Cock teasing and denial from dominant lady

[DaneCopenhagen]

I have been in to this issue lately since I met a dominant lady who likes to perform her art on me and I have become quite fascinated by the feeling of nearly coming and then being denied - it's frustrating in a very arousing way and sometimes it gives me a very strong sexual feeling when sitting at my desk or even in my sleep - after several denials I have experienced to cum in my sleep - a thing I haven't experienced since I was quite young. I prefer coming together with a woman and my dominant lady-friend normally allow me after a number of denials and then I cum really hard.
I wonder how many of you out there have similar experiences.

 

[DaneCopenhagen]

Any experiences on this matter out there??

 

[DaneCopenhagen]

Any experiences on this matter out there??

Still no reactions.......???

 

[Tryharder62]

I hate when no one posts to someone. I think this is a good question. Unfortunately I am of the wrong gender. But thought I might spur on some response if I answer from a woman's perspective. I have never orgasmed in my sleep but I have been denied orgasm and i think it does begin to build up.

Sometimes if it becomes too intense - well - if the person is not there you have to take matter into your own hands. I like a little play and then being promised more later.

I think more people than you know experience what you do. Hope that helps get more answers. (Love your avatar by the way)

 

[LordMorningwood]

Haven't experienced denial play, but have found that a period of abstinence does indeed make the release come stronger, and may lead to wet dreams.

 

[dreamykitten2]

I have been in to this issue lately since I met a dominant lady who likes to perform her art on me and I have become quite fascinated by the feeling of nearly coming and then being denied - it's frustrating in a very arousing way and sometimes it gives me a very strong sexual feeling when sitting at my desk or even in my sleep - after several denials I have experienced to cum in my sleep - a thing I haven't experienced since I was quite young. I prefer coming together with a woman and my dominant lady-friend normally allow me after a number of denials and then I cum really hard.
I wonder how many of you out there have similar experiences.

I'm a domme and this is my favorite thing to do with a sub!! Most of my subs beg for more! Mistress Kitten

 

[subwannabe]

Feeling hard is great and the fact is you can feel greater longer with denial. Once you cum it is basically over.

 

[oneguy4fun]

My wife tease and denies me. I am not allowed to orgasm without her permission. Often times I go 2 - 3 weeks without orgasm. It basically keeps me in a perpetual horny state. I absolutely love it! You learn very quickly that the tease is so much more fun that the orgasm itself. I could write a whole book about this.

I have on occassions had an orgasm in my sleep. It is disappointing to me because I feel like I've failed when it happens. Although the dreams sometimes are hot. My wife finds humor in it. She does not get mad. She just laughs that I can not control myself.

 

[cainuseeme1980]

Other alternatives

My mistress enjoys tease and denial. It does keep me focused and actually gives me more energy. She also has several alternatives that I am sure most of you have heard of. She loves to milk me. At first, it is a different kind of experience, but one that can be quite fulfilling for both of us. I would love to answer questions about the process or give you advice how it works best for us. Let me know if i can help.

My mistress also enjoys using chastity items. I have a cock cage that she loves to put on me more 5-10 days at a time. It ensures that no cheating occurs. I also have a have a deceiver chastity item. Both of them restrict your ability to get an erection, but your body still craves them and in fact your body becomes even more stimulated wearing them both. Again, I don't mind answering questions about either item if you are consider using them.

Hope that helps.

Cain

 

[knot_sweet]

I recently bought a chastity device / cock cage and will be using it on Him this weekend for the first time. I like the idea that He can't get hard without my permission.

His hands had a tendancy to wander. I solved that by using dental floss to tie His fingers together then to His balls and cock. I got all in one constriction, bondage and erection control

 

[ponysslave]

My wife tease and denies me. I am not allowed to orgasm without her permission. Often times I go 2 - 3 weeks without orgasm. It basically keeps me in a perpetual horny state. I absolutely love it! You learn very quickly that the tease is so much more fun that the orgasm itself. I could write a whole book about this.

I have on occassions had an orgasm in my sleep. It is disappointing to me because I feel like I've failed when it happens. Although the dreams sometimes are hot. My wife finds humor in it. She does not get mad. She just laughs that I can not control myself.

I have had experiences where I've reached orgasm in my sleep. It's both wonderful and confusing - wonderful for obvious reasons - confusing, because, like you, there is a sense of failure and disobedience when I haven't been given permission.

 

[PermanentMarks]

For me, the most intense feeling from orgasm denial is when my wife has mounted me and I think we are having what, for us, is vanilla sex. Then all of a sudden, she tells me I can't come. And since we agreed a long time ago that she outranks me in all areas of our life together. that IS it, I no longer have permission to come.

It is the shifting of 'mental gears' that is both SO intense and sweet for me.

 

[oneguy4fun]

For me, the most intense feeling from orgasm denial is when my wife has mounted me and I think we are having what, for us, is vanilla sex. Then all of a sudden, she tells me I can't come. And since we agreed a long time ago that she outranks me in all areas of our life together. that IS it, I no longer have permission to come.

It is the shifting of 'mental gears' that is both SO intense and sweet for me.

That is great! It is a great power exchange. There is something super erotic about giving a woman an orgasm while she denies yours.

 

[herfootrest]

The most fun part in my view of orgasm denial is the uncertainty. I read things where the men haven't been allowed an orgasm in months and I know I would become frustrated enough with that to either find a way to take care of myself or the relationship would break down.

To me the most intense fun is when your partner knows exactly what you like and taunts you with the fact she can do it when she wants ( and occasionally does).

I have also seen and read things where the sub is allowed and orgasm on a regular interval or predetermined time. Again to me the most control comes from the possibility of the unknown. If I have been really trying to please I may be rewarded but even in the middle of lovemaking she might change her mind. It's all up to her and she can change her mind at any moment.

 

[Jcm412]

This has always been something I wanted to try, this and edging.

 

[Bootlick]

Edging

In the gay male community, some men loved to be edged. One of my sex partners insists on being edged repeatedly when we play (oral and stroking). He gets very close to ejaculation and stops me for 30 seconds. Then I start working on him again. He experiences very intense pleasure every time he is edged. When he finally does ejaculate, the experience is great but there is not much fluid. Our theory is that it has already leaked as precum. He is in his late 40’s.

 

[Samuelx]

I have been in to this issue lately since I met a dominant lady who likes to perform her art on me and I have become quite fascinated by the feeling of nearly coming and then being denied - it's frustrating in a very arousing way and sometimes it gives me a very strong sexual feeling when sitting at my desk or even in my sleep - after several denials I have experienced to cum in my sleep - a thing I haven't experienced since I was quite young. I prefer coming together with a woman and my dominant lady-friend normally allow me after a number of denials and then I cum really hard.
I wonder how many of you out there have similar experiences.

many men are into this.

 

[oneguy4fun]

The most fun part in my view of orgasm denial is the uncertainty. I read things where the men haven't been allowed an orgasm in months and I know I would become frustrated enough with that to either find a way to take care of myself or the relationship would break down.

To me the most intense fun is when your partner knows exactly what you like and taunts you with the fact she can do it when she wants ( and occasionally does).

I have also seen and read things where the sub is allowed and orgasm on a regular interval or predetermined time. Again to me the most control comes from the possibility of the unknown. If I have been really trying to please I may be rewarded but even in the middle of lovemaking she might change her mind. It's all up to her and she can change her mind at any moment.

Definitely agree with you on the uncertainty being fun. I love that I do not know when I am going to orgasm. However, I have gone for months without orgasm and it is very enjoyable as long as your partner is still teasing and/or dominating you. In fact many men, including myself, get to a point where they enjoy the long-term denial. You get into a strange zone where you are constantly aroused and loving it.

 

[alf_2712]

DaneCopenhagen,

I have written a story about this.

Are you interested?

 

[Sam1991]

This is my greatest fantasy, to be edged over and over and not allowed to cum.

Just need to find the perfect women for me

I'd love to read your story alf!

 

[alf_2712]

Here you go!

http://www.literotica.com/s/a-little-bit-of-tandd

 

[herfootrest]

Here you go!

http://www.literotica.com/s/a-little-bit-of-tandd

Wow.

Thank you.

 

[Mad_Demons121]

Here you go!

http://www.literotica.com/s/a-little-bit-of-tandd

Awesome story.....boy I want this

 

[DaneCopenhagen]

Here you go!

http://www.literotica.com/s/a-little-bit-of-tandd

Great story!