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[Blue_Duck]

I go through spells where I become consumed with the overwhelming desire to orally please a man. I never find myself attracted to a man, but I often fantasize about the physical act of bringing a man to an orgasm. Again, I seem to go through cycles on these feelings...and it is very frustrating. Anyone else have to deal with or go through this? Typically I can releive myself through reading lit, online chat, or skype....but that does not replace the real thing. Anyway, bitching about it does not make the desire go away. Off to peruse some lit I suppose.

 

[Cherry_Rose]

I go through spells where I become consumed with the overwhelming desire to orally please a man. I never find myself attracted to a man, but I often fantasize about the physical act of bringing a man to an orgasm. Again, I seem to go through cycles on these feelings...and it is very frustrating. Anyone else have to deal with or go through this? Typically I can releive myself through reading lit, online chat, or skype....but that does not replace the real thing. Anyway, bitching about it does not make the desire go away. Off to peruse some lit I suppose.

I'm a woman... and married, so its not such an issue for me, but I too, go through phases where I just become single minded, need to have a cock in my mouth, suck it to orgasm. So I totally understand. Obviously I take these needs out on my husband, who 'puts up' with me being so focused, day in, day out for a few weeks. lol I would also say it feels like phrases, I love to suck cock generally, but at those times, its like I've got blinkers on, I NEED that, don't want to cum myself really just... have him cum. I always thought I was an odd ball and kept it mostly to myself. I've never heard of another person feeling that need so at the very least your post has made me feel less odd! lol

 

[basic_desires]

I'm a woman... and married, so its not such an issue for me, but I too, go through phases where I just become single minded, need to have a cock in my mouth, suck it to orgasm. So I totally understand. Obviously I take these needs out on my husband, who 'puts up' with me being so focused, day in, day out for a few weeks. lol I would also say it feels like phrases, I love to suck cock generally, but at those times, its like I've got blinkers on, I NEED that, don't want to cum myself really just... have him cum. I always thought I was an odd ball and kept it mostly to myself. I've never heard of another person feeling that need so at the very least your post has made me feel less odd! lol

...to be the husband to one of you...

 

[CandiCame]

I'm going through that right now, and I don't have a man... and I live in the middle of the bible belt, in the most redneck town ever, so it's highly unlikely that I'll find one. I can't hit on people here like I could in the city. But yeah, when I had a bf, he loved it.

I've loved sucking cock since i discovered it, so it's not like... a cycle thing, but I think the urge is building up now just because I know that I can't.

 

[peebudy]

I go through spells where I become consumed with the overwhelming desire to orally please a man. I never find myself attracted to a man, but I often fantasize about the physical act of bringing a man to an orgasm. Again, I seem to go through cycles on these feelings...and it is very frustrating. Anyone else have to deal with or go through this? Typically I can releive myself through reading lit, online chat, or skype....but that does not replace the real thing. Anyway, bitching about it does not make the desire go away. Off to peruse some lit I suppose.

BlueDuck - check out this thread and you'll find a lot of guys here share your obsession.

forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=569635

I actually used that thread as the basis for my last story submissions.

 

[Lady Reiha]

I'm a woman... and married, so its not such an issue for me, but I too, go through phases where I just become single minded, need to have a cock in my mouth, suck it to orgasm. So I totally understand. Obviously I take these needs out on my husband, who 'puts up' with me being so focused, day in, day out for a few weeks. lol I would also say it feels like phrases, I love to suck cock generally, but at those times, its like I've got blinkers on, I NEED that, don't want to cum myself really just... have him cum. I always thought I was an odd ball and kept it mostly to myself. I've never heard of another person feeling that need so at the very least your post has made me feel less odd! lol

http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lrkyn53VFl1qgwlyuo1_500.gif

 

[Cherry_Rose]

http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lrkyn53VFl1qgwlyuo1_500.gif

ahhhh?

 

[Cherry_Rose]

...to be the husband to one of you...

Yeah, I swear sometimes I see him sigh and shuffle after me when I pounce on him when he arrives home, and lead him off to my decided location to suck him off. He just accepts it now, he used to try and talk me into sex, only to be ignored as i remained single minded...

 

[Blue_Duck]

It is a very frustrating feeling....especially when nothing can really be done about it. I will certainly check out the link that peebuddy posted, and his stories as well. I have been able to act out on these feelings once over the last couple of years, but it is difficult to find a partner who is like minded, close, and safe. It just makes you wonder how many guys and gals walk around with the same thoughts/urges, but do not act on those urges. Life would be much easier and enjoyable if we were more open to those thoughts...I guess. Thanks for the feedback.
bd

 

[peebudy]

the problem is that the act of sucking another man's cock is so submissive that it's hard to find someone who wont make the experience humiliating.

my fantasy involves sucking a larger than average cock, so I find myself looking at friends, coworkers, and total strangers, trying to first figure out what they're packing, and second if I could trust them enough to let me blow them while preserving some shred of my male dignity.

Alas, I have yet to find someone with that perfect combination, and am not sure I'd even be able to bring myself to close the deal if I did.

that's why I've only encumber this fantasy thru online chats and writing erotica.

 

[CandiCame]

the problem is that the act of sucking another man's cock is so submissive that it's hard to find someone who wont make the experience humiliating.

my fantasy involves sucking a larger than average cock, so I find myself looking at friends, coworkers, and total strangers, trying to first figure out what they're packing, and second if I could trust them enough to let me blow them while preserving some shred of my male dignity.

Alas, I have yet to find someone with that perfect combination, and am not sure I'd even be able to bring myself to close the deal if I did.

that's why I've only encumber this fantasy thru online chats and writing erotica.

I like the humiliation- but there's a line between "humiliating hot" and "humiliating stupid" if that makes any sense...

 

[peebudy]

I like the humiliation- but there's a line between "humiliating hot" and "humiliating stupid" if that makes any sense...

indeed it does.

as a straight man, just thinking about the act of sucking another man's cock comes with a degree of "hot" humiliation, as would the actual deed.

However, for me, being called degrading names and/or having the cock owner trivialize the performance after the fact would be a terrible buzz kill, i.e. "stupid" humiliation.

Perhaps it's unrealistic, but I'd want to preserve my dignity and respect in the eyes of the cock owner after sucking him to orgasm and swallowing his load.

 

[peebudy]

just read this rather hot on-topic story

http://www.literotica.com/s/threesome-with-gym-friends

There's a little humiliation but mostly thegehrers"hot" kind!

 

[jimmyboy1212]

i go through phases where i love to masturbate with my ass filled for weeks then i will go weeks without having anything in my ass at all like i lose interest then suddenly a couple weeks later im craving an ass filling once more and go on an ass filling binge. seems simialr to you wanting a cock in your mouth one week then not the next.

 

[Cherry_Rose]

indeed it does.

as a straight man, just thinking about the act of sucking another man's cock comes with a degree of "hot" humiliation, as would the actual deed.

However, for me, being called degrading names and/or having the cock owner trivialize the performance after the fact would be a terrible buzz kill, i.e. "stupid" humiliation.

Perhaps it's unrealistic, but I'd want to preserve my dignity and respect in the eyes of the cock owner after sucking him to orgasm and swallowing his load.

Interesting, do you see eating a woman out as submissive too? if not, why are they different?

Personally I never have associated cock sucking with humiliation, but then I am happy in the knowledge that I love sucking cock. But I will say, I always see it as a position of power, you're totally in control, when having sex, there is a uneven playing field, in essence I need him to fuck me hard enough, and well enough to cum. But when I suck cock, its me in the driver seat, I make the decisions on how I go about bringing the orgasm on, how long it takes, and often where he will cum. So its on my say that he blows his load, and I feel that power when he's in my mouth. Its also the fact that I'm giving him pleasure, he's not taking it from me.. if that makes sense.

 

[Dalika5]

as someone who has now sucked someone I want to again, regardless of getting sucked I would like to try sucking a dick again.

 

[Blue_Duck]

sucking another man's cock is not about submission (at least not for me). i agree with cherry rose...it is more about being in contol of another persons pleasure. i have had the pleasure of doing this to two seperate men. i did not feel degraded while sucking either of thier cocks. there were no hard feelings, especially after they came. i would love to do it again, but schedules and comitments preclude this from happening.