Confessions: What Are Yours?

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I gave my niece the cutest little light up antlers. We weren't allowed to give gifts at our family thing (don't ask) but it was her birthday this month so I snuck a few in... *smile* Was my Mom's tradition and the gift thing was gone when she was.

Anyway, she loved it. I'm a horrible gift giver I think I did good. ;)
Lol. It's good that you got to sneak in a gift.
 
ICT I don't know what is wrong with families. We have had only one tradition in my Moms family that we get together one night in the whole year. Well a couple of cookouts in the summer. We aren't close. But my Mom orchestrated a gift exchange and I remember playing with my niece and nephew (they are just a few years younger than me) and now their kids are kids. We did it every year for a lot of my life, my kids life...

There was a misunderstanding and all of a sudden the tradition isn't "allowed" anymore. I know gifts are mostly not the most important thing but it brought us together. I like our gathering now without the gifts but it's always a hurtful topic of discussion.

The only part I have a problem with is it was my Mom's tradition. So after church me and my Dad and sister and my kids got together and exchanged. It was cool. We had a good time together. It's always iffy.

"Well I mentioned this twice think it really might be bothering me?" LOL Well not "that" much. Just miss my Mom...
 
ICT I don't know what is wrong with families. We have had only one tradition in my Moms family that we get together one night in the whole year. Well a couple of cookouts in the summer. We aren't close. But my Mom orchestrated a gift exchange and I remember playing with my niece and nephew (they are just a few years younger than me) and now their kids are kids. We did it every year for a lot of my life, my kids life...

There was a misunderstanding and all of a sudden the tradition isn't "allowed" anymore. I know gifts are mostly not the most important thing but it brought us together. I like our gathering now without the gifts but it's always a hurtful topic of discussion.

The only part I have a problem with is it was my Mom's tradition. So after church me and my Dad and sister and my kids got together and exchanged. It was cool. We had a good time together. It's always iffy.

"Well I mentioned this twice think it really might be bothering me?" LOL Well not "that" much. Just miss my Mom...
ICT its a nice idea ands sort of keeps the flock together
 
I wasn't talking about you!! I'm talking about guys who have never posted who make me feel trashy, and not in a good way.

LOL a friend of mine used to refer to the night of the lit virgins when she'd start a new thread.. suddenly out of the woodword would come stacks o'guys with like two posts to their credit, sending PMS
 
LOL a friend of mine used to refer to the night of the lit virgins when she'd start a new thread.. suddenly out of the woodword would come stacks o'guys with like two posts to their credit, sending PMS

Hey, I resemble that remark:rolleyes:

oh, wait...

nevermind :D
 
I just don't want to make anyone feel bad, or hurt someone's feelings.

my friend, you're going to get a whole lot, more than I can imagine of inane PMs.. You can't make us all feel good about ourselves.. it's sort of an individual responsibility. Though I like you more for this reply. Merry Christmas MYW. You're a good person, and I'm happy that you call me friend.
 
I just don't want to make anyone feel bad, or hurt someone's feelings.

if someone cannot take the time to put together a thoughtful PM or even a post... then I don't see how you owe them anything... especially if it makes you feel trashy.... don't engage, if you respond... you are giving them an inch. You are far from trashy. You are an intelligent, thoughtful, caring and yes, beautiful woman. You should be treated as such, and you should expect it for yourself. Good luck honey.
 
if someone cannot take the time to put together a thoughtful PM or even a post... then I don't see how you owe them anything... especially if it makes you feel trashy.... don't engage, if you respond... you are giving them an inch. You are far from trashy. You are an intelligent, thoughtful, caring and yes, beautiful woman. You should be treated as such, and you should expect it for yourself. Good luck honey.

She is absolutely right
 
if someone cannot take the time to put together a thoughtful PM or even a post... then I don't see how you owe them anything... especially if it makes you feel trashy.... don't engage, if you respond... you are giving them an inch. You are far from trashy. You are an intelligent, thoughtful, caring and yes, beautiful woman. You should be treated as such, and you should expect it for yourself. Good luck honey.

Well ya know, AJ, I think you said it extremely well. Happy Holidays AJ
 
Maybe not often but...

Somehow I doubt that you resemble that Wanton LOL.. :p

probably more often than I should:eek:

if someone cannot take the time to put together a thoughtful PM or even a post... then I don't see how you owe them anything... especially if it makes you feel trashy.... don't engage, if you respond... you are giving them an inch. You are far from trashy. You are an intelligent, thoughtful, caring and yes, beautiful woman. You should be treated as such, and you should expect it for yourself. Good luck honey.

See MakeYourWhore:rose:, seems I'm not so silly after all, so there:p



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LOL a friend of mine used to refer to the night of the lit virgins when she'd start a new thread.. suddenly out of the woodword would come stacks o'guys with like two posts to their credit, sending PMS

I get that and it freaks me out. I have some that are here for years and never post. :cattail:
 
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