Protective Bondage?

[desertslave]

I'm a week postop from shoulder surgery, and much to my amazement and delight, I feel VERY good. I'm aware of the parts that are still healing (and the damned itching of the surface incision) and very careful not to over-extend my arm.

I'm coming off the pain meds and itching to play because my own endorphins are so much better than synthetic chemicals.

Master is being cautious (points for him, I know he's biting at the bit, too), but I got to wondering if there might not be some way to secure my arm so I can't flail around and also can't do the usual tugging and wiggling.

Has anyone ever had to solve this particular problem before and, if so, how, please?

 

[DVS]

I'm a week postop from shoulder surgery, and much to my amazement and delight, I feel VERY good. I'm aware of the parts that are still healing (and the damned itching of the surface incision) and very careful not to over-extend my arm.

I'm coming off the pain meds and itching to play because my own endorphins are so much better than synthetic chemicals.

Master is being cautious (points for him, I know he's biting at the bit, too), but I got to wondering if there might not be some way to secure my arm so I can't flail around and also can't do the usual tugging and wiggling.

Has anyone ever had to solve this particular problem before and, if so, how, please?

I don't know if there is a way to be totally sure. But, if it hurts when you move it in the wrong way, you could try Saran wrap bondage.

 

[Lrn_The_Ropes]

I'm a week postop from shoulder surgery, and much to my amazement and delight, I feel VERY good. I'm aware of the parts that are still healing (and the damned itching of the surface incision) and very careful not to over-extend my arm.

I'm coming off the pain meds and itching to play because my own endorphins are so much better than synthetic chemicals.

Master is being cautious (points for him, I know he's biting at the bit, too), but I got to wondering if there might not be some way to secure my arm so I can't flail around and also can't do the usual tugging and wiggling.

Has anyone ever had to solve this particular problem before and, if so, how, please?

The Saran Wrap is a great idea, not knowing exactly what was done surgically, you may be able to accomplish the same thing that you sling does (if you have one) with some simple rope work. Wrapping your arm and bringing back the ropes to secure it your body should provide you the support you need. A simple sling and swath may works as well. Best of luck.

 

[MeekMe]

What about not flailing? Maybe you won't be able to play super rough, but perhaps the challenge of obediently holding still could be fun? Sounds like binding the arm into place like the others mentioned, is probably a good idea.

( T_T)＼(^-^ ) good luck! I hope it goes well!

 

[desertslave]

What about not flailing? Maybe you won't be able to play super rough, but perhaps the challenge of obediently holding still could be fun? Sounds like binding the arm into place like the others mentioned, is probably a good idea.

( T_T)＼(^-^ ) good luck! I hope it goes well!

It's a great idea in principle but I'm not very good at it when he does certain things to me. I, um, tend to writhe a bunch when me makes me cum in certain ways.

 

[Paul_Chance]

For this trick, you need a sheet, tape and rope. Take the sheet and fold it four of three or four times lengthwise (so you half a long narrow sheet). Have your partner first secure your arms in whatever position is most comfortable with the incision and injury location. Then, wrap the sheet around your torso, securing both arms in place, tightly. Finish it off with the tape to hold it in place. This will immobilize your upper torso and arms tightly. Then, your partner will place you either face down or face up on the bed, several pillows under your hips. Finally, they secure your legs by the ankles to the corners of the bed. The end result is you are pretty nearly immobilized - and complete open to their affections - gentle or otherwise.

 

[CBM514]

Just my opinion but I would be hesitant to play even a little with an injured sub...I would be worried to aggravate or re injure them in a harmful way

 

[MeekMe]

It's a great idea in principle but I'm not very good at it when he does certain things to me. I, um, tend to writhe a bunch when me makes me cum in certain ways.

σ(^_^; ) After my night last night I have to say I feel silly having even made the suggestion. It was terrible on my part. Sorry!

 

[Stella_Omega]

σ(^_^; ) After my night last night I have to say I feel silly having even made the suggestion. It was terrible on my part. Sorry!

Okay, now you're bragging. What did you do, fess up!

 

[MeekMe]

Okay, now you're bragging. What did you do, fess up!

I promise I'm not bragging! I'd fess up, but I think you'd laugh at my novice experience!

 

[desertslave]

I have my post-op doc's appointment this morning. Now I need to figure out how to get clearance for more physical activity in a way that will reassure Master without being really obvious. I was born without a subtle gene, so this will be interesting!

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

I promise I'm not bragging! I'd fess up, but I think you'd laugh at my novice experience!

MeekMe, I am nether encouraging nor trying to dissuade you from sharing here. That is totally up to you.

I do want to remind you every single one of us were beginner at one time or another. We all did silly things and learned from them and hopefully got better as we gained experience.

This is a very good place to learn and ask questions, it is usually safe and pretty non judgmental. Like all of these kinds of boards there will be the occasional jerk or you'll receive a snarky comment. Over all it is a great place to learn. You will find, as I have, there are those whose comments you trust and usually they are the best ones to learn from. Even the smart asses may, on occasion, may provide a gem of some sort.

I would strongly advise you look at the stickies at the top of the page, they contain tons of information if you take the time to read them.

Enjoy your journey it will be interesting and exciting.

Mike

 

[desertslave]

Master ^^^^^^^^^ is a meanie-head. Just had to get that on the record.

We sat in the same room, listened to the same doc (okay, PA...she's the one with the personality in the practice LOL), and came away with different interpretations of what she'd said. I definitely got the go-ahead to play with fire some more, but Master insists that I'm really not cleared for anything strenuous yet.

How does one sulk and look sexy at the same time, please?

 

[seela]

Master ^^^^^^^^^ is a meanie-head. Just had to get that on the record.

We sat in the same room, listened to the same doc (okay, PA...she's the one with the personality in the practice LOL), and came away with different interpretations of what she'd said. I definitely got the go-ahead to play with fire some more, but Master insists that I'm really not cleared for anything strenuous yet.

How does one sulk and look sexy at the same time, please?

In my experience you pretty much always know yourself what is ok and what isn't. It's best to start easy and do things for short times at first, because sometimes the pain comes only after you stop doing whatever it is that you were doing and relax. Pain is never good, unless it's PT kind of pain. Shoulder pain is in my experience really hard to overdo, it just hurts so damn much.

But take what I say with a grain of salt. I broke my wrist a couple of years ago and it had to be operated. Then got clearance from the doctors to do whatever I want, only to find out my wrist needed to be operated again after my PYL and I did whatever we wanted.

And whatever you do about the sulking, stay away from the pouty lips. That just looks silly, potentially like a teenage girl taking a selfie.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

It's not very sexy, but I think the easiest solution would be to stay in your sling, or use it to position your arm then maybe remove some more "extraneous" straps. The sling I had after my shoulder operation pretty much restrained it in the most comfortable position to begin with. From there, you could framework on top of that to increase the restraint of the arm and the rest of your body knowing that (barring any sort of jarring or impact), you already had your arm RIGHT where it needed to be.

That's just what makes sense to me based on my shoulder surgery experience. My partner and I were in diffrent countries, though, so the only sexual frustration I had was trying to effectively masturbate down my dominant hand

 

[Lovetolisten]

So sorry to hear you're suffering...
I nursed my H through 3 years of injuries and 8 subsequent surgeries after a wreck. Two included shoulder surgeries.

Neither time was a sling or binding used, and the surgeries were extensive. His Orthopedic Surgeon didn't believe in them. He said the pain would be self limiting, while allowing enough movement to keep the joint lubricated and prevent "frozen shoulder syndrome".

Of course, you have our own doctor, whom you need to listen to...
Medical experiences are as varied as those who endure them.

Prayers for a speedy recovery!

 

[CrimsonDom]

back pain

My pet has helped me through years of back pain and back,problems. Sometimes the back gets so bad that scenes would get cut short or be very light and non strenuous on me.