How to make amends?

[Lord Pmann]

Ohhh.... HH... is this post related to this saga?!

Sorry, I'm stalking... and bored. LOL

Bwhahahaha. I absolutely love how we all put on our detective hats here and pulled together. No one thought we could do it, but we've wasted 50% of our days on this stuff. I love it!

It's so funny how involved we all are, for whatever reason. Be it TL's hot, Latin ass and three boobs. Or her cheating friend's massive cock. Or HH's evil villain like character. For what it's worth, here is what the characters look like in my mind:

TL- Latin Librarian with a hot temper. She actually only looked like this since yesterday, when I created a Telemundo soap out of this.

http://celebritywonder.ugo.com/picture/Sofia_Vergara/ActressSofia_J__McCart_15554190.jpg

The Friend- Rugged and handsome.

http://www.charmedcast.com/images/julian-mcmahon.jpg

The girlfriend- Soft and delicate.

http://top-people.starmedia.com/tmp/swotti/cacheYW1HBMRHIHNLEWZYAWVK/imgAmanda Seyfried4.jpg

HH

http://static.rcgroups.net/forums/attachments/2/4/1/5/5/1/a3789515-32-cartman-wow-sunder.jpg?d=1297215330

 

[heavyhitter01]

Suddenly I'm MUCH MORE interested in The Friend than anything else. HH... can you bring him back?

If my friend even thought about coming back here, his wife would maim him. He's smarter than that!

 

[heavyhitter01]

Does he look like Juilan McMahon.. because if so, I'm totally willing to risk that.

Not quite, no. Picture someone a bit more studious.

The clothes are spot-on, though. The man definitely knows how to dress.

 

[heavyhitter01]

Gigantic nerd then... *sigh* I'm sticking with Julian.

I'm sure my friend's wife will be pleased!

 

[heavyhitter01]

Another update for those who care:

My friend's wife called to thank me again, and to tell me the news sparked some plans. They are taking advantage of the upcoming long weekend to "go to a very special place for a very special celebration."

 

[Ellafun]

I still don't understand why you have made yourself the personal Avenger of somebody else's fuck up.

Granted, I don't really care, but I just don't get it.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Another update for those who care:

My friend's wife called to thank me again, and to tell me the news sparked some plans. They are taking advantage of the upcoming long weekend to "go to a very special place for a very special celebration."

In my head, those two characters I posted earlier are going to be frolicking around all hot and heavy. While TL becomes a better person. This should be a movie. Starring the people I posted earlier. With lots of nudity.

Actually, Amanda Seyfried was in a movie with a storyline similar to this, called Chloe. Very good movie. Boobs were involved.

 

[whynotjustsayit]

I still don't understand why you have made yourself the personal Avenger of somebody else's fuck up.

Granted, I don't really care, but I just don't get it.

Good post.

 

[heavyhitter01]

I still don't understand why you have made yourself the personal Avenger of somebody else's fuck up.

Granted, I don't really care, but I just don't get it.

I've explained that over and over again in the thread.

 

[heavyhitter01]

In my head, those two characters I posted earlier are going to be frolicking around all hot and heavy. While TL becomes a better person. This should be a movie. Starring the people I posted earlier. With lots of nudity.

Actually, Amanda Seyfried was in a movie with a storyline similar to this, called Chloe. Very good movie. Boobs were involved.

The last time they went away on a weekend together, my friend called in sick to work on the day he got back. Turns out he had some "sex injuries" and couldn't walk right for a week.

We had a grand time ribbing him about that at our football-at-the-sports-bar night. Loudly enough so that everyone within earshot got the picture.

So I'm sure the "celebration" will involve lots of sex. Which he will hopefully tell me about when he gets back.

 

[IrishEyes80]

I'm not sure you've explained your reasoning well enough. I don't get either.

For now I have you relegated you to the "creepy corner" as this is the only way you make sense to me.

The creepy corner is kinda like the naughty corner just not as fun!

 

[whynotjustsayit]

Are you hoping TL will be reading about their weekend? It feels like it..either that or you're doing just a little too much thinking about their weekend away buddy... Things might be taking a turn from the kooky to the creepy!

JUST took a turn?

 

[heavyhitter01]

Are you hoping TL will be reading about their weekend? It feels like it..either that or you're doing just a little too much thinking about their weekend away buddy... Things might be taking a turn from the kooky to the creepy!

It feels like it because that's exactly what I'm doing. ms_intrigue can't stay away from things like this. She knows we're talking about her and so you can bet she's looking in on this thread.

 

[heavyhitter01]

I'm not sure you've explained your reasoning well enough. I don't get either.

For now I have you relegated you to the "creepy corner" as this is the only way you make sense to me.

The creepy corner is kinda like the naughty corner just not as fun!

I'm sorry I haven't explained it well enough. I have explained to the best of my ability. At some point I gave up trying, because it seemed as though no matter WHAT my reasoning was, if I wasn't willing to drop it and come to heel with what the rest of the posters on this thread thought, that I would always be relegated to the "creepy corner."

 

[Ellafun]

I've explained that over and over again in the thread.

No, you really have not. And this is the second time I've asked.

I have good friends. I have really, really good friends. I would never, however, step into their lives and designate myself as their personal Angel of Vengeance like you have done.

I am trying to understand what is in this for you; why you feel like you HAVE to do this on behalf of someone else. Can't your friend take ownership and take care of this himself? And if he didn't want to, why are you?

 

[heavyhitter01]

No, you really have not. And this is the second time I've asked.

I have good friends. I have really, really good friends. I would never, however, step into their lives and designate myself as their personal Angel of Vengeance like you have done.

I am trying to understand what is in this for you; why you feel like you HAVE to do this on behalf of someone else. Can't your friend take ownership and take care of this himself? And if he didn't want to, why are you?

Okay. Let me explain again.

I saw what happened to my friends. I saw how they struggled to get through the situation. At the time they were struggling so hard, ms_intrigue was going about her merry way, feeling no consequence at all. In fact, she was doing the same thing to other couples.

In addition to this, she continued to try to contact him. He shut down his emails and changed his phone number, but she still continued to try via other means. She would not give up, even though she had been told it was over.

My friend took care of it as best he could by shutting her out of his life in every way possible. Then he focused on his (now) wife and made their relationship the only priority. That, in my opinion, was absolutely the right thing to do.

I warned ms_intrigue myself that it was time to stop. I even went so far as to warn her somewhat publicly, as a hint that yes, I was ready to take this to the next level if she didn't straighten up her act. She continued to try to contact him despite this. At that point, I realized that she would NOT stop.

My friend could have stepped up and gone after her, but my friend is a nice guy. He's not the type who would go nuclear on anybody's ass. Fortunately, he has a friend like me, who isn't nearly as nice. So my friend focused on his relationship and I focused on keeping ms_intrigue away from them.

Why was I compelled to do it? Because I saw how hard they struggled. Because I saw how ms_intrigue flounced right over all of that. Because I saw the pain it caused both of them, and the fact that ms_intrigue was continuing to lie and cheat, in a smug little cocoon of believing she wouldn't get caught. It irritated my sense of fair play and made me realize that if someone did NOT stop her, she would continue bulldozing her way through the relationships of others and the pain my friends went through would happen over and over and over again.

It's like seeing someone in a crowded building with a loaded gun. How many people are you going to allow that person to destroy before you tackle them?

I don't think I was the only one who would have done this. I think I'm just the first person who stepped up and actually DID.

 

[whynotjustsayit]

Okay. Let me explain again.

I saw what happened to my friends. I saw how they struggled to get through the situation. At the time they were struggling so hard, ms_intrigue was going about her merry way, feeling no consequence at all. In fact, she was doing the same thing to other couples.

In addition to this, she continued to try to contact him. He shut down his emails and changed his phone number, but she still continued to try via other means. She would not give up, even though she had been told it was over.

My friend took care of it as best he could by shutting her out of his life in every way possible. Then he focused on his (now) wife and made their relationship the only priority. That, in my opinion, was absolutely the right thing to do.

I warned ms_intrigue myself that it was time to stop. I even went so far as to warn her somewhat publicly, as a hint that yes, I was ready to take this to the next level if she didn't straighten up her act. She continued to try to contact him despite this. At that point, I realized that she would NOT stop.

My friend could have stepped up and gone after her, but my friend is a nice guy. He's not the type who would go nuclear on anybody's ass. Fortunately, he has a friend like me, who isn't nearly as nice. So my friend focused on his relationship and I focused on keeping ms_intrigue away from them.

Why was I compelled to do it? Because I saw how hard they struggled. Because I saw how ms_intrigue flounced right over all of that. Because I saw the pain it caused both of them, and the fact that ms_intrigue was continuing to lie and cheat, in a smug little cocoon of believing she wouldn't get caught. It irritated my sense of fair play and made me realize that if someone did NOT stop her, she would continue bulldozing her way through the relationships of others and the pain my friends went through would happen over and over and over again.

It's like seeing someone in a crowded building with a loaded gun. How many people are you going to allow that person to destroy before you tackle them?

I don't think I was the only one who would have done this. I think I'm just the first person who stepped up and actually DID.

I don't know if I would or could do what you are doing, and so happily and smugly about it, but this is probably the most understandable explanation you've given so far. Perhaps even reasonable, given your apparent personality and mentality.

 

[IrishEyes80]

What sends you to the creepy corner for me is that you are so involved in your friends sexual life! I mean you have implied more than once that you have intimate details of his sex life and you sound like you are FAR more interested than a normal friend would be. If I were the friends wife and I could read this I would start to worry about you coming onto my guy.

Clearly if you are so interested in what he can share with you after this weekend with his wife, you need to find your own ways to get laid! Unless of course in real life you belong in the creepy corner!

 

[Ellafun]

Okay. Let me explain again.

I warned ms_intrigue myself that it was time to stop. I even went so far as to warn her somewhat publicly, as a hint that yes, I was ready to take this to the next level if she didn't straighten up her act. She continued to try to contact him despite this. At that point, I realized that she would NOT stop.

My friend could have stepped up and gone after her, but my friend is a nice guy. He's not the type who would go nuclear on anybody's ass. Fortunately, he has a friend like me, who isn't nearly as nice. So my friend focused on his relationship and I focused on keeping ms_intrigue away from them.

Why was I compelled to do it? Because I saw how hard they struggled. Because I saw how ms_intrigue flounced right over all of that. Because I saw the pain it caused both of them, and the fact that ms_intrigue was continuing to lie and cheat, in a smug little cocoon of believing she wouldn't get caught. It irritated my sense of fair play and made me realize that if someone did NOT stop her, she would continue bulldozing her way through the relationships of others and the pain my friends went through would happen over and over and over again.

It's like seeing someone in a crowded building with a loaded gun. How many people are you going to allow that person to destroy before you tackle them?

I don't think I was the only one who would have done this. I think I'm just the first person who stepped up and actually DID.

I have read your explanations previously in the thread, so I appreciate you spelling out a whole bunch of this again.

To sum up your motives: What you're telling me is that you just feel like you're the one who has to bring the bitch to justice. Because it's "the right thing to do." Justice meaning protecting all of the other married men in her path who choose to fuck with her, and making sure everybody around her knows what a tramp and homewrecker she really is. Even though it wasn't you she personally trampled. Gotcha.

Well...carry on. Thanks for answering.

*goes off to write character study for next story submission.....

 

[heavyhitter01]

What sends you to the creepy corner for me is that you are so involved in your friends sexual life! I mean you have implied more than once that you have intimate details of his sex life and you sound like you are FAR more interested than a normal friend would be. If I were the friends wife and I could read this I would start to worry about you coming onto my guy.

Clearly if you are so interested in what he can share with you after this weekend with his wife, you need to find your own ways to get laid! Unless of course in real life you belong in the creepy corner!

I work too much to get properly laid.

Have you ever been inside a guy's head? We talk about sex all the time. We think about sex all the time. When we get together, we are talking about sex. If you have a husband/boyfriend/male partner, trust me, he is likely going to talk about what it's like to have sex with you. Guys do this.

 

[IrishEyes80]

Believe me I get that guys talk....what guys don't seem to get is girls do too!

You just sound like, your friend is happily humping his wife and you are waiting in the wings for him to bring you the full report.

You just seem to eager to hear about it.

Let work go for 30 minutes to an hour and get laid!

 

[heavyhitter01]

I don't know if I would or could do what you are doing, and so happily and smugly about it, but this is probably the most understandable explanation you've given so far. Perhaps even reasonable, given your apparent personality and mentality.

I really thought I said all of this before. But perhaps it was in bits and pieces in response to different posts, and not all in one place.

There is another point about all this that I missed in my explanation: ms_intrigue really does NOT have morals or a conscience. I kept waiting to see the slightest shred of guilt, but there wasn't a single bit. Not one. Her utter lack of care was spooky, to put it mildly.

The ONLY thing she would respond to was something that directly hurt her in a way that she couldn't ignore. That's why I had to pull in those she had lied to all that time -- her family, friends, coworkers, etc. That's why I felt it necessary to hit her where her livelihood was, with the letter to her boss.

How do you send a wake up call to someone who has no conscience to begin with? So that's why I chose to take the route I did in making this happen. It was the only way I could think of that would hit her in her selfish center and actually wake her up.

 

[heavyhitter01]

Believe me I get that guys talk....what guys don't seem to get is girls do too!

You just sound like, your friend is happily humping his wife and you are waiting in the wings for him to bring you the full report.

You just seem to eager to hear about it.

Let work go for 30 minutes to an hour and get laid!

I am eager to hear about it! Apparently their sex life is great and mine absolutely sucks right now, so I am living vicariously through my friend. He knows this and feels sorry for me, probably, so he tells me.

 

[IrishEyes80]

I hope his wife doesn't see this, if my hubby was delivering every detail of our sex life to his buddies, there would be no more sex for him, which would be the only way to ensure he can't pass along the details.

And I would not consider you the friend you say you are to her.

You're on shaky ice on so many levels for me.

Just take care to not hurt the ones you love, that's all I'm sayin.

 

[heavyhitter01]

I hope his wife doesn't see this, if my hubby was delivering every detail of our sex life to his buddies, there would be no more sex for him, which would be the only way to ensure he can't pass along the details.

And I would not consider you the friend you say you are to her.

You're on shaky ice on so many levels for me.

Just take care to not hurt the ones you love, that's all I'm sayin.

She knows, and doesn't mind it. She's teased him about it in front of me. They are very devoted to each other, but very sexual people and quite open about their sex life. I don't see anything wrong with that?