Can someone enlighten me please?

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What thrill does someone get from presenting themselves not as they truly are?

In light of all the hub bub here... a person posting pics not of themselves and claiming it is them, or a guy pretending to be a woman.

If I wanted to get a thrill from attention drawn to me or about me, I would at least want it to be actually myself... a true image or persona I put out there, not one fabricated because whatever attention you draw is based on a lie.

This has always perplexed me. Anyone know the rationale or what one derives from posing as someone they're not?
 
What thrill does someone get from presenting themselves not as they truly are?

In light of all the hub bub here... a person posting pics not of themselves and claiming it is them, or a guy pretending to be a woman.

If I wanted to get a thrill from attention drawn to me or about me, I would at least want it to be actually myself... a true image or persona I put out there, not one fabricated because whatever attention you draw is based on a lie.

This has always perplexed me. Anyone know the rationale or what one derives from posing as someone they're not?

fantasy. /thread.
 
I wish Lance was around to explain how fucked up this lovely place we all adore actually is.
 
Thank you, thank you! lol, Yes, that I know, but what the hell type of fantasy is that?

We can't judge another's fantasy. Who are we to say what is a fantasy or not? I for one have never misrepresented myself. My fantasy is a weekend alone watching football with a never ending cooler of icy cold beer.

I could give a ratz ass who is a man or woman here. Doesn't change a thing in my world. You are all just pixels on my screen.
 
:icanpostmorelipsthanyou:

I'm off to bed, Sweetness. Hope all is well. We need to get caught up soon.

I know Beautiful... sorry... lots o things as of late, yeah not an excuse but I have been here and there and everywhere in between.

Curl up with sweet dreams 'many lips'. :kiss:
 
We can't judge another's fantasy. Who are we to say what is a fantasy or not? I for one have never misrepresented myself. My fantasy is a weekend alone watching football with a never ending cooler of icy cold beer.

I could give a ratz ass who is a man or woman here. Doesn't change a thing in my world. You are all just pixels on my screen.

I know what you mean and I am sorry if I came off as passing judgement. I just truly want, if it can, be explained to me. I suppose it is kind of like someone asking another to explain what a certain type of fetish is.

What type of beer?
 
I for one have never misrepresented myself. My fantasy is a weekend alone watching football with a never ending cooler of icy cold beer.

I could give a ratz ass who is a man or woman here. Doesn't change a thing in my world. You are all just pixels on my screen.

Well, hmmmm. We all get that you're a Chicago Cubs fan, hence the name.

But for years you've had that blonde Cubs gal as your avatar. Tiny little picture, can't make out much but if I were to stroll in here as a newb I'd think you were a chick. *shrug

Thing is, you're a man, yes?
 
I know what you mean and I am sorry if I came off as passing judgement. I just truly want, if it can, be explained to me. I suppose it is kind of like someone asking another to explain what a certain type of fetish is.

What type of beer?

Sometimes accepting and disagreeing is better than understanding. You can always disagree and move on.

Guinness.
 
I know Beautiful... sorry... lots o things as of late, yeah not an excuse but I have been here and there and everywhere in between.

Curl up with sweet dreams 'many lips'. :kiss:

You do know he's married, yes? Some of you are like the scum of ponds.
 
Well, hmmmm. We all get that you're a Chicago Cubs fan, hence the name.

But for years you've had that blonde Cubs gal as your avatar. Tiny little picture, can't make out much but if I were to stroll in here as a newb I'd think you were a chick. *shrug

Thing is, you're a man, yes?

Yes. I have never meant to show otherwise. I used to get a lot of PM's from many men. Some who have been here longer than you and have more posts.

I'm not gay nor bisexual. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

Someone suggested that I put something in my sig to explain. So I did.

If you even had five minutes of experience on the web, you would know who that beautiful girl in my av is.
 
You can be annonymous and still represent yourself truthfully. I've had avatars that aren't actually me. But they could be.

Part of the allure for me is to be myself, I guess.
 
You can be annonymous and still represent yourself truthfully. I've had avatars that aren't actually me. But they could be.

Part of the allure for me is to be myself, I guess.

Of course. But my original point is not being anonymous or not, but presenting yourself as something completely opposite of yourself solely to draw attention to that persona... I am curious as to what thrill someone gets out of that. Like a guy pretending to be a woman and taunting men on a forum. Is the thrill a laugh watching other men's reactions that he clearly knows are based on a fabrication?
 
Of course. But my original point is not being anonymous or not, but presenting yourself as something completely opposite of yourself solely to draw attention to that persona... I am curious as to what thrill someone gets out of that. Like a guy pretending to be a woman and taunting men on a forum. Is the thrill a laugh watching other men's reactions that he clearly knows are based on a fabrication?

Probably a lot of that.
 
What thrill does someone get from presenting themselves not as they truly are?

In light of all the hub bub here... a person posting pics not of themselves and claiming it is them, or a guy pretending to be a woman.

If I wanted to get a thrill from attention drawn to me or about me, I would at least want it to be actually myself... a true image or persona I put out there, not one fabricated because whatever attention you draw is based on a lie.

This has always perplexed me. Anyone know the rationale or what one derives from posing as someone they're not?



People often start as posting a personal ad, or participating in an AmPics thread.
Maybe they pretend to be something they aren't in order to get more attention, and find themselves trapped.

I haven't known of a lot of men posing as women on the GB, but I figured it's a great way for a guy to get cock pictures sent to him, if he so desired.

I think most people pose as something they're not to avoid criticism. It's not a friendly place.


I have no regrets about being myself here. I met Cheyenne and the rest is history.
 
People often start as posting a personal ad, or participating in an AmPics thread.
Maybe they pretend to be something they aren't in order to get more attention, and find themselves trapped.

I haven't known of a lot of men posing as women on the GB, but I figured it's a great way for a guy to get cock pictures sent to him, if he so desired.

I think most people pose as something they're not to avoid criticism. It's not a friendly place.


I have no regrets about being myself here. I met Cheyenne and the rest is history.

Thank you for your reply. I know it is just my opinion, but it seems sad to me.

I am glad your found Cheyenne. I found my One here. It is nice finding another here that is also sexually open minded... and sharing similar proclivities doesn't hurt.

All the best to you and your One.
 
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