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Im_no_angel said:
You have all the *hugs * I can give and more! :heart:



You and Spicy are absolutely right and it's not cheesy. We have done a few family movie nights and some times in the park which have been a lot of fun. Far too often we (and me) can get too wrapped up in the material things in life and forget about what's truly important. :)
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*hugs*

I think we all do it hon.
 
I really could use a hug to help me get thru the next couple of days. Going with my mom for her bone scan and the oncologist. Finding out what her treatment will be. And to help her get through all of it.
I need the hug so I can stay strong for her and not let her see the tears that I have been crying for two days now.
 
1gr8tlady said:
I really could use a hug to help me get thru the next couple of days. Going with my mom for her bone scan and the oncologist. Finding out what her treatment will be. And to help her get through all of it.
I need the hug so I can stay strong for her and not let her see the tears that I have been crying for two days now.
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((((1gr8lady)))))

I wish I could tell you all will be alright.

Instead I will say, Good luck, hang in there, and if you ever need to vent you know where to find me.
 
1gr8tlady said:
I really could use a hug to help me get thru the next couple of days. Going with my mom for her bone scan and the oncologist. Finding out what her treatment will be. And to help her get through all of it.
I need the hug so I can stay strong for her and not let her see the tears that I have been crying for two days now.
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*HUGSHUGSHUGSHUGS* I will be praying for you guys today. *HUGS*
 
1gr8tlady said:
I really could use a hug to help me get thru the next couple of days. Going with my mom for her bone scan and the oncologist. Finding out what her treatment will be. And to help her get through all of it.
I need the hug so I can stay strong for her and not let her see the tears that I have been crying for two days now.
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{{{1Gr8Lady}}} holding you in my prayers.:rose:
 
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Spicy Southern Belle said:
Hello everyone.
I'm not back, not fully at least, but I have come to realize a few things over the past few days. I came to lit because it was a place where I could completely be myself without fear of judgement. I started Safe Haven as a place where people could feel safe and share their fears and pain without having to worry about being judged. Where they could find the support they needed and be among people who care. So isn't it a bit hypocritical that the first time I need the support and friends..a time where I need to be myself and not judged, I run away from everyone? I suppose it is.

What I'm about to say is one of the hardest things I've had to admit to others. It was hard enough for me to admit to myself. I just hope that I haven't misjudged the people here and won't regret putting myself out there for you, because I need the support of those I've come to know as friends more than ever.

I have struggled with depression and anxiety since I was a child and have had it well under control until about six months ago. Even then it was under control for the most part, only really effected by nightmares that became more frequently. Recently that all changed and I am ashamed to admit that I have no idea why. I have been diagnosed with PTSD stemming from sexual abuse as a child and adult and a few other traumatic events. The past couple of weeks have been a near living hell because there seem to be more and more things triggering flashbacks and panic attacks. As you can imagine, some things on Lit have caught me off guard and triggered a few instances and that is what caused me to decide to take a break.

Like I said before, I'm not really back, but I need my friends. I will stick to threads that I know are safe for me and still be able to enjoy being around the people I've grown to enjoy and care about. I won't be posting as much, but I will be around some. I also miss being there for my friends. I miss giving out hugs and being here to listen when you need it. I hope that I am still welcome here and that I haven't brought too much seriousness to a place meant for fun.
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know it took a lot to make that post , you are with friends even though somtimes we make the wrong statement hang on !
 
Spicy Southern Belle said:
Hello everyone.
I'm not back, not fully at least, but I have come to realize a few things over the past few days. I came to lit because it was a place where I could completely be myself without fear of judgement. I started Safe Haven as a place where people could feel safe and share their fears and pain without having to worry about being judged. Where they could find the support they needed and be among people who care. So isn't it a bit hypocritical that the first time I need the support and friends..a time where I need to be myself and not judged, I run away from everyone? I suppose it is.

What I'm about to say is one of the hardest things I've had to admit to others. It was hard enough for me to admit to myself. I just hope that I haven't misjudged the people here and won't regret putting myself out there for you, because I need the support of those I've come to know as friends more than ever.

I have struggled with depression and anxiety since I was a child and have had it well under control until about six months ago. Even then it was under control for the most part, only really effected by nightmares that became more frequently. Recently that all changed and I am ashamed to admit that I have no idea why. I have been diagnosed with PTSD stemming from sexual abuse as a child and adult and a few other traumatic events. The past couple of weeks have been a near living hell because there seem to be more and more things triggering flashbacks and panic attacks. As you can imagine, some things on Lit have caught me off guard and triggered a few instances and that is what caused me to decide to take a break.

Like I said before, I'm not really back, but I need my friends. I will stick to threads that I know are safe for me and still be able to enjoy being around the people I've grown to enjoy and care about. I won't be posting as much, but I will be around some. I also miss being there for my friends. I miss giving out hugs and being here to listen when you need it. I hope that I am still welcome here and that I haven't brought too much seriousness to a place meant for fun.
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I'm sorry to read this. You will be in my prayers.
And, if I anything I ever did inadvertantly caused you pain or problems, I am sorry.
Big Hug!
 
lakesailer_mi said:
I'm sorry to read this. You will be in my prayers.
And, if I anything I ever did inadvertantly caused you pain or problems, I am sorry.
Big Hug!
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Thank you sweetheart and you absolutely did not do anything at all that caused problems or pain. It was someone that doesn't post regularly and it was done in PMs and it was unintentional. I don't want people to go around thinking they have to be on eggshells with me. I am being careful of what parts of the forum I read and taking care of me so everyone can be assured they are just fine. *HUGS*
 
Spicy Southern Belle said:
Thank you sweetheart and you absolutely did not do anything at all that caused problems or pain. It was someone that doesn't post regularly and it was done in PMs and it was unintentional. I don't want people to go around thinking they have to be on eggshells with me. I am being careful of what parts of the forum I read and taking care of me so everyone can be assured they are just fine. *HUGS*
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((((((((HUGS))))))) Spicy. I am sorry to hear that you have been having a rough few weeks. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I would like to say thank you for your well wishes for my mom. She made it thru her tests with flying colors today.. Now just to wait to meet with the oncologist on Friday...
 
1gr8tlady said:
((((((((HUGS))))))) Spicy. I am sorry to hear that you have been having a rough few weeks. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I would like to say thank you for your well wishes for my mom. She made it thru her tests with flying colors today.. Now just to wait to meet with the oncologist on Friday...
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I don't know how I didn't see this sooner. I am SO sorry. *HUGS*

I am very glad to hear that she did so well with the tests. Hopefully he will have some good news for her today.

*HUGS* Thank you for your prayers also. It really means a lot. Especially with all you are dealing with.
 
1gr8tlady said:
I really could use a hug to help me get thru the next couple of days. Going with my mom for her bone scan and the oncologist. Finding out what her treatment will be. And to help her get through all of it.
I need the hug so I can stay strong for her and not let her see the tears that I have been crying for two days now.
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Went through this with my Mom many years ago. So sorry life has thrown this at you. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your Mom. *Big Hugs* :rose:
 
1gr8tlady said:
I really could use a hug to help me get thru the next couple of days. Going with my mom for her bone scan and the oncologist. Finding out what her treatment will be. And to help her get through all of it.
I need the hug so I can stay strong for her and not let her see the tears that I have been crying for two days now.
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(((hugs!)))
 
Hugs, Cuddles and Love to everyone. :kiss:

Have been thinking about you, Spicy. I hope your world is a little brighter every day. :rose:

Azul, I hope you can remember lovely memories of your Dad with less pain, now. I hope the day is near when each memory brings nothing but happiness. :)
 
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