Whats behind a cat call?

[Adre]

Which words were a problem for you, honey? If your brain ain't workin' I can find a use for your mouth.

The random whistle was a big fucking deal to you about an hour ago when you were ripping me a new asshole for it. Now it's okay? Maybe you type too fast.

 

[Fata Morgana]

I do think she was terribly miscast as the Virgin Mary but in my tiny mind Robert Powell IS Jesus and always will be.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Explain to me why I must give way to what someone else wants instead of wanting what I want.

Because that would be interesting.

?? What way are you giving? No one has the right to not be offended when one goes out into public, in the real world there are offensive things. I'm sorry...... that's just the way shit is.

Just let gay guys cat call straight men all day and see how they like it. It's about equivalent.

"Oooh, honey, wouldn't I like to use that ass for a spell."

You act like that would be an insult? And you aslo seem to think women don't have their own ways of interacting with the opposite sex that aren't trashy as the pink flamingo trailer park.

Like going up to a guy she doesn't know...."Why don't you buy me a drink?" That's a good one... right on par with "Yo baby baby you ever been fucked by a fat man in an overcoat yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa."

Lets put it another way: lets say an insurance salesman, a different one each block, approaches you every day on your way to work. You have plans in mind for your day, your wife has discovered she has a lump in her breast, your daughter just flunked her school exams, your grandmother is ill - just everyday thoughts. But every block some fucking insurance guy comes up, talking fast, pushing fliers into your hand. Whaddya do? You tell him to fuck off? Well I guess you could if he's some weasely little guy you can pummel into the ground. Do you get the point yet? Cat-calls are continual drip-drip of insults every fucking day ( if I'm 'lucky ' of course )

So you don't want men to hit on you b/c you have real life shit going on.....LMFAO

Let me guess, when big ballin' Mr.Hotness ask you out is casual flirting.....when Busted the Broke Ass Janitor is it sexual harassment.

in what other area of life is it considered normal & sane to yell your opinion across the street?

Driving, street sports, street fights, stick ball, drinking, mowing the lawn, neighbor is fucking up, any time you see some crazy shit happening or the aftermath of such, accidents, meeting friends.....

i don't get the motivation

You're seriously that fucking retarded? I'll give you a clue.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3jpmz2AvD1r49meho1_400.gif

or the desired result of the cat call.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8je42QTKy1ry1xx5o1_500.gif

some people do breathe in a really annoying way though.

 

[Recidiva]

The random whistle was a big fucking deal to you about an hour ago when you were ripping me a new asshole for it. Now it's okay? Maybe you type too fast.

Read my first post...before the "get a sense of humor" and "maybe you're ugly" meme made its first appearance.

"Wolf whistle" isn't the subject. "Cat call" is and that varies.

 

[Recidiva]

?? What way are you giving? No one has the right to not be offended when one goes out into public, in the real world there are offensive things. I'm sorry...... that's just the way shit is.

You act like that would be an insult? And you aslo seem to think women don't have their own ways of interacting with the opposite sex that aren't trashy as the pink flamingo trailer park.

"no one has the right to not be offended..." I don't even know what that means. So I'm stuck.

This is about choosing to be offensive, not choosing to be offended. In general I choose to not be offended, but I do think the intent is to offend and invade more often than it is to compliment.

Like which would be an insult?

I don't interact in that way. That doesn't mean those folks don't exist, it means that when I don't want to interact that way, why does someone do it and ask me to get a sense of humor about it instead of...not doing it?

 

[mark197205]

SHOW US YER COCK, MATE!

Careful what you ask for, mate.

:banana emote:

 

[mark197205]

Too late - we're picking team strips already

Fine, I'll take you both on!

 

[stickygirl]

Fine, I'll take you both on!

 

[BotanyBoy]

"no one has the right to not be offended..." I don't even know what that means. So I'm stuck.

It means there is offensive shit in the world...fucking deal.

This is about choosing to be offensive, not choosing to be offended.

You got it backwards...as we have clearly seen in this thread it's not inherently offensive, some women even take compliment from it.

So it very much is about choosing to be offended.

In general I choose to not be offended, but I do think the intent is to offend and invade more often than it is to compliment.

http://www.bodylovewellness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/well-thats-just-like-your-opinion-man-gif-the-dude-lebowski.gif

That's entirely dependent on how the target of said communication receives and interprets the message no iddnit?

Like which would be an insult?

Gay guys cat calling straight guys...

I don't interact in that way. That doesn't mean those folks don't exist, it means that when I don't want to interact that way,

Then don't...really just that simple.

why does someone do it and ask me to get a sense of humor about it instead of...not doing it?

Because they want to play and you don't.....why does it matter since they are so offensive? Just tell them to fuck off on a big ol' AIDS dick.

 

[dolf]

the worst thing for me was when my daughter started to get it herself. she had a chest at 14 so, to some guys, that made her fair game. my daughter is no wimp but, as a 14y/o kid, to suddenly have 40y/o guys making it obvious they saw her as a sexual object (before she even knew her sexual self) was something that had her in tears more than once. she absolutely felt threatened because she still felt like a child.

i'm sure those guys thought she was older, because guys are crap at telling ages of post puberty teens, and would've felt like shit had they known. hell, i bet some of them had daughters her age!

(to pre-empt the douche comments, she was dressed age appropriately.)

 

[dolf]

i just had a reread of the title. just to check.
it still says 'cat call', and not 'wolf whistle'

 

[BotanyBoy]

to suddenly have 40y/o guys making it obvious they saw her as a sexual object

That's kinda the whole point and objective of puberty.....just sayin'.

 

[Recidiva]

It means there is offensive shit in the world...fucking deal.

You got it backwards...as we have clearly seen in this thread it's not inherently offensive, some women even take compliment from it.

So it very much is about choosing to be offended.

http://www.bodylovewellness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/well-thats-just-like-your-opinion-man-gif-the-dude-lebowski.gif

That's entirely dependent on how the target of said communication receives and interprets the message no iddnit?

Gay guys cat calling straight guys...

Then don't...really just that simple.

Because they want to play and you don't.....why does it matter since they are so offensive? Just tell them to fuck off on a big ol' AIDS dick.

This is how I fucking deal. How you don't get that is beyond me.

I have sufficient sense of humor. I have sufficient grasp of manners. I have sufficient opinion and I express it and when I follow it, somehow it pisses you off terminally. You preach, but you don't listen or observe.

 

[stickygirl]

Let me guess, when big ballin' Mr.Hotness ask you out is casual flirting.....when Busted the Broke Ass Janitor is it sexual harassment.

Yea - it's a bitch getting judged like that huh?

 

[BotanyBoy]

This is how I fucking deal. How you don't get that is beyond me.

Hey man you're the one that said you were lost, I was just trying to help, no need to get your labia in a pinch about it.

I have sufficient sense of humor. I have sufficient grasp of manners. .

I have sufficient opinion and I express it and when I follow it, somehow it pisses you off terminally.

You think I'm pissed off? LOL just b/c I'm not under obligation to agree that men should know when and when not to hit on women based on the woman's taste in men ( i.e. men should be mind readers, wtf guys!!") doesn't mean I'm pissed off.

You preach, but you don't listen or observe.

What did I preach?

Yea - it's a bitch getting judged like that huh?

No....I was born with a dick, I learned to et over rejection in the 6th grade. Don't want me? Cool...20,000 drunk women downtown on any given night, one of them will say yes, one always does.

But none of that makes hitting on someone harassment...at least not until you tell them to fuck off.

Unless you're just a mentally damaged sexist woman who can't deal with men finding her attractive. Or the other way around...most women don't make the first move though, and wow do they handle rejection POORLY on average, esp the hot ones.

No emotional melt down like that of a drunk 9 getting rejected....oh and if he's clearly below her as far as social stature/looks/money and he shuts her down??

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[Phelia]

That's kinda the whole point and objective of puberty.....just sayin'.

Great point. In fact, why have an age of consent at all? Her body seems to think it's old enough, and who are we to question nature?

Thanks for your contributions. They were clearly very well thought out and not at all simplistic and one-dimensional.

 

[anchoredinocean]

Yeah, really classy. Fucking mouth breathers.

 

[Fata Morgana]

Suck my cheese balls, you dirty bitch.

I missed this!

 

[Phelia]

Yeah, really classy. Fucking mouth breathers.

I can't help it. My nose is stuffed up

 

[Fata Morgana]

I can't help it. My nose is stuffed up

I've got something that will clear your passages.

*leers*

 

[Phelia]

I've got something that will clear your passages.

*leers*

I'm going to call your cat and tell him you said that.

 

[Fata Morgana]

I'm going to call your cat and tell him you said that.

I screen all his calls for him. He's precious.

 

[dolf]

ok, maybe bring back flogging after all.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Great point. In fact, why have an age of consent at all? Her body seems to think it's old enough, and who are we to question nature?

What does age of consent have to do with men viewing post puberty women as sexual beings? I thought that was kind of a "No shit Sherlock" thing....

Thanks for your contributions. They were clearly very well thought out and not at all simplistic and one-dimensional.

Why over complicate something so fucking simple?

When women go through puberty men check them out and now see them as sexual beings....I never said it was right or wrong, but that is the reality of being human.

You, Dolf and the rest of the "I'm a victim of my own sexuality and it's all men's fault!!!" crew seem to think it's some mysterious thing all us rapist (men...you know every fuckin' one of us is a woman hating rapist!! just look at us all telling you you're fuckin' hot...what a fucking atrocity. lmfao) and it's really not.

 

[Fata Morgana]

ok, maybe bring back flogging after all.

All Mollies to the front.