Sex Every Day For a Month

[justherhusband]

A good friend of mine was at a big social event recently where there was a lengthy cocktail hour prior to dinner and a lot of wine served during the meal. The guys all had to leave the table after dinner to get a bunch of photos taken, leaving just the women at the table.

Somehow, the laidies' discussion turned to sex pretty quickly. Among the topics discussed was that last year, as a New Years resolutiion, my friend and his wife committed to having sex every day for an entire month to try to bring them closer together as a couple. Whether it was the false bravado fueled by the alcohol or just the excitement of the idea, every one of the women were crazy about the idea and all agreed to try it. The guys were all in shock when they returned to the table to be told what was in store for them. (but none complained!)

So I told this story to my wife and she agreed that it sounded like a fun challenge. She even went so far as to suggest we start on March 1st so we could have a 31-day month instead of starting in mid February and only getting 29 days. This board seemed like the perfect place to see if anyone else wanted to join in our challenge and track our "March Madness" progress. I suspect it may get difficult at times making sure we don't miss a single day. But maybe we can inspire and support each other to succeed.

Any takers? I know every time I hear ESPN talk about March Madness I'm going to enjoy it more than I ever have!

 

[Boundlife]

So I told this story to my wife and she agreed that it sounded like a fun challenge. She even went so far as to suggest we start on March 1st so we could have a 31-day month instead of starting in mid February and only getting 29 days. This board seemed like the perfect place to see if anyone else wanted to join in our challenge and track our "March Madness" progress. I suspect it may get difficult at times making sure we don't miss a single day. But maybe we can inspire and support each other to succeed.

Any takers? I know every time I hear ESPN talk about March Madness I'm going to enjoy it more than I ever have!

Good luck

 

[TheLM]

OP's house for the entire month of March:

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[justherhusband]

OP's house for the entire month of March:

http://annarborchronicle.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dandelions2.jpg

Fucking hilarious! I only hope so!

 

[PutMeInCoach12]

I'd love to give this a try if I could talk my hubby into it.

 

[infinity706]

Sex every day for a month is easy. It's just difficult if you only have one sexual partner.

 

[Roc_crawl]

I think the Mrs. can be easily swayed...

What constitutes SEX as concerns our challenge? Orgasms for both? Penetration to orgasm for both?

If we meet with two couples we play with and we have sex with each other and two others does that count as three?

Just curious...

 

[AevaLynn]

My husband decided he was going to see if I was all talk or really did want sex everyday here a while back. We went 33 days straight, ending with 9 days straight of anal. I ended up injured trying to ride him and a dildo reverse cowgirl style

Otherwise who knows how long we would have gone on! Good luck and have fun with it

 

[berk1234]

I think the Mrs. can be easily swayed...

What constitutes SEX as concerns our challenge? Orgasms for both? Penetration to orgasm for both?

If we meet with two couples we play with and we have sex with each other and two others does that count as three?

Just curious...

I've always tracked how often my wife and I have sex...weird, but I like numbers. I've always considered anytime that we do something where we attempt to give one of us an orgasm as being having sex. So if I go down on her, not her favorite thing, and she doesn't get off. We still count that as having sex that day. I'd love to try the thirty day challenge, doubt wife would be up for it though.

 

[shesnotcheating]

A good friend of mine was at a big social event recently where there was a lengthy cocktail hour prior to dinner and a lot of wine served during the meal. The guys all had to leave the table after dinner to get a bunch of photos taken, leaving just the women at the table.

Somehow, the laidies' discussion turned to sex pretty quickly. Among the topics discussed was that last year, as a New Years resolutiion, my friend and his wife committed to having sex every day for an entire month to try to bring them closer together as a couple. Whether it was the false bravado fueled by the alcohol or just the excitement of the idea, every one of the women were crazy about the idea and all agreed to try it. The guys were all in shock when they returned to the table to be told what was in store for them. (but none complained!)

So I told this story to my wife and she agreed that it sounded like a fun challenge. She even went so far as to suggest we start on March 1st so we could have a 31-day month instead of starting in mid February and only getting 29 days. This board seemed like the perfect place to see if anyone else wanted to join in our challenge and track our "March Madness" progress. I suspect it may get difficult at times making sure we don't miss a single day. But maybe we can inspire and support each other to succeed.

Any takers? I know every time I hear ESPN talk about March Madness I'm going to enjoy it more than I ever have!

31 days of sex? That's eight months for me

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think the Mrs. can be easily swayed...

What constitutes SEX as concerns our challenge? Orgasms for both? Penetration to orgasm for both?

If we meet with two couples we play with and we have sex with each other and two others does that count as three?

Just curious...

I vote Orgasms* for both partners, regardless of penetration. Oral, frottage, hands, butts.. I encourage all of you to find out how many other ways there are, beyond Penis-in-vagina, to have sex.

These orgasms don't have to be simultaneous.

And in fact, I'm going to suggest that for some folks, the goal might be orgasm for HER every day, with his being incidental. Or depending on how things work for your marriage, the other way around, basically, whoever has the hardest time achieving orgasm being the one that gets the concentration.

Lesbians know this secret-- there is something incredible about knowing that your partner's satisfaction is in how well she gets you off. And then once you've recovered -- you go after hers.

ETA: *Or as someone pointed out, the attempt at an orgasm

 

[blackfire87]

This would be awesome! Unfortunately I can't, my fiance is leaving for all of March. Maybe April xD

 

[sombrablanca]

This is one thing I insist all my partners know... How much I love pleasuring them. Hence my annoyance if it is faked. >.< Tell me how I can please you so we're both happy.

I vote Orgasms* for both partners, regardless of penetration. Oral, frottage, hands, butts.. I encourage all of you to find out how many other ways there are, beyond Penis-in-vagina, to have sex.

These orgasms don't have to be simultaneous.

And in fact, I'm going to suggest that for some folks, the goal might be orgasm for HER every day, with his being incidental. Or depending on how things work for your marriage, the other way around, basically, whoever has the hardest time achieving orgasm being the one that gets the concentration.

Lesbians know this secret-- there is something incredible about knowing that your partner's satisfaction is in how well she gets you off. And then once you've recovered -- you go after hers.

ETA: *Or as someone pointed out, the attempt at an orgasm

 

[peachesmelba]

'xactly!!!

Sex every day for a month is easy. It's just difficult if you only have one sexual partner.

Does cyber play and phone sex count?

 

[Stella_Omega]

This would be awesome! Unfortunately I can't, my fiance is leaving for all of March. Maybe April xD

Not to worry, we can start another heat in a couple of months. heh heh I said 'heat'...

I'm excited! Even though I have no SO to do this with, I am anticipating wonderful stories from all participants...


Tell you what, we could add solo sex as a separate category for us singles or dating types.

 

[Pleasesuckle]

OH this would be a WONDERFUL challenge! 31 days straight would have been more than two decades in my marriage....which is one of many reasons I'll be free at the end of March.

*wanders off to see if there is someone to take this challenge with me.....

 

[boredVAwife]

Sex every day for a month is easy. It's just difficult if you only have one sexual partner.

*sighs* ya tell me about it. My sex partner is battery operated.

 

[jake34]

*sighs* ya tell me about it. My sex partner is battery operated.

Wait a minute.

What the hell is sex?

 

[boredVAwife]

*sighs* ya tell me about it. My sex partner is battery operated.

 

[shewantsmore]

Thank god for batteries that what i say,still its good to set goals

 

[boredVAwife]

Thank god for batteries that what i say,still its good to set goals

Ok I can see you so that means you are prone to fibbing!

 

[shewantsmore]

we all do now and again,i know i wont manage everyday a month unless i count doing it myself

 

[boredVAwife]

If I looked as good as you I'd have a full social calander. To hell with the batteries.

 

[peachesmelba]

Now THERE's an Idea!

Tell you what, we could add solo sex as a separate category for us singles or dating types.[/QUOTE]

Sucks when the SO's work keeps him away for weeks at a time....but if we could count solo (cyber/phone or battery driven) then we'd have something to work with!

 

[boredVAwife]

My vibe has requested comp time and a trip to club med. Sarcastic piece of shit.