Women- what most attracts you to a man?

[HAL_9000]

Or doing the dishes with her and turning it into something much more fun!

Sorry, football's on.

 

[badbabysitter]

Dear Reader
All of the above happens in RORYs dreams.

Dear Reader

You havent dated a woman since before they were allowed to vote

 

[piccicatopolka]

Sorry, football's on.

Oh that can be really really fun too!

 

[HAL_9000]

Oh that can be really really fun too!

Let's just order pizza.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

one.. you make these claims about throngs of plus size women not being able to get dates.. but don't give any examples

Wrong-o, BB - I told you to simply google "why do guys hate fat chicks" and you can come up with a ton of examples of women complaining. Hell, look up "fat acceptance" or even "plus sized women" and you can get buried in examples of women complaining.

two.. i have posted a pic of myself before on this site..in fact, a couple.. my reward was having a cyber stalkers

Foolish move.

as for when women whine and bitch about their love life on here..that's when you attack them

Everyone else runs to her rescue.

That's the perk of being a woman - everyone's always running to your fucking rescue. You never have to be strong, you just need a strong man. When the heat is on you all you have to do is wait for the men to come rush to your rescue.

and you seem to mistake sex life for love life.. just so you know, there is a difference.. but thanks for the broad assed assumption

You can have sex without a love life, but you cannot have much of a love life without sex.

for a guy so hell bent on declaring how whiny women are.. you whine and bitch about women ALL THE TIME

Yet again you show you have different rules for men than you have for women.

as for the last.. completely speculative.. I was very shy in high school.. I wasnt asked out by a boy till I started college..

If you're a shy guy you will wait long past college before you're ever asked out.

 

[redheadedtxn]

It's more about a woman's confidence and how she presents/carries herself than anything else....at least that's the case for the women I'm attracted to.

 

[badbabysitter]

Wrong-o, BB - I told you to simply google "why do guys hate fat chicks" and you can come up with a ton of examples of women complaining. Hell, look up "fat acceptance" or even "plus sized women" and you can get buried in examples of women complaining.


Foolish move.


Everyone else runs to her rescue.

That's the perk of being a woman - everyone's always running to your fucking rescue. You never have to be strong, you just need a strong man. When the heat is on you all you have to do is wait for the men to come rush to your rescue.


You can have sex without a love life, but you cannot have much of a love life without sex.


Yet again you show you have different rules for men than you have for women.


If you're a shy guy you will wait long past college before you're ever asked out.

sayingthat you can give tonnes of examples and actually doing so are two different things....just so you know

as for " foolish move".. in the previous post you criticize me for not posting a pic.. and when I do post a pic you criticize me again.. yet somehow you're not bitching about it?

nextly when i point you bitch at women .. you go and attack them again.. I am personally failig to see how this is an example of women rushing to the rescue

and how is you whining and bitching about women all the time a different set of rules.. it's just you whiny and bitching about women all the time.. nothing speculative about that all, and deflection won't change it either

and as for deflection.. I've given you two examples of shy women not getting approached.. which refuted your arguement..and you changed the subject by discussing shy men

but yes, I completely see why shy men won't be approached.. but you also have to consider we're in a society that rewards men for being aggressive with women and judges women if they do the same

so untill there's a level playing field, shy people will always get the short end of the stick

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

sayingthat you can give tonnes of examples and actually doing so are two different things....just so you know

But I just told you where the examples are. Do a damned google search. Are you so lazy that you can't google the term and come up with sites like this? Or posts like this? I can find you TONS more if you don't believe these two are genuine.

as for " foolish move".. in the previous post you criticize me

Reading comprehension is not your friend. From the get go, I told you that posting your picture is actually ill-advised.

Not that I would suggest you should.

^^^ did you not read that?

nextly when i point you bitch at women .. you go and attack them again.. I am personally failig to see how this is an example of women rushing to the rescue

I said that the moment a man complains about how women behave, he gets pounced on. Women don't get pounced on for complaining about men. You define it as whining when men complain, but you don't define it as such when women complain.

You keep dodging these basic facts.

and as for deflection.. I've given you two examples of shy women not getting approached.. which refuted your arguement..and you changed the subject by discussing shy men

No, I said your anecdotes do not refute the general reality.

but yes, I completely see why shy men won't be approached.. but you also have to consider we're in a society that rewards men for being aggressive with women and judges women if they do the same

You are wrong again. Men like women who make the first move.

so untill there's a level playing field, shy people will always get the short end of the stick[/QUOTE]

 

[Bellatrixie]

Funny. Funny does it for me every fucking time. I care about that more then what he looks like, how much he makes and even whether he is a nice person (that one has bitten me in the ass a couple of times)...but yeah....make me laugh and you have me interested. Make me belly laugh and I am yours.

 

[piccicatopolka]

Funny. Funny does it for me every fucking time. I care about that more then what he looks like, how much he makes and even whether he is a nice person (that one has bitten me in the ass a couple of times)...but yeah....make me laugh and you have me interested. Make me belly laugh and I am yours.

A good sense of humor really makes it for me too. Every man has their own interesting combination of all of these traits. There's what most attracts us to them and then there's what makes them a keeper for life. We change and so do they.

I'm not with the father of my children because he finally started really being himself. The nicer clothes, the good job, the striving to please me in bed... pretty much all of that was fake. It took him a long time to admit it. The true love that I give to him is leaving him the fuck alone to be the slob that he truly desires to be. And what he's become is not very attractive even though he's still a handsome man.

 

[MonaLittle]

Honesty, sincerity, humor, confidence, intelligence and a whole lot of naughtiness.

 

[warrior queen]

Is this a true benchmark? Like a real deal breaker?

Yes. Approach me with stained/broken teeth and grubby fingernails, and you don't get a look-in. I have very high personal hygeine standards, and have found that people who don't look after these things generally aren't very hygeinic in any other areas also.
I assumed this poll was all about the physical, so I answered as such.

 

[MonaLittle]

Yes. Approach me with stained/broken teeth and grubby fingernails, and you don't get a look-in. I have very high personal hygeine standards, and have found that people who don't look after these things generally aren't very hygeinic in any other areas also.
I assumed this poll was all about the physical, so I answered as such.

Stained and broken teeth??? Where do you go to meet guys? lol

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Yes. Approach me with stained/broken teeth and grubby fingernails

Oh come on now, who the hell does that.

 

[warrior queen]

Stained and broken teeth??? Where do you go to meet guys? lol

Heh - luckily, I have never actually had to 'go out to meet guys'.
But if you look carefully when you're out, you'll see more than a few who simply don't look after these parts of themselves.
Whenever I see someone like that, I have to wonder if they actually ever get a kiss? Can you imagine?!

Btw - the man I have is very good about looking after himself physically
Definitely a BIG plus (despite his clutter flaws!)

 

[cjh]

Honesty, sincerity, humor, confidence, intelligence and a whole lot of naughtiness.

that's a great list regardless of gender.

 

[warrior queen]

Oh come on now, who the hell does that.

Before meeting my SO, I had a date with a very wealthy businessman (a friend introduced us).
Extreme wealth (picked me up in a Bentley), very funny and charming, intelligent and erudite, well-dressed (Armani, would you believe!)
All went well till I noticed he had stained teeth.
Then I caught a whiff of bad breath.
Total turn-off.
Never went on another date.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Heh - luckily, I have never actually had to 'go out to meet guys'.
But if you look carefully when you're out, you'll see more than a few who simply don't look after these parts of themselves.
Whenever I see someone like that, I have to wonder if they actually ever get a kiss? Can you imagine?!

Btw - the man I have is very good about looking after himself physically
Definitely a BIG plus (despite his clutter flaws!)

I used to have to BEG my ex to brush his teeth. ::shudders::

 

[sexiskye]

For me it's personality, values etc.

Looks is up there to b/c if I'm not attracted to him physically then well the rest doesn't matter.

My husband is my best friend and lover wouldn't have it any other way

 

[warrior queen]

I used to have to BEG my ex to brush his teeth. ::shudders::

I know, right?!
Nails are the same for me. I don't want your germy, dirt-encrusted nails anywhere NEAR my clit, thankyou!

 

[MonaLittle]

that's a great list regardless of gender.

I see your point.....and raise you a little sugar and spice

 

[redheadedtxn]

I know, right?!
Nails are the same for me. I don't want your germy, dirt-encrusted nails anywhere NEAR my clit, thankyou!

He was grody. I don't know why I ever married him to begin with.

 

[warrior queen]

He was grody. I don't know why I ever married him to begin with.

Yeah - I got caught with one who did all the right things BEFORE the wedding.
Afterwards, the truth came out
I stuck with it for a while, but eventually he just disgusted me and I had to get out.

 

[cjh]

I see your point.....and raise you a little sugar and spice

and some not-quite-so-nice?

 

[badbabysitter]

But I just told you where the examples are. Do a damned google search. Are you so lazy that you can't google the term and come up with sites like this? Or posts like this? I can find you TONS more if you don't believe these two are genuine.


Reading comprehension is not your friend. From the get go, I told you that posting your picture is actually ill-advised.


^^^ did you not read that?


I said that the moment a man complains about how women behave, he gets pounced on. Women don't get pounced on for complaining about men. You define it as whining when men complain, but you don't define it as such when women complain.

You keep dodging these basic facts.


No, I said your anecdotes do not refute the general reality.


You are wrong again. Men like women who make the first move.

so untill there's a level playing field, shy people will always get the short end of the stick

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first of all it's not my job to support your arguement.. I asked YOU to give ME examples.. that's how debate works...one side makes an arguement counters it with evidentiary support and the other side refutes it ideally using the same means

and according to your first article it's not even the women bitching about being fat..it's the men bitching about the women being fat

the second is from a forum.. fer fucks sake, a forum for autism and aspergers.. that's reaching.. if we were using forums as substantial proof.. we would have to conclude that the world is populated by hot bisexual 18 year olds, and that Cade really has a lot of friends


so in case it still doesnt qualify as women bitching about weight, it's men.. and in the second.. well, you do have a qunatative arguement.. but to say it's reaching for evidence of your massive theory of women bitching is a huge stretch


any time I level any sort of criticism about something a man does you label it as misandry and man hating.. you've done it multiple times

yet somehow you're shocked that your constant whining and bleating about women elicits a negative response

Please show me.. on this board for example ,, that there's a posting by a woman about men that doesnt have negative criticism from men... I freaking dare you

as for my antecdotes refuting reality.. once again, I must point out untill you brought up that autism forum you had yet to bring up a single anecdotal or substantiative post to prove your claims of " tonnes" of women

as for the last post.. sheesh man.. I didnt say the ONLY way people hook up is due to agressive men.. I was merely pointing out that we're still in a society that values agressive men over agressive women



or do you think there are no men in this world that don't like agressive women???

or that the greater majority of initiation between man and woman isn't by the male?


.. to quote you " reading comprehension isnt your strong point"