How did you meet him or her?

[Bwmm1250k]

If you have a lover, fuck buddy, a guy or girl you meet on the down low, how did you meet?

I ask because I'm kinda tired of the serial hook up thing...want to learn from those on this wonderful board who've found a lover....

Thanks!

 

[StarFang]

If you have a lover, fuck buddy, a guy or girl you meet on the down low, how did you meet?

I ask because I'm kinda tired of the serial hook up thing...want to learn from those on this wonderful board who've found a lover....

Thanks!

Gaydargirls.com

6 years ago exactly in 4 days.

 

[CandiCame]

I met my ex through friends. I went to school with his roommate- we had 3D foundation together and later worked for the same company. He introduced me to his roommate, but we didn't start dating until months later.

 

[kilkennycpl]

ok,,bit of a wee story here ,,dont know if this is what you were hoping for ,,,i had seen this drop dead sexy woman for months in the bar i used to go into but i was with someone else (just wasting time really as i was heading off out of the country for a year or more to go and work in orphanages in a fucked up place) and she was well so very very beautiful and as with such lady's theres always guys around,,,,,anyway about 5 weeks before i flew out i was alone in the bar and she was with her girls i asked her to tell me a joke,,(best chat up line i could think of,,,never said i was smooth),,that was the beginning of the rest of my life ,,,when i got back in town we got back together and 18 years later we are still together and loving each day with her

 

[mantra23]

She was a clerk in a retail store, I was shopping for a present for a female acquaintance and we just clicked. She flirted so on my way out I wrote my cell number on my business card and that was it.

 

[Trapper_Jock_Mcintyre]

My GF Sparky and I met in college. I was very much a sort of soft baby-dyke at the time, a tomboy in formation. I liken it to my tomboy puberty.

So I was at a GLBT union mixer and we're all standing around staring at each other. I see this person enter the room. The person had a certain air about them, and at first sight of the short haircut, shirt, tie and khakis, I thought the person was a twinky gay boy. The lack of a bulge in the crotch of the pants told me otherwise. This was Sparky.

That night I circled her like a moon around a planet. Then finally as she went for a coffee I moved in. I am very 'smell' aware and I recall she had fresh scent about her -- a kind of boys lockerroom clean mixed with Irish Spring soap.

Launch into stupid small talk mode. For some strange reason I found myself hanging around her the rest of the night. Eventually we walked back to the dorms together.

Walk led to coffee a few days later. Coffee led to a date. Date led to sex. All of this was wrappered in finding out that we had a lot in common, gender play, underwear fetish, turned on by gay boy sex, etc -- but she was a lot more daring and advanced than me.

Eventually we moved into an apartment together and now our jockstraps and y-fronts share the same chest of drawers

And that's that -- we joke that we're two gay guys who happen to be girls

Trap

 

[Fatemaster]

I met my last boy-friend-with-benefits, I met him totally accidentally on Craigslist while I was looking for an apartment to rent in the D.C. area. I ended up moving in, and late one night after a lot of drinks, he told me he was gay, and I confessed I was bi.

Although I don't live with him anymore, we still get together for occasional playtimes...unfortunately we're both really busy...so not as much as I would like.

 

[titerear71106]

I met my bf at a local book store in the gay and lesbian section. We have been together 8 months now

 

[woman_inside]

the only regular f-buddy I've had, I met him via squirt.