men, do you want to see your wife with another man?

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I had mention watching my wife with another guy (or girl) is one of my fantasy. I like the way she squirms and shakes when she really gets into fucking. I have always been visual. She has no interest of sharing our bed, so the closest of getting into this fantasy is when I use dildos with her.

I am slightly back from the action and watching while working the dildo(s). She spreading herself open and shaking. When she is in the doggie position, love watch her push back against the dildo and grunting. So exciting to see her fuck herself when I just hold the dildo stationary. I could imagine it as multiple partners when we switch up the next larger toy or adding another dildo into play. With the two dildos that's the DP fantasy I'm watching.

We have one big toy that she has yet to conquer. We don't bring that one out very often. I switch it on her when she gets really crazy with the next size down. This one I usually hold stationary and let her push back on it in the doggie position. I can see her lips fairing in and stretching out as she works that dildo. That's the Large Size fantasy and more. So far she could only take 1/3 of it. One day I hope to see her conquer that thing.

Not the real thing but it sure comes close. Anyone else have similar thoughts?
 
My wife and I have had this fantisy together. Then again we havenhad a lot of fantisys together. I believe that is the best part for me. It is the both of US enjoying our freedom to explore our sexual interests. We have only had one real experience and it was very rushed and ended badly. But we still talk about what our wants and desires are. I know that either one us would be more than happy to do almost anything for the other. But with that being said and as many have stated "trust, jealousy, and self-esteem" all play a big part. When it comes down to it all are needed. Further more it's not a one sided event. No one wants to feel left outside looking in. For me it's about enjoying her in all of my wife's sexual beauty. She is amazing outside the bedroom also. The way she looks and smells. How she feels and tastes all are big turn ons for me. Then the thoughts of watching her in all of that is just a bonus! I truly am the luckiest guy alive. I think sharing is what really matters. You need to feel comfortable doing that. And that means outside the bedroom too. That builds the base for the more erotic moments. Respect also needs to be in there. After all is said and done you need to know that good or bad thre other will not make it an issue. Some day we might get to try the real thing again but for know and forever I know I still have the best wife I could have ever hoped for.
 
My wife knows I REALLY want her to have sex with one of her past b/f's that she tells me was great in bed. I don't even need to be there. The stories she tells me about them... "making love" are hot, and some new ones would be great. And.....if I could be there to watch..... *yowzaa*

Care to share any of her stories? This is the place for it.
 
ive been the extra male in a few mfm

3sums


they were pretty hot

ive never had a gf or wife that would do it
 
lets try this again

one long term gf

would tell me when she was growing up

her and girlfriends would fool around with each other


sometimes 2 at a time, sometimes more

stories always turned me on

but any woman ive dated hearing about what theyve done earlier

always makes me hard
 
I had mention watching my wife with another guy (or girl) is one of my fantasy. I like the way she squirms and shakes when she really gets into fucking. I have always been visual. She has no interest of sharing our bed, so the closest of getting into this fantasy is when I use dildos with her.

I am slightly back from the action and watching while working the dildo(s). She spreading herself open and shaking. When she is in the doggie position, love watch her push back against the dildo and grunting. So exciting to see her fuck herself when I just hold the dildo stationary. I could imagine it as multiple partners when we switch up the next larger toy or adding another dildo into play. With the two dildos that's the DP fantasy I'm watching.

We have one big toy that she has yet to conquer. We don't bring that one out very often. I switch it on her when she gets really crazy with the next size down. This one I usually hold stationary and let her push back on it in the doggie position. I can see her lips fairing in and stretching out as she works that dildo. That's the Large Size fantasy and more. So far she could only take 1/3 of it. One day I hope to see her conquer that thing.

Not the real thing but it sure comes close. Anyone else have similar thoughts?

They make dildos with suction cup bases, you can attach them to mirrors so she can have something to back onto without you having to hold it for her. This way, you can either stand back to admire her or feed her your cock for some spitroast action.
 
Mirror ;)

They make dildos with suction cup bases, you can attach them to mirrors so she can have something to back onto without you having to hold it for her. This way, you can either stand back to admire her or feed her your cock for some spitroast action.

We know about those dildo with the suction cup, but 'mounting it on a mirror' is an EXCELLENT suggestion I had not thought about. Wow, will not miss any action with the mirror back there.

I do like holding the dildo for her when she pushes back. Feeling how hard she pushes back and when she rotate her hips to hit a different spot or angle inside. Of course I 'tried' to hold it stationary for her, but can't resist once a while to give it that extra push when she bears down on it. Yes, I'm a stinker when I'm playing with her. LOL

Thanks to your idea I'm going to look for a mirror. Shatter proof would be good and some backing material to take the push back force??? I need to see what materials I have in my garage now. Thanks! ;)

PS. I almost forgot to thank you for the split-roast suggestion. With that I could surprise her next time and not missed the action back there. :D
 
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Back Up Mirror

They make dildos with suction cup bases, you can attach them to mirrors so she can have something to back onto without you having to hold it for her. This way, you can either stand back to admire her or feed her your cock for some spitroast action.

You may have something there, Texguy84. I can see it now with some TV hawker ... (tongue in cheek)

"Have you been missing the action as you back into things? You don't have to with the amazing Back Up Mirror. Attach your dildo to it and never miss the action again as you back up on it repeatly. Special offer if you act now for a two-fer-one deal. Put the second Back Up Mirror in front of you so you don't have to hurt your neck looking back. Your chiropractor will love/hate you. The Back Up Mirror will never miss the action for $19.95". :D:D
 
Complete with a shot of someone trying to back up and missing the dildo completely, before spilling lube all over the carpet. It's not an infomercial if the actors don't pretend to be knuckle-dragging idiots.
 
Made in China

Complete with a shot of someone trying to back up and missing the dildo completely, before spilling lube all over the carpet. It's not an infomercial if the actors don't pretend to be knuckle-dragging idiots.

May be someone in China is already drawing plans and buying materials.

Thanks for the laugh. :D:D

Sorry for side tracking this discussion. Hope some of you had a laugh. :D
 
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Coming from the female point of view, it has been my experience that with several of the men in my past, they have really seemed to enjoy discussing my sexual exploits. And I have enjoyed sharing...it has always opened up a sort of mysterious and exciting dimension.
 
Coming from the female point of view, it has been my experience that with several of the men in my past, they have really seemed to enjoy discussing my sexual exploits. And I have enjoyed sharing...it has always opened up a sort of mysterious and exciting dimension.

Care to share one? :)
 
My husband has asked but I know he didn't want to know everything. I just mentioned some highlights but never the full extent. He wouldn't be comfortable knowing everything.

Me, I want to know it all. I'm not jealous.
 
My husband has asked but I know he didn't want to know everything. I just mentioned some highlights but never the full extent. He wouldn't be comfortable knowing everything.

Me, I want to know it all. I'm not jealous.

I agree with you. I wanna know it all and find it somewhat of a turn on.
 
Hubby Has Asked

..... and I have shared. He has shared his previous sexual experiences with me too.

I had numerous b/f's and dates, but did not do much beyond touching except with one guy. He was special (at the time) and took my virginity in the backseat of his Dad's car. Fear of pregnancy and guilt from my religious upbringing kept me from enjoying my first time, but I told hubby anyways.
 
One single thought has always prevented me from asking that question to all the girls I ever went out with: what would happen if she asked me the same?
LOL
 
They had their SHOT :)

My husband has asked but I know he didn't want to know everything. I just mentioned some highlights but never the full extent. He wouldn't be comfortable knowing everything.

Me, I want to know it all. I'm not jealous.

I agree with you and Jason. Its a huge turn on with us. What's more those were in the past and we ended up with each other.

With all those other guys, they had their shot (sorry for the pun :D). They missed because she choose me over them.

Glad to know many of you feels the same way about sharing past exploits.
 
I have mixed feelings. While I do agree there should not be any secrets between a husband and wife and either one should be open if the question does arise unless someone feels guilty about their past then I wouldn't bring it up.
 
Agreed

My wife when talking about her past usually ends up curled up on the floor
In tears and the. The flashbacks happen
 
yummy!

My wife and I have had this fantisy together. Then again we havenhad a lot of fantisys together. I believe that is the best part for me. It is the both of US enjoying our freedom to explore our sexual interests. We have only had one real experience and it was very rushed and ended badly. But we still talk about what our wants and desires are. I know that either one us would be more than happy to do almost anything for the other. But with that being said and as many have stated "trust, jealousy, and self-esteem" all play a big part. When it comes down to it all are needed. Further more it's not a one sided event. No one wants to feel left outside looking in. For me it's about enjoying her in all of my wife's sexual beauty. She is amazing outside the bedroom also. The way she looks and smells. How she feels and tastes all are big turn ons for me. Then the thoughts of watching her in all of that is just a bonus! I truly am the luckiest guy alive. I think sharing is what really matters. You need to feel comfortable doing that. And that means outside the bedroom too. That builds the base for the more erotic moments. Respect also needs to be in there. After all is said and done you need to know that good or bad thre other will not make it an issue. Some day we might get to try the real thing again but for know and forever I know I still have the best wife I could have ever hoped for.

Mmmm, i miss u lover! Can't wait to explore our fantasies further=) You spoil me so, and i cannot wait to make it up to you.:heart: xoxox
 
Ok just want some thoughts and opinions from you guys out there. I have the biggest fantasy of my wife having sex with another man while i watch, also having a MFM while eveyone is pleasing each other..... Anyone one with me in this fantasy???? Have any of you men and or women went there????

Yes I have many times and seems as that kinda of lifestyle is happen more and more with board white couples.
 
My wife when talking about her past usually ends up curled up on the floor
In tears and the. The flashbacks happen

Wow, almost sounds like recalling bad memories. Its not good if its like that or forced out from the other person who may not wanted to share. If should not be 'thrown back' at the other person too. Only works when its shared for mutual enjoyment.
 
hmmm

Yes I have many times and seems as that kinda of lifestyle is happen more and more with board white couples.
Your comment implies the lifestyle activities of this sort aren't popular with other races? If not can you explain why you feel that way? Not onto racial debates I honestly am just curious;).
 
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