Serious question for Gay/Bi males and Trans females.

[Shywong]

Everywhere you look on this forum there's men talking about how much they love to suck cock, and that's about it. Just sucking. Rarely do I see someone talk about how much they love giving or receiving anal. It just makes me wonder, where are the bottoms at? Fellatio is overrated, that's my honest opinion.

So my question is this, if you're a gay or bisexual male which do you enjoy most, oral or anal? If you're a transsexual female [not including you self-proclaimed lesbians], same question.

 

[DartsRevenge]

I'm a bottom for sure.

While I have yet to act on it (just for lack of people willing) I know I'm into both sucking and being fucked.

 

[emap]

Ok so probably a silly question but how do you know you are all about being fucked?

I mean if you have never been fucked how do you know? I always was into guys, dreamt of doing things with them, women not so much that came later, but it was always general thingys, like kissing and feeling, I never knew what I wanted was to have a guy atop me pumping away until well I did have one. Granted porn wasn't so incredibly easy to find then but well I mean seriously, how come you have such an indepth knowledge of exactly you want?

Granted it's possible I don't get it cause I'm a woman but darnit I wanna know.

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

Personally I love anal. And I lean mostly to bottom (I've only received anal to this point whether with a man or a woman). I know that because I've done a lot of anal masturbation, I love my toys.

I've been on the receiving end from a guy once, and loved every second of it. I have to admit that I love sucking cock, because there's something... primal (best term I can come up with)... about it.

I have to say that I enjoy getting fucked just a bit more though. After my experience I think everyone should get fucked in the ass, it's just that amazing of a feeling. (Having your girlfriend strap one on and fuck you doesn't make you gay or bi ).

 

[Shywong]

Ok so probably a silly question but how do you know you are all about being fucked?

I mean if you have never been fucked how do you know? I always was into guys, dreamt of doing things with them, women not so much that came later, but it was always general thingys, like kissing and feeling, I never knew what I wanted was to have a guy atop me pumping away until well I did have one. Granted porn wasn't so incredibly easy to find then but well I mean seriously, how come you have such an indepth knowledge of exactly you want?

Granted it's possible I don't get it cause I'm a woman but darnit I wanna know.

It's the same question to inexperienced bi-curious males. All of them [not just on this forum] talk about the same thing, just inverted, how much they want or crave to suck cock. It's like a stereotype for submissive people, they're infatuated with giving fellatio. They may have never been fucked but I'm sure some of them have tried anal masturbation and feel curious about the real thing [but they don't admit it]. Sometimes I think people just say what the guy wants to hear.

 

[Ohare Guy]

When I am trying to find a guy to be with, it bothers me that they only want oral, or jerking off, I have been fucked, and I really do like it, I will pass up ever having a cock in my mouth again, if I can have it in my ass.

 

[none2_none2]

Ok so probably a silly question but how do you know you are all about being fucked?

I mean if you have never been fucked how do you know? I always was into guys, dreamt of doing things with them, women not so much that came later, but it was always general thingys, like kissing and feeling, I never knew what I wanted was to have a guy atop me pumping away until well I did have one. Granted porn wasn't so incredibly easy to find then but well I mean seriously, how come you have such an in depth knowledge of exactly you want?

Granted it's possible I don't get it cause I'm a woman but darnit I wanna know.

Sometimes you just know...

I was a virgin until I was 21.5 and I didn't get to top until about 2 years later. I was really on the verge of thinking that maybe I wasn't gay as I found the sex so unsatisfying. I desired a man's affection -- kissing, hugging, etc. I enjoyed a nice body (muscular & hairy). Penises were a curiosity, but more for a comparison. I really didn't like a penis inside me (mouth or ass). I also didn't enjoy the weight of a man on top of me. My thought was I hope he hurries up and gets off me. I would assume that perhaps my experiences with a penis inside were similar to a lesbian's feelings if she feels pressure to at least try a penis.


Part of me thought that was the "sin" part of male homosexuality: the longing for a man, but having to deal with a life time of unsatisfying sex with a penis. However, two years into my gay experiences a guy let me top him. There aren't enough wonderful words in the English language to describe how wonderful it was. It was the first time that sex (other than j/o'ing) was enjoyable.

In hindsight, I realized that I had paid attention to the male behind since I was a child -- adult male behinds, not other boys. I just never thought I would be allowed to touch one without having the grown up man beat the crap out of me. So I was just a very frustrated kid. When I finally did start having sex as an adult, I was given the strange notion that you had to be hung to be a top.

What I'm trying to say is that I didn't "learn" to like fucking guys, I just did love it tremendously from the very first time -- like a duckling takes to water. Now perhaps if fucking guys had turned out to be painful -- ie if my cock was prone to fungus, boils, blisters, or something else really painful, then perhaps the outcome would have been different. However, having normal sexual parts free of infection, defects, etc, my experiences were not skewed by pain. Thus all the first encounter did was to validate what someone would have said if they could read my mind -- that I love male asses and especially being inside them.


Likewise, I didn't "learn" to like being fucked or sucking. It wasn't in any of my fantasies. Also I tried it several times during those first two years -- because I thought it was all that was available to me since I wasn't hung. No matter how many times I tried it, it was disappointing. Furthermore, stories & pics of getting sucked sound hot in theory, but in honesty blow jobs are WAY over rated. I didn't dream of that either, but as all things I gave it a try. It was pleasant, but 99.9999% of the time not orgasmic. I don't think in all my almost 30 years of gay experiences that I can recall it ever being orgasmic.

I have nothing against straight sex, but towards females I don't have the same level of interest. Part of it is the smaller bones and muscularity. Vagina sex would be a natural for me except that from my one experience, it wasn't nearly as tight as having sex with an anus. Also being infertile makes the thought of straight sex sound like admitting to my own inferiorities. Some guys are in to being humiliated. I have no such desire from either gender. I did give it a shot one time. Maybe that was unfair to not try more often. However, that desire almost completely went away when I realized that I shot blanks.

 

[none2_none2]

When I am trying to find a guy to be with, it bothers me that they only want oral, or jerking off, I have been fucked, and I really do like it, I will pass up ever having a cock in my mouth again, if I can have it in my ass.

I can understand why some guys go for oral. Maybe they don't get much of it from their female, heterosexual partners. They also worry about AIDS. Likewise, not all bottoms are clean. Fecal material can be a real big turn off. Also some tops are out of shape or lazy, and thus do not have the energy to fuck. Sure a bottom can squeeze his ass or sit on a cock, but the truth is usually that a good fuck require some energy from the bottom. I am still a good top, but I'd be lying to say I wasn't better when I weighted less and had more energy.

I do think that oral can be a great addition for foreplay. It can also help the top get hard -- just like rimming can help get a bottom ready to get fucked.

 

[Shywong]

I can relate to that what none2 is saying. I seem to be in the minority of the inexperienced bi-curious category. Never had anal sex but I know I want to because I'm an ass man. Its my priority to be a top, unlike others who mostly fantasize about sucking dick. Honestly I'd much rather toss salad.

 

[girlyboyalexa]

I like sucking cock but I prefer being fucked. Sucking is great, don't get me wrong but it's completely different when your man is inside you and fucking you.

 

[kingkhan1]

When I was just curious I only found the cock to be visually pleasing part on a man so, I only fantasizing about sucking cock. But, now that I have experience touching and holding a man I really want to fuck a guy. And before I aknowldge any same sex attraction I have anally masturbated and it feels good but, to be honest the pleasure from my dick is my main focus so, I would rather fuck but, then again I haven't had the real thing.

 

[texharley]

Everywhere you look on this forum there's men talking about how much they love to suck cock, and that's about it. Just sucking. Rarely do I see someone talk about how much they love giving or receiving anal. It just makes me wonder, where are the bottoms at? Fellatio is overrated, that's my honest opinion.

So my question is this, if you're a gay or bisexual male which do you enjoy most, oral or anal? If you're a transsexual female [not including you self-proclaimed lesbians], same question.

well, I personally like a dick in my ass and mouth at the same time. I just love being on my knees with one man fucking me while I enjoye suckign another one.

 

[Bluestreak363]

I'm a bisexual male, and I prefer anal sex to almost anything. I often have sex with a gay couple, and they taught me. I am definitely bottom; I enjoy sucking, but I enjoy it more when I'm receiving anal sex. In fact, I've never fucked a gay man. They taught me to have prostate orgasms, and now I'm capable of sustaining them over longer periods of time - it is exquisite if your body is wired for it, and if you have an open mind enough to try. I still have sex with women all the time, and I love it just as much as men. They're two different things. I have yet to mix the two, but I look forward to the day. Chock on up for anal sex... for the right male, it's like nothing you've ever felt.

 

[poison_black]

Often fantasize about receiving anal

 

[Ksbipantyluvr]

I've sucked, love it, but really want to be....

Taken in the ass, used like a slut. To me sucking is just getting the cock ready for more. Now I just need to work up the nerve to make it happen.

 

[Bystander]

I fantasize about both actually and have done both in RL too. I've had anal sex (top and bottom) with a lovely TS lady once and I've sucked a few cocks, both guys and the aforementioned TS girl.

I found out though that fantasy does not always equate to a satisfactory reality. I really enjoyed being with the Trans Girl. But recently I had a chance to suck another guy's dick and I really could not get into it (it was by all means a very nice cock). Prior to this my experience with another man was a long time ago. At the time I remember I didn't really enjoy sucking his cock but I figured that was due to my insecurities about being gay which I have long gotten over. And I'd been fantasizing about it for so long since then, pining for another chance that I was kind of shocked when I couldn't get into it.

Anyway that's just me. I figured since my last experience that despite the fantasy I'm really not into sucking cocks or anal sex unless the other person happens to be a female (TS = Female for me). And to answer your question if I had to pick one Id choose receieving anal over sucking a cock. It just feels better.

 

[brttclrk]

great thread

would love to talk more one to one with someone about it

i love to rp and cam and use yahoo voice

interested?

pm me

 

[yr_sissy_toy]

I've only gotten so far as oral sex with an actual man, and I do very much enjoy the feel of sucking a good cock -- very much -- but I really love having my dildo inside me, and would like to bottom for a man. But I haven't had a real relationship with a man yet, and I think I would need that before I would feel ready. So there's that.

But dang, bouncing up and down on that dildo drives me wild!

 

[jeff68]

I am a very oral person, I love eating pussy and I also enjoy the feeling of a hard cock in my mouth.
I am also a bottom and love getting buttfucked.
Excellent question you asked. Can't i just do both at once

 

[silver_eyes]

Why either/or? I don't see as one or the other. Personnaly, I prefer anal (receiving) from my perspective, but if oral really gives my partner a major O, why not? By the way, I'm one submissive who definitely thinks anal sex is a much more submissive act than oral sex.

 

[Guest]

dick

Some of us are only interested in dick. I think some guys like me are not wired to get emotionally involved with a guy, are not into kissing or cuddling . I think we became interested in other dicks from playing with our own and learning that is the greatest of sex toys. I love eating pussy...just love it...and have never sucked a cock but I have to assume that it must be easier to make a cock cum than a pussy.

 

[lagunabi]

I am all bottom

I am all bottom and love anal. I certainly prefer a cock in my ass over just sucking although I do like sucking. Cock size does matter though. The first couple of guys that fucked me in the ass were average and it was okay. This past year I hooked up about 4 times with the same guy and he has an 8 inch cock. It was incredible each time. I wish we could get together more often because there is nothing like his cock all the way up my ass.

i also wear a garter belt, stockings and panties when I am being fucked and that also turns me on.

 

[TomBoner]

Everywhere you look on this forum there's men talking about how much they love to suck cock, and that's about it. Just sucking. Rarely do I see someone talk about how much they love giving or receiving anal. It just makes me wonder, where are the bottoms at? Fellatio is overrated, that's my honest opinion.

So my question is this, if you're a gay or bisexual male which do you enjoy most, oral or anal? If you're a transsexual female [not including you self-proclaimed lesbians], same question.

Wow ... sooooooooo ... this maybe is going to sound weird ... but lets try it out anyway.

First of all, to me, I enjoy oral sex immensely ... particularly if it culminates with an ejaculation into the mouth. That's just to me an incredibly satisfying feeling. I've probably had oral sex with 8 guys in my lifetime, starting when I was younger than I can mention ... and I always have enjoyed it. I enjoyed it even when I didn't cum or receive cum in my mouth ... but I enjoyed it more when I did.

I've had anal sex (both ways) with only 2 guys ... and enjoyed that probably even more so than the oral sex. However, both of those occassions were with guys that I had sex with for a while before we moved onto anal sex. I guess it just requires a deeper level of "intimacy" and/or "trust" before I'll go there with somebody. And I say "intimacy" even though I don't like kissing and hugging with another guy ... just mainly sex for the sake of physical pleasure and enjoyment. But anal sex to me is still done at a deeper level than oral sex ... as weird as that may sound to some.

 

[PantyhoseBottom]

Im def a total bottomdont get me wrong a nice hard cock in my mouth is great, but id rather have it elsewhere, i mean ive never came from giving head but ive cum many times while riding a hard one, and i didnt have touch myself, the anal orgasm as ive heard it called...very wonderful..and the feeling of his cum as it fills you..mmmm mmm mmm....gettin hard just thinking about it....i know what im doing tommorow! <3

 

[bi2nz]

I really don't care. I love sex - Giving and receiving head and I love to get my ass filled also. I like to give anal sex just as much. As long as your happy, I'm happy, so lets be happy.