When it's ok to forego Condoms

[OxonCornish]

Hi all, so, i was wondering at what point do you decide that it's ok to stop using condoms?
Obviously using condoms prevents licking your cum (or anyone elses) from a freshly filled pussy or ass, so to experience that you've got to know you're safe right?
I've got two part-time boyfriends & we discussed it & now all have bareback sex. There's nothing quite like filling your friends ass with cum & seeing it leak back out.
So, when did you decide you would & how did you decide that?

 

[OxonCornish]

Addendum

Just thought i would point out that i'm in a straight relationship, one friend is the same, married with children while the other is widowed & until i came along, hadn't got lucky for ages.

 

[longneckbottle3]

Just thought i would point out that i'm in a straight relationship, one friend is the same, married with children while the other is widowed & until i came along, hadn't got lucky for ages.

not sure if it's an actual time thing...more like trust thing..in this day and age, you have to be VERY CAREFUL...way too many diseases out there..some embarassing..some fatal...so...I'm just saying to anyone..BE CAREFUL....

 

[DuckLover]

not sure if it's an actual time thing...more like trust thing..in this day and age, you have to be VERY CAREFUL...way too many diseases out there..some embarassing..some fatal...so...I'm just saying to anyone..BE CAREFUL....

Agreed. In an M-F relationship you have the pregnancy concern, though that can be minimized by other methods. In any relationship, it's really about health and that comes down to trust. Do you believe them that they've been tested and are clean? Do you believe them that they are safe with any other partners? (Are you?)

For me, it's only an option when pregnancy is being alleviated some other way AND it's a strongly-established relationship. But in those cases, it's awfully nice!

 

[brw02]

It's OK when you completely trust your partner and he/she trusts you. And you're trusting him/her with your life. Be careful, but if you trust your partner completely, it's your call. Best wishes.

 

[bigjohn69]

no condoms

i am a bi male. i have a couple of male firends that i get with occasionally. i have known them both sence childhood. we see each other often and when we can get alone we have sex. we totaly trust each other and never use condoms but i would never have sex with anyone i didn't know without using one. i can tell you drinking cum form a cock is much better though and you cant do that with a condom.

 

[chelseabi]

The sad but true fact is you can only be sure after you are both tested for all STDs, however this only lasts as long as your next unprotected meeting with a third party, on either side. The fact is life's a gamble and it all depends on the risk you are prepared make, Knowing someone is no guarantee, we all tell lies and don't always know where the other has been or who with. So be careful but enjoy life

 

[Somehowyou]

I am hetro and I ocaisionally see a shemale every once in awhile. I have had a rubber break on me 3 times. I also got so into it that we did it unprotected once...not good. We got tested and were OK.

 

[Etoile]

The sad but true fact is you can only be sure after you are both tested for all STDs, however this only lasts as long as your next unprotected meeting with a third party, on either side. The fact is life's a gamble and it all depends on the risk you are prepared make, Knowing someone is no guarantee, we all tell lies and don't always know where the other has been or who with. So be careful but enjoy life

Yup, bingo.

Also, if the wife doesn't know about the gay sex, I would NEVER stop using condoms, because that's gambling with HER life without her consent. JMHO.