women my age, I think about sex just about constantly.
 
I have tried.. LOL.. better yet.. lets meet half way.. i can hardly wait for you !!! If that is you in your av.. PLEASE do ravage me...

oh yea.. yes it is definately me!!:cool:

Hi STG - you know that is me in my avatar! I have a whole series of pics from which that AV is taken - was a fun day soaking up the sun coated in tanning oil!
 
I am 43, and I never really "lost" my sex drive. I kept it all through having babies and raising my kids. My youngest left for college in August, so I am more free now at home maybe? But I am unlike most women my age, I think about sex just about constantly.

smallgirl - I think we might just be twins cos my story is the same as yours honey!!:kiss:
 
Kind of off topic but not, I'm 33 and very sexually adventurous. I love sex, all the time, many different ways. It has always been a fear of mine that my sex drive would decline in the coming years. While I understand it may be possible, you mature women in this thread have given me some peace of mind. Perhapes my best sex years are yet to come :)
 
I've always been very sexual. When I reached my 40s, though I realized that I completely didn't care about embarassment or being seen as 'dirty'. Exploring has become more important than crafting a flawless (unobtainable) image of body and wardrobe. I'm just as horny as I've always been but now I make my rules. I can enjoy making others awkward or uncomfortable instead of working so hard to avoid it. I actually compare it to how when guys get older they fart openly and don't care... Well now I'm a dirty old woman and don't have to care anymore.
 
Mara
Guessing that we are the same age, or there abouts, just want to say that what you posted above is so true in all aspects.
Also, think the comments overflow with confidence.
Dave
:rose::rose:
 
I've always been very sexual. When I reached my 40s, though I realized that I completely didn't care about embarassment or being seen as 'dirty'. Exploring has become more important than crafting a flawless (unobtainable) image of body and wardrobe. I'm just as horny as I've always been but now I make my rules. I can enjoy making others awkward or uncomfortable instead of working so hard to avoid it. I actually compare it to how when guys get older they fart openly and don't care... Well now I'm a dirty old woman and don't have to care anymore.

Agreed....grey haired women own their bodies....and their lovers!
 
When I was younger, 20-30,( I'm now in my 50's) I had several relationships with older women in their 40's and 50's and found they were confident in themselves and knew what they wanted, which I was more than happy to give. Also they were often more open to new experiences, seemingly wanting to try things not done when younger.
 
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