Crimes of Passion

Is it just me or does anybody else think a 16 year old boy getting some play from a 20 year old is not complaining?

Gotta love the self righteous holier than thou mentality here.

Actually all I see is a whole bunch of troll behavior.

Yeah that's right bitches my first post is busting your balls you bunch of twats.

Come on UD. That name is weak. Even if I partly agree with you.
 
I'm not sure but I can only assume you thought you'd post this story for people to laugh and give a good natured ribbing over, I doubt you expected a backlash such as this.

And you have all the right in the world to talk about your experience but not his. You say he'd come in here playing a role and the laughing about it, that's fine but unless he was the one typing the words you'll have to just excuse my disbelief.


And this has nothing to do with not liking you and everything to do with not liking your actions.

No, I didn't. I can't say I'm sorry I had the conversation, but honestly...I am not sorry I did it. That isn't bravado, it's just a reality that the conversation taught me things.

When people ask me directly...realistically if I didn't answer as to his genuine character and possible thoughts, I'd just be accused of backpedaling anyway. I feel safe doing that because I have known the guy for 20ish years now. It's like saying what Ulaven would say. I have a reasonable degree of certainty in tone and style.

I'd rather err on the side of honesty, which is what gets me into messes like this, but also teaches me things. It was genuinely not a story to crow about my past abuses beyond the reach of the law.

I don't accept the narrative that I am a serial abuser with dysfunctional relationships and a need for sexual validation from young men and I've finally slipped and everybody knew it all along.

Neither do I accept that I'm "brave" to admit it or some sort of crusader out to make sex safe for young men.

I did a crappy thing in my 20's. There were no casualties.
 
When most of you were 16 years old you couldn't get lucky with Mary J Rottencrotch so pipe down. Pimple faced bastards.
 
How can you agree with that piece shit things he has said about people has come back on him;)

Explain your name shitstain. Is it Bra as in a tit holder or is it bra like in a dumbass whiteboy trying to say bro but not as cool.

Either way you're a shitstain. Maybe get name changed to Shartman69. Talking skidmarks are annoying so just have a cup of STFU.
 
I agree with his second two sentences. Should I not agree with the truth simply becuase occasionally he is full of shit?

Let's be real if it wasn't his wife would be saying something very different.
There's very little truth if any coming from him.
 
I can juggle
I don't want any wine
No formaldehyde for me please, it makes me ill.

Are we done here yet?
 
I am interested in the people lining up on the "opportunism" side of the equation.

The woman established a sexually charged relationship with a 14-year-old boy, which she cultivated until she paid it off with physical contact when he was 16.

She considers that she did the boy a service. She considered the boy older than his chronological age, and as such, has justified the sexual aspect of her relationship.

No one is saying someone can't make a mistake. No one is even saying that temptation is a sin.

But she does not appear to have any sense, even now, of the line that was crossed. Speaking only for me, that is the difficult part.

Why defend her? She is not being attacked unfairly. No one has accused her of something she did not do. She related the story herself. I can see not going to bat against her. That's not everyone's style. But to go the other way and assume that there is ulterior motive among those who find that boundary-less behavior appalling in its continued defense, 20 years later, seems ill-focused.

The kid may feel fine about it. He may be walking around with the fond memory of the strange 29-year-old who crossed some fun lines with him. Had I had an older woman paying off my horn-jones at 14, I'd probably be fine too. That doesn't make the 29-year-old less of a predator. It just relieves her of any too-inconveniently visible reasons to examine her own behavior.

If you beat your wife, and she doesn't complain, you are still a wife-beater. Her lack of complaint may make it easy to avoid dealing with. But it doesn't change a thing that you did.

Those of you who see opportunism in the calling-out of a self-confessed predator: what gives? Do you support her actions? Is gender a part of it? Does something hit close to home?

What accounts for you not just avoiding comment on her, but instead commenting on those calling her out? I'd like to know.
 
Yet Mother Nature punches their clocks at puberty. Mather Nature is a Pedo according to the Gospel of Saint Sonny. Amen.
 
Laurel's Rule of Gee Bee Drama: every drama thread - no matter how interesting/provocative/insightful its premise - will become a Springer audience brawl after page 7.
 
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