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Ugh!

I hate being chained to my computer... especially when I feel I haven't made any progress.

Sigh.

To brighten my spirits I went searching for a pic I almost posted a while back. It's one of my favorites. Hope you like it as much as I do. Heck... I hope y'all like it MORE than I do!:devil:

...that's a great pic, but this is still my fav.....
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...just makes my imagination run wild!
 
Ugh!

I hate being chained to my computer... especially when I feel I haven't made any progress.

Sigh.

To brighten my spirits I went searching for a pic I almost posted a while back. It's one of my favorites. Hope you like it as much as I do. Heck... I hope y'all like it MORE than I do!:devil:

I like the intimacy of this... it feels like one is with you while you're getting ready for a night out
 
Ugh!

I hate being chained to my computer... especially when I feel I haven't made any progress.

Sigh.

To brighten my spirits I went searching for a pic I almost posted a while back. It's one of my favorites. Hope you like it as much as I do. Heck... I hope y'all like it MORE than I do!:devil:

Interesting shot
Very sexy though:kiss:
 
Even better would be an ice cube followed by warm lips and a hot tongue. Contrasts, baby! Heightens the sensation.:cool: mmmmmmmmm....

I would love to see the girls after they have been heightened with some cold stimulation. Care to honor the request?
 
I like it. But then again I'm a guy and I like anything with tits but I think these are above tits.:D:D

"Above tits" wow... I'll take that as a compliment. ;)

...that's a great pic, but this is still my fav.....
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...just makes my imagination run wild!


Oh MY! Wow. I did have some fun in that hotel room in Florida, didn't I? Seems like a lifetime ago. :eek:
 
Great pics, I've not seen one from TX yet that hasn't made me hard..

Wow - thank you Spawn... after the last few days, that's good to hear.


and once more I feel the urge to orgasm about your pics...

Oooh... and it gets even better. Thanks, GummiBaum.

I like the intimacy of this... it feels like one is with you while you're getting ready for a night out


Mmmm... wonder where I was heading? Gruene Hall, maybe? 6th Street? Wine bar? Riverwalk? :cool:
 
Interesting shot
Very sexy though:kiss:

I'm going to believe this is the good "interesting" and not the polite "interesting". ;-) Glad you think it's sexy, Purfecthost.

I would love to see the girls after they have been heightened with some cold stimulation. Care to honor the request?

Ahhh, KDB... what fun is the cold stimulation without the warm lips and hot tongue to follow it up with?

After all these posts, the changes in my relationship and my life... here I am again - alone and without a partner. Sigh.

Perhaps if/when I have another encounter, I/he/we will oblige your request.

Double sigh.
 
I'm going to believe this is the good "interesting" and not the polite "interesting". ;-) Glad you think it's sexy, Purfecthost.



Ahhh, KDB... what fun is the cold stimulation without the warm lips and hot tongue to follow it up with?

After all these posts, the changes in my relationship and my life... here I am again - alone and without a partner. Sigh.

Perhaps if/when I have another encounter, I/he/we will oblige your request.

Double sigh.

Sorry to hear that you are alone. Keep your head high. There are a lot of admires here. When you least expect it, that right person will find you. I married right out of college and it lasted a few months. I have now been married 15 years and together nearly 18. Your person it out there
 
Sorry to hear that you are alone. Keep your head high. There are a lot of admires here. When you least expect it, that right person will find you. I married right out of college and it lasted a few months. I have now been married 15 years and together nearly 18. Your person it out there

Aww, thanks, KDB.

I like what you said about "when I least expect it." I've never believed in looking or searching for a parnter. I've been lucky wih the loves I've had in my life - they just happened.

My parents met and were married 3 months later - they're still ridiculously in love 54 years later. My husband and I went on one date and were living together within 2 weeks. We were together for 20 years - who knows what would have happened if things had been different.

I don't necessarily believe in love at first sight, but I have witnessed and experienced the irresistible, electrifying, and all-consuming connection that occurs "when you least expect it" - it's a rare gift when it happens.

So... my apologies for the above post. I certainly didn't mean for it to sound as pathetic as it does.

What didn't get translated into my post are all of the thoughts and feelings racing around in my mind lately.

When my husband and I first discussed an "open marriage" and then that evolved into our separation and impending divorce... a part of me thought "Wooo hoooooo! Party time!"

Of course, the rest of me knew that that tiny part was crazy. The images of hedonistic abandon, sensory overload and wanton debauchery simply aren't me.

Well... they aren't me in a casual relationship. :devil:

But put me together with someone I care deeply about... and who cares deeply about me... and the sky's the limit. Not just phyisically, but emotionally, mentally, soulfully. I don't know how to share just a part of me - how to compartmentalize and segment different aspects of my self and offer only bits and parts of myself to some and other parts to others.

I have had offers/ advances from a couple of men here (in Texas), and the physical temptation was overwhelming... but I simply couldn't. There was an emptiness - a sense that each of them was after their own gratification (of course they were) and of course I was after mine.

But the thing is, I've found that when I'm with someone... the act of getting lost in each other - in trying to pleasure and gratify each other - me putting his needs above my own (and him putting my needs above his)... that is exponentially more gratifying.

So much more gratifying that I can't help but feel that a quick encounter with someone I don't know, that I don't feel for, that I don't have a connection with... I can't help but feel that it wouldn't be worth it.

Am I wrong? I don't know.

Maybe the day will come when I choose to explore casual, mindless sex... but right now, I don't see it.

What do y'all think? Am I just being naive? Is my reasoning addled by having gone without for too long? Would love to hear your opinions / experiences.
 
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TX, sorry to come back here to find out that you are alone, but I know that such a gorgeous woman as yourself will no doubt find her man. you are an absolutely beautiful angel walking amongst us!
 
:rose: hugs ya... you'll get there Tx...and have a helluva story to tell us afterwards!
 
TX, sorry to come back here to find out that you are alone, but I know that such a gorgeous woman as yourself will no doubt find her man. you are an absolutely beautiful angel walking amongst us!

Wow! Thank you! And I love your signature.

:rose: hugs ya... you'll get there Tx...and have a helluva story to tell us afterwards!

LOL - thanks Moji.
 
The thing I really like about this thread, other than the beautiful pictures, is how open and honest you are with everyone. You seem like such a wonderful warm-hearted person, and that smile only confirms it (not everyone smiles like that).

Thanks for posting here.
 
Ok, after reviewing the entire thread... i have some picture requests

(not that i feel i have some sort of right to demand)

I think these will be within your limits/rules, but appreciated by your adoring fans all the same :)

Ok, enough rambling, i think that your avatar is just gorgeous, such lovely lips and such a warm smile

What i'd like to see is;

1. a picture of you sucking your finger

and/or

2. a pictire of you chewing a pencil, in a sexy kinda way

:D

In return i'm happy to pm you a pic of a TX caused local flood

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CdqoNKCCt7A&ob=av2nm
 
Aww, thanks, KDB.

I like what you said about "when I least expect it." I've never believed in looking or searching for a parnter. I've been lucky wih the loves I've had in my life - they just happened.

My parents met and were married 3 months later - they're still ridiculously in love 54 years later. My husband and I went on one date and were living together within 2 weeks. We were together for 20 years - who knows what would have happened if things had been different.

I don't necessarily believe in love at first sight, but I have witnessed and experienced the irresistible, electrifying, and all-consuming connection that occurs "when you least expect it" - it's a rare gift when it happens.

So... my apologies for the above post. I certainly didn't mean for it to sound as pathetic as it does.

What didn't get translated into my post are all of the thoughts and feelings racing around in my mind lately.

When my husband and I first discussed an "open marriage" and then that evolved into our separation and impending divorce... a part of me thought "Wooo hoooooo! Party time!"

Of course, the rest of me knew that that tiny part was crazy. The images of hedonistic abandon, sensory overload and wanton debauchery simply aren't me.

Well... they aren't me in a casual relationship. :devil:

But put me together with someone I care deeply about... and who cares deeply about me... and the sky's the limit. Not just phyisically, but emotionally, mentally, soulfully. I don't know how to share just a part of me - how to compartmentalize and segment different aspects of my self and offer only bits and parts of myself to some and other parts to others.

I have had offers/ advances from a couple of men here (in Texas), and the physical temptation was overwhelming... but I simply couldn't. There was an emptiness - a sense that each of them was after their own gratification (of course they were) and of course I was after mine.

But the thing is, I've found that when I'm with someone... the act of getting lost in each other - in trying to pleasure and gratify each other - me putting his needs above my own (and him putting my needs above his)... that is exponentially more gratifying.

So much more gratifying that I can't help but feel that a quick encounter with someone I don't know, that I don't feel for, that I don't have a connection with... I can't help but feel that it wouldn't be worth it.

Am I wrong? I don't know.

Maybe the day will come when I choose to explore casual, mindless sex... but right now, I don't see it.

What do y'all think? Am I just being naive? Is my reasoning addled by having gone without for too long? Would love to hear your opinions / experiences.

It sounds like you have your thoughts about you which is great. Dont settle. I did the casual monkey sex between my first and 2nd marriage and others got hurt by it and it didnt help me get to where I needed to be.

You seem very bright, sassy, and from your pics very sexy...It will happen. Do what you need to do to feel good about yourself 24/7 and things will happen
 
Okay folks...

While I certainly wasn't TUI ("Typing Under the Influence") last night, I did post after some long, hard days. Apparently my filters wear thin on too little sleep, and I offer TMI.

Since I can't "unring the bell" I'll just go with it and thank y'all for your responses. I'm always struck by how kind and supportive everyone is here. :)
 
We've all had those nights of TUI, but what I generally find is that the truth is hidden somewhere inside my ramblings when I am like that. I think it is great that you don't want a casual encounter... I think you get back what you put out on here. If you are kind then the kind posters will find you on here.
 
Wow - thank you Spawn... after the last few days, that's good to hear.




Oooh... and it gets even better. Thanks, GummiBaum.




Mmmm... wonder where I was heading? Gruene Hall, maybe? 6th Street? Wine bar? Riverwalk? :cool:

hehehehehe--you'd break those 20 year olds on 6th st. ;)
 
Well said TX. Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

:) Head and heart agree with you 100%. They do a pretty good job of keeping the body in line.

The thing I really like about this thread, other than the beautiful pictures, is how open and honest you are with everyone. You seem like such a wonderful warm-hearted person, and that smile only confirms it (not everyone smiles like that).

Thanks for posting here.

It's easy to be open and honest in an anonymous forum like this. I suspect that when the time comes that I make myself available in the dating world (yikes - "dating" ) I would scare away any potential suitors if I was this open and honest with them.
 
If you ever come to Australia TX, i'd take care of you :devil:

Good to know, James. Plus you reminded me that I don't have to limit my opportunities to just North America ;)


And thanks for the reminder of the pic request... I'll give it a try soon... but I usually hate my "look at me doing something sexy" pics, so no guarantees...
 
We've all had those nights of TUI, but what I generally find is that the truth is hidden somewhere inside my ramblings when I am like that. I think it is great that you don't want a casual encounter... I think you get back what you put out on here. If you are kind then the kind posters will find you on here.

MOST of me thinks it's great that I don't want a casual encounter. A friend called me this morning (she's far more experienced in casual encounters, serial dating, etc. than I am). She claimed she had never had "rock your world" sex with casual encounters. Bad sex, yes. Adequate sex, yes. Pretty good sex, a few times.

I don't like those odds.

hehehehehe--you'd break those 20 year olds on 6th st. ;)

SOOOOOO funny! God, I laughed so hard when I read that. You are absolutely right.
 
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