I have had a number of thoughts about this over the years. Why is it that some straight men do enjoy pegging and some don't? It's got to be more than just pride! And what reproductive purpose is there for a man to be able to orgasm in his ass anyway? I know it doesn't make you gay but what I have noticed that from posts I see online, is that a lot of the men who enjoy it are also bi. I know I'm not gay, but are men who enjoy pegging more likely to be gay? For me I think a lot of the arousal comes from wondering "what in the name of God must she be thinking?" and knowing that she will now view men differently after this. Call me silly but if I were to get pegged I would feel like I'm letting my gender down... like I'm being a traitor to my team. I don't mean to offend; just my opinion.
From what I see online about pegging I often just get the impression that these guys just like things up their ass regardless of where who it's coming from. For me, who it's coming from would be very important. It's not just about the physical feeling. And testimony to that is the fact that I never actually bother playing with my ass in spite of how much pegging I watch. Just because I find a girl attractive doesn't even mean I'd be inclined to desire being pegged by her. I don't know if other men feel the same, but for me it tends to be girls that are older, a bit bigger in size (not fatter), and often more authoritative... Gillian Anderson for example. Does this make sense to other guys? Or would the thought of an 18 year girl pegging you turn you on as much as a 35 year old woman?
Regarding myself, I never feel like doing something submissive with a woman hen I'm feeling super confident. And if I were to meet a girl out some night and bring her home I would want to be the person taking charge sexually. Pegging wouldn't enter my mind. However if things were to later fizzle out between that girl and I, and I felt that she doesn't respect me as much, then that's when I might end up thinking of her in bed some morning after waking up horny... and imagine her dominating to me. If I feel that she now thinks less of me, it makes me more inclined to imagine her pegging me than imagining more regular sexual thoughts. Does that make sense to anyone else here?
Of men who enjoy pegging, what percentage of you would think that if a woman fucks you like that, that you can only drop in her opinion? And if not, then how come all pegging porn is based around humiliation? Is it that society yet have to get away from the stigma of it, and maybe 20 years from now I could expect pegging porn to not involve humiliation? I personally doubt it! I think that no matter what social conditioning a woman has had, or how open minded she is, I do not think there's any way you can be her hero after her witnessing that. Now it might be possible for her to still consider you a pretty cool guy, but not much more than that. So I do wonder are there men out there who are too proud to do this with their wives who seek out hookers for it?
And is there a chance that if a man likes pegging that it'll make it harder for him to get enough arousal to enjoy regular sex? Like Chris Rock once said "women can't go back in lifestyle, and men can't go back sexually". It is after all - unfortunately - a stronger orgasm, leaving alone the extra arousal from the fact you're doing something that's just wrong! Yet in many ways it seems like the most natural thing to desire done to you by a woman. Since I began looking at porn I managed to resist checking out pegging for 9 years. Eventually after a really stressful week I just felt I needed something. I often watch regular porn and often feel like I'd never need to go there again, but I find that 3 weeks is about as long as I can go without watching a quality pegging vid.
Another thought I've had which might seem random, is can you tell if a man is likely to like it up the bum based on the way he is sitting? You know the way sometimes you see people sitting in such a way that their feet would be under the chair with toes pointed downwards and soles of shoes at 90 degrees to the floor. It's kind of an unmanly way to sit, and I sometimes I get the impression that if someone sits like this, that it could mean that they might like it in the ass! I like to sit this way sometimes when I know no one is watching!
All things considered, I do wish I never knew what pegging was as there is a certain amount of shame in it for me, and I think it might affect my confidence with women. If you are going to give any insight on all this, perhaps I would find it helpful if you would reveal whether you're straight or bi. Thanks for reading.
From what I see online about pegging I often just get the impression that these guys just like things up their ass regardless of where who it's coming from. For me, who it's coming from would be very important. It's not just about the physical feeling. And testimony to that is the fact that I never actually bother playing with my ass in spite of how much pegging I watch. Just because I find a girl attractive doesn't even mean I'd be inclined to desire being pegged by her. I don't know if other men feel the same, but for me it tends to be girls that are older, a bit bigger in size (not fatter), and often more authoritative... Gillian Anderson for example. Does this make sense to other guys? Or would the thought of an 18 year girl pegging you turn you on as much as a 35 year old woman?
Regarding myself, I never feel like doing something submissive with a woman hen I'm feeling super confident. And if I were to meet a girl out some night and bring her home I would want to be the person taking charge sexually. Pegging wouldn't enter my mind. However if things were to later fizzle out between that girl and I, and I felt that she doesn't respect me as much, then that's when I might end up thinking of her in bed some morning after waking up horny... and imagine her dominating to me. If I feel that she now thinks less of me, it makes me more inclined to imagine her pegging me than imagining more regular sexual thoughts. Does that make sense to anyone else here?
Of men who enjoy pegging, what percentage of you would think that if a woman fucks you like that, that you can only drop in her opinion? And if not, then how come all pegging porn is based around humiliation? Is it that society yet have to get away from the stigma of it, and maybe 20 years from now I could expect pegging porn to not involve humiliation? I personally doubt it! I think that no matter what social conditioning a woman has had, or how open minded she is, I do not think there's any way you can be her hero after her witnessing that. Now it might be possible for her to still consider you a pretty cool guy, but not much more than that. So I do wonder are there men out there who are too proud to do this with their wives who seek out hookers for it?
And is there a chance that if a man likes pegging that it'll make it harder for him to get enough arousal to enjoy regular sex? Like Chris Rock once said "women can't go back in lifestyle, and men can't go back sexually". It is after all - unfortunately - a stronger orgasm, leaving alone the extra arousal from the fact you're doing something that's just wrong! Yet in many ways it seems like the most natural thing to desire done to you by a woman. Since I began looking at porn I managed to resist checking out pegging for 9 years. Eventually after a really stressful week I just felt I needed something. I often watch regular porn and often feel like I'd never need to go there again, but I find that 3 weeks is about as long as I can go without watching a quality pegging vid.
Another thought I've had which might seem random, is can you tell if a man is likely to like it up the bum based on the way he is sitting? You know the way sometimes you see people sitting in such a way that their feet would be under the chair with toes pointed downwards and soles of shoes at 90 degrees to the floor. It's kind of an unmanly way to sit, and I sometimes I get the impression that if someone sits like this, that it could mean that they might like it in the ass! I like to sit this way sometimes when I know no one is watching!
All things considered, I do wish I never knew what pegging was as there is a certain amount of shame in it for me, and I think it might affect my confidence with women. If you are going to give any insight on all this, perhaps I would find it helpful if you would reveal whether you're straight or bi. Thanks for reading.
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