men, do you want to see your wife with another man?

[NestleSnipes]

I know this will probably be an unpopular position to take on the fetish forum but if my man wanted to share me with another man I would kick him in the nuts and leave him for dead. I want a man to possess me, wanting only me and not wanting to share. If he is a real man he will and can satisfy my desires and I need no other man.

I tend to sit on this side of the fence.

As someone who is in a non-exclusive long distance relationship and handles the emotions that go into something like that I can't say I have any desire to watch it or allow it while we're together.

There is something to be said about the natural territorial tendencies of man.

To each his own though. Touche to those who can offer such things to their partner.

 

[michelle3]

I do and I have

There is nothing like watching your hot wife fuck another man. My wife and i have been with 5 dfferent men over the years three black and two white men. The biggest turn on is with black men, she loves to be fucked by a well hung black man, the darker the better. I have been there every time and it really trns me on. We have also been with 4 women and that was great too. If you havent tried it yet you should, it is HOT

 

[mffl_dirk]

I have been the 3rd in a number of MFM's. None really in the cuckholding realm completely. There was no humiliation, just guys that loved to see their wives get fucked. A few joined in, but most took pictures or just talked dirty to her while she did it. I have never done it with my signifigant other, she is not into it at all. I would definately let her have another guy if she wanted as long as I might get a return favor sometime.

 

[jrwams]

I would love to see my wife with another guy. We have talked about it during sex and she finds it really exciting and cums real hard when we talk about it. Fast forward to last friday night we went to a local bar for a few drinks and some live music. My wife was dressed in a nice pair of tight jeans that really made her ass look incredible and a tank top that showed off her tits beautifully. We were talking and having a good time, she than decided to go and sit the bar and get a glass of water and another glass of wine.
There was a good looking younger guy sitting next to her, and asked her if she was there alone and told her that she was beautiful. My wife started to talk to him and leaning into him, putting her arm around his back and really getting into the whole conversation with this guy. I during this time was still sitting at our table watching her get friendly with him, and I could feel my dick starting to get hard. They talked for awhile, she than went out to the dance floor to dance. When the guy walked up behind her and started to grind on her and grope her ass to which she pushed in harder to him.

 

[PhilGarlic]

I would love to see my wife with another guy. We have talked about it during sex and she finds it really exciting and cums real hard when we talk about it. Fast forward to last friday night we went to a local bar for a few drinks and some live music. My wife was dressed in a nice pair of tight jeans that really made her ass look incredible and a tank top that showed off her tits beautifully. We were talking and having a good time, she than decided to go and sit the bar and get a glass of water and another glass of wine.
There was a good looking younger guy sitting next to her, and asked her if she was there alone and told her that she was beautiful. My wife started to talk to him and leaning into him, putting her arm around his back and really getting into the whole conversation with this guy. I during this time was still sitting at our table watching her get friendly with him, and I could feel my dick starting to get hard. They talked for awhile, she than went out to the dance floor to dance. When the guy walked up behind her and started to grind on her and grope her ass to which she pushed in harder to him.

and then what?

 

[jrwams]

To Continue!
After dancing for a couple of songs they went back up to the bar and he smacked her on the ass and continued to talk. It was during this time that the guy took my wifes hand and placed it on his dick. She later told me that his dick was hard and that she liked the way it felt when she stroked it. As she was stroking his dick she took his hand and put it down her top so he could play with her tits, he grabbed and pinched her nipples which made her pussy extremely wet, she said it felt good having another guy want her in this way. While they were groping each other my wife leaned into him and they kissed for what seemed in my eyes an eternity all the while I am sitting 10 ft away watching all this with a hard dick myself.
This is were it ended as my wife started getting nervous when he kept asking her to go home with him. This was the first time she has done anything like this. She really enjoyed it but it made her nervous. She is now only telling me pits and pieces at a time, to tease me and play with my mind. Let me tell you it is working, i am going crazy as she tells me what he said and how she felt when she touched and kissed him and she let him

 

[jrwams]

grab her tits while I was watching, though I didn't see her put his hand down her top. This is what she told me that transpired

 

[warner34]

Great story JR. As with everyone else here. I have the same fantasies. JR yours is the most relavant to our situations.

We were in Vegas and at Kao eating dinner. When she got up to use the restroom the hallway was packed and she had to turn sideways to get through. While scooting through she was pressed against the wall by some guy who pressed his groin into her ass. He even copped a feel of her tits. She didn't tell me until we were fucking later that night. I came instantly.

 

[jrwams]

It was rather exciting to watch, I was so turned on we went home and fucked the rest of the night. We are planning another outing next weekend. I can't wait to see what happens.

 

[Biker_Type]

no, n o, really hell no. now i do like other men looking, but no touching, trading etc! i'd loan you my harley before i'd let you lay a hand on my OL!!!

 

[jrwams]

Great story JR. As with everyone else here. I have the same fantasies. JR yours is the most relavant to our situations.

We were in Vegas and at Kao eating dinner. When she got up to use the restroom the hallway was packed and she had to turn sideways to get through. While scooting through she was pressed against the wall by some guy who pressed his groin into her ass. He even copped a feel of her tits. She didn't tell me until we were fucking later that night. I came instantly.

So you enjoyed it Warner? Is it something you might try again?

 

[WLF]

I would love to see my girlfriend fucking another guy. I get really turned on thinking about it! shes blonde, a little chubby but super cute and very shy my biggest fantasy is to have a big black guy seduce her and fuck her in front of me.

Anyone have experience raising this fantasy with their shy gf/wife? any tips?

 

[abella117]

My husband watches as his mates fuck me, its a turn on for the both of us.

What can i say, he's proud of me and wants to share

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

if a man or a woman can separate the idea of love and sex, i think it would be a good thing to try at least once.

i remember read Ron Jeremy's autobiography and one story he told was about a couple who came up to him and asked if he could have sex with her. they both loved each other very much, but the husband couldn't have sex for a reason i don't remember.

he banged her doggy style while he sat on the couch and they both held each other. while he was fucking her, he could see in both of them that they loved each other deeply and he (ron) was more like a toy than someone actually fucking her.

couples absolutely love each other as much as they can, but can't have sex because of age, medication, illness, etc. if it was done in a loving manner and the husband was there to watch, i think it could be a beautiful thing.

how great would it be to be able to give your wife an orgasm from sex when you can't?

 

[Runr4Life]

I have had a few MFM before, the husband didn't participate much, just with the wife, focusing on her. Perfectly put, love and sex if put seperate, are great. I've had a great time, knowing I was only there for one thing, and a privelage to be there for that. There is a lot of passion involved, and each other's passion feeds the others. If someone can handle the emotions that go along with it, I say go for it. It's one of the most exciting sexual experiences I've ever encountered.

 

[amofiga]

We've never actually lived out this fantasy that I have of her being with another guy (or guys) but it is something I get turned on thinking about. In my case, I don't think it has anything about being a "cuckold" or being humiliated or anything like that. I don't enjoy being humiliated in any way. For me, I think the appeal is seeing her release what I've always supposed is a secret slut part of her that I think exists in everyone, but most people have been conditioned by parents, church, society, to repress it. If I could see her being a total slut, then I think I wouldn't feel so bad about my fantasies and past "transgressions". It would, in effect, even the score a little, and then I wouldn't have to feel "guilty" about my thoughts and deeds. We'd be on a level playing field and I'd feel like she couldn't make negative comments about some of the things I suggest. Seeing her let go and be a slut, and being used and actually enjoying it, would perhaps be quite liberating for me and maybe her as well.

My wife is certainly not a prude and can accept a lot of things, but she has pretty "average" limits. However, on occassion she's told me about some of her little escapades in high school and college. She certainly wasn't a saint, but probably no worse than anybody else with her early sexual experimentation. The thing is though, when she tells me this stuff, it really gets me turned on and I imagine the scene of her having sex of various ways with her old boyfriends. It's like a little porn move in my mind with her as the star. On the reverse side however, anything she hears about me and my past, or if I tell her some of the thoughts I have, gets her upset.

 

[Bbb13]

Only if I get to help

 

[partsecond]

To Continue!
After dancing for a couple of songs they went back up to the bar and he smacked her on the ass and continued to talk. It was during this time that the guy took my wifes hand and placed it on his dick. She later told me that his dick was hard and that she liked the way it felt when she stroked it. As she was stroking his dick she took his hand and put it down her top so he could play with her tits, he grabbed and pinched her nipples which made her pussy extremely wet, she said it felt good having another guy want her in this way. While they were groping each other my wife leaned into him and they kissed for what seemed in my eyes an eternity all the while I am sitting 10 ft away watching all this with a hard dick myself.
This is were it ended as my wife started getting nervous when he kept asking her to go home with him. This was the first time she has done anything like this. She really enjoyed it but it made her nervous. She is now only telling me pits and pieces at a time, to tease me and play with my mind. Let me tell you it is working, i am going crazy as she tells me what he said and how she felt when she touched and kissed him and she let him

Love the teasing. Makes me want my wife to go out now.

 

[Jringo21]

I love for my wife to tell me about her past sexual experiences. She thinks it's crazy so it doesn't happen very often.

 

[goodlife3738]

I'm a woman, but hubby loves seeing me with others...

Hi, new to the site, but I find this post near and dear to my heart. My husband and I have been married for 18 years, and have been swinging since March. For us, a mfm has nothing to do with being cuckolded, humiliation, lack of performance... It is all about sharing new sexual experiences with each other. My husband completely satisfies me sexually and otherwise. Bringing in someone new is just so hot. He has absolutely no bi tendencies, so when he joins in, and he always does, it is with me. I can tell you that he loves to show me off, and share me for an evening. We always play together, and our communication is always open. He very much enjoys living out this fantasy, as do I. The buildup is amazing, and we get hot talking about it for months afterwards as well.

Being with two men at once is very sexually satisfying!

We do prefer couples, but I guess that's a topic for a seperate thread.

 

[nisha_in61]

This is really a erotic thing and is somewhat related to cuckolding.

I find it so erotic even though there is nothing like that in my life. I really wonder how men will feel to see their loving wife having a relation and how he feels as she gets more and more mentally connected to him?

 

[goodsonformom]

This is really a erotic thing and is somewhat related to cuckolding.

I find it so erotic even though there is nothing like that in my life. I really wonder how men will feel to see their loving wife having a relation and how he feels as she gets more and more mentally connected to him?

Yes these are the dilemmas we face........I am by no means a cuck........no I am much more Dom..........and much of most of this conversation I find cloaked in contradiction.......conflict and tension between exerting my will........accepting my own vulnerabilities........and really facing the consequences of my own actions........

I loved pushing my ex.........I loved pulling her out from under the "rock" of shyness that always defined her..........she was among one of the single most passionate and responsive women I had ever had a meaningful relationship with.......(with the exception of one other)...........

I loved watching her receive pleasure from another man.....or men.....I fed off of the passion of her begging for more.........needing more........I initially loved the teasing and prompting........pushing her...... prior to actually meeting with another man or men.......I loved telling her in a social situation to part her legs and show that she wore no panties......to someone........my heart would beat fast......my cock would harden........it was like a drug........the lust washing over me.......over us.....she would become aroused and her "shy" shell.........would dissolve.......

I loved being in control.........planning it......structuring the event.....I loved pushing her limits......."allowing" her the freedom to experience.......

But.........there is always a reaction to an action, and we always can't predict the events that enfold in the future. I believe it is a very strong couple, whose love is much stronger than their capacity for lust.........that will make this work for the long haul.........

It is always a danger mixing passion with emotion..........passionate people often fall in love easy..........and boundaries may be fragile.........

 

[Runr4Life]

Hi, new to the site, but I find this post near and dear to my heart. My husband and I have been married for 18 years, and have been swinging since March. For us, a mfm has nothing to do with being cuckolded, humiliation, lack of performance... It is all about sharing new sexual experiences with each other. My husband completely satisfies me sexually and otherwise. Bringing in someone new is just so hot. He has absolutely no bi tendencies, so when he joins in, and he always does, it is with me. I can tell you that he loves to show me off, and share me for an evening. We always play together, and our communication is always open. He very much enjoys living out this fantasy, as do I. The buildup is amazing, and we get hot talking about it for months afterwards as well.

Being with two men at once is very sexually satisfying!

We do prefer couples, but I guess that's a topic for a seperate thread.

Couln't have said it any better. It's about heightening the experience, not replacing it. If it's not there in the beginning, a threesome will probably not help. Those that I have been with are amazing, and eveyone is satisfied.

This is really a erotic thing and is somewhat related to cuckolding.

I find it so erotic even though there is nothing like that in my life. I really wonder how men will feel to see their loving wife having a relation and how he feels as she gets more and more mentally connected to him?

That's the problem, sex is just sex. It's not about getting mentally connected, that's why you have a husband/BF. It's about the experience, and sharing it with each other. And when the couple is in tune with one another.........WOW! It really pays off.

 

[PoetessEm]

It's been several months now since my 'sharing' experience, and guess I have had time to reflect. Ours was not an mfm type thing, rather, my bf's best friend while my bf took pics. We had done a few photo shoots outdoors semi nude, etc and somehow this led to the idea of a sexual encounter with another.

Originally it was going to be 'posed' (as in looks like, but no penetration). As you can imagine, it didn't really go that way. So fantasy led to reality and an unplanned but consensual 'all the way' photo shoot ensued.

For months after I struggled to imagine why so many guys find that so erotic... To see their significant other with another. But looking back, I can tell you it was very hot!

Probably not for everyone.

 

[Runr4Life]

It's been several months now since my 'sharing' experience, and guess I have had time to reflect. Ours was not an mfm type thing, rather, my bf's best friend while my bf took pics. We had done a few photo shoots outdoors semi nude, etc and somehow this led to the idea of a sexual encounter with another.

Originally it was going to be 'posed' (as in looks like, but no penetration). As you can imagine, it didn't really go that way. So fantasy led to reality and an unplanned but consensual 'all the way' photo shoot ensued.

For months after I struggled to imagine why so many guys find that so erotic... To see their significant other with another. But looking back, I can tell you it was very hot!

Probably not for everyone.

See, even the unplanned results are fun. Having three, or sometimes more is such fun!