Crimes of Passion

None of the words you used, meant what words mean.

And it wouldn't matter, because none of us know what words mean anyway.

Is that about right, Reci?
 
I've actually lost track of her position. It did happen and it was a crime? It did happen and it was for his good and we can't understand? It did happen but technically nothing illegal took place? It did happen but all the words that sounded sexual actually referred to gaming? It didn't happen at all and we all misunderstood? It didn't happen and she was just being nice to the thread-starter by pretending it did?

The last time I saw something spin around this fast, it was destroying a trailer park in Kansas.
 
Boy, it's nice to be upgraded to "plausible deniability"

A week ago, I was pristine, Obviously Not. a few days ago I was a pedo, now maybe I can be forgiven for confessing something I didn't do because maybe it wasn't so bad even if I did it.

And people wonder why I don't worry about what people think about me on the internet. A gazillion of your posts say otherwise.

All the time I was just the same person.

I just think you're a spiteful minded passive aggressive smart girl who thinks that "appearances" are all you need to light a torch. That and a grudge. The fact that you jumped straight to pedo, and that is a serious thing, with no clarification, makes you lower than whale shit in my opinion.

Yeah, I'm disappointed because I thought you should know better. You really are an arrogant cunt. But I wasn't actually surprised, because you've been behaving toward me with passive aggressive spite for the longest time, but you wouldn't come out and say it, you'd just try to treat me like someone you liked, but every word you typed was dripping with acid.

It wasn't a shock as in "How could bg23 think that?" It was "Yup. She really believes that of me and she never had the nerve to say so to me to my face."

So go with whatever Gods you love and I hope you learn something. If not, I couldn't be brought to give a damn about you as anything more but an unfortunate punchline in my internet experiences. You're probably one of the only people that I spoke to and liked and I was just wrong about it.

I do make mistakes. But you rehabilitated him!

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And I'm pretty sure I was talking to Byron about it, because if you're going to talk about me like I'm not here I can do the same.

Byron's a pedophile... if you want to throw your lot in with him, go for it.

Might as well hit up shagly while you're at it.
 
I've actually lost track of her position. It did happen and it was a crime? It did happen and it was for his good and we can't understand? It did happen but technically nothing illegal took place? It did happen but all the words that sounded sexual actually referred to gaming? It didn't happen at all and we all misunderstood? It didn't happen and she was just being nice to the thread-starter by pretending it did?

The last time I saw something spin around this fast, it was destroying a trailer park in Kansas.

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Or does this belong in JAJ's shoe thread?
 
Byron's an actual pedophile... if you want to throw your lot in with him, go for it.

That's something else that happens in this thread.

I don't "know" who does what, but I won't believe it because someone else accused them of it.

I've been told I agree with JBJ occasionally and that makes me obviously "not the right sort of people"

You don't own the truth because you feel you're virtuous. You aren't denied truth because you admit you are not virtuous.

Again, it's this insistence that appearance must be reality that I find to be completely short-sighted and that rushing to judgment based on ad hominem attacks is bullshit.

If you do it, fine. If you think that talking to someone you consider to be unsavory on the internet makes me therefore unsavory, I think you have an error in your logic processors. I know nothing about Byron = Pedo but I know a lot about how _______ = Pedo on the internet is rife with misinformation.

I see some intelligent, reasonable people who really couldn't care less or who went out of their way to get concerns answered and then are fine.

I see groups of people attacking others for no other good reason than that they like to do that and that's what they come here for.

You, I don't really know, and I don't always agree with you, but I also don't always disagree with you. I just don't accept that association and/or accusation = guilt.

Serious accusations require serious proof. Not "I got a feeling I don't like this guy and this is how I can stick it to them."

I've seen some people be brave here and take hits for no good reason other than to be brave. I've seen some people be cowards here for no other reason than they can't bear the thought of being socially exposed and gone after the same way they go after people all the time.

You just got here, but if that's your initial impression, I'm thinking maybe you missed something.
 
So go with whatever Gods you love and I hope you learn something.

I learnt a lot!

bg23 said:
But if I was 25 and a 14 year old asked me for cyber and I KNEW he was 14 and did it anyway, well, then wtf.

For example, I learnt that this is the type of response that indicates that you WEREN'T having cyber with him at all.

Recidiva said:
Well, if I had a time machine, I'd go back and tell him this story, and he and I would laugh at you.

I wouldn't feel bad about either talking to him about it, spending time with him, or thinking that your opinion on the matter is pretty irrelevant to the conversation.

If you're going to treat me like some older lady predator who can't handle men her age, or treat him like your average 14 year old, we'd just laugh harder.

Because after all, people who don't have sexual relationships with 14 year old boys apparently often feel the need to justify their relationships with them as "not your average 14 year old".

Recidiva said:
Believe that or don't, I'm not here crowing about it being a great thing everybody should do. I'm listing it under "crime" and it's not something I'm proud about, but it is something that happened. To me it was an emotional and not a physical relationship, but was it still outside of what is considered lawful? Yes.

Do I think I did the kid some good? Yeah, actually I do. Do I think I could have been charged with a crime? Yep. If my daughter or son had a relationship with a person that much older, would I freak out? Hell yes.

I'm really confused now. Was it a crime? Were you proud of it? Was it lawful or not?

I mean if all you did was draw him AWAY from the sex stuff and NEVER got sexually involved and all you did was kill stuff with him why on earth were you not proud of it?

Hell if I met a kid who was cybering people and I said to him, "Kid, you are too young to do this stuff, lets go play DnD instead and don't you ever try to hit on me," I certainly wouldn't consider that a crime.

But apparently it is! And people, if you ever do that, apparently you should feel bad about it! Or wait, is it proud? I don't even know.
 
I'm off on a two day road trip trip tomorrow. Any chance this thread might be dead by Sunday? (He asked, hopeful.)
 
I'm off on a two day road trip trip tomorrow. Any chance this thread might be dead by Sunday? (He asked, hopeful.)

Oh, no. Any time I disagree with someone who is evil minded they will bump this thread.

If I leave the thread will be bumped because it was proof I was driven off the site.

My guess would be unsubscribe now.
 
"Evil minded"?

Not you. You're a decent person who is just concerned that harm was done, regardless of time or place.

The type of people that make threads in alt form as the boy I abused.

It is not a blanket term.
 
I am positive if the same points are made time after time one side or the other will cave in and admit they were wrong.

I am positive of this.

Keep up the good work!
 
I am positive if the same points are made time after time one side or the other will cave in and admit they were wrong.

I am positive of this.

Keep up the good work!

Then we can all get back to the important stuff like what we're having for lunch and what movies we like.
 
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