Do you think women are more sexually selfish than men?

[newtoforums]

Are there women who desire men just as men desire them? From what I have read women enjoy their bodies being desired and not desiring men's bodies?
Are there women who give an equal amount of foreplay?
Are there women who give as much pleasure as they take and bring their men to multiple orgasms through prostate stimulation and tantra?
Are there women who don't put their pleasure first?
Are there women who intiate sex as much as their man intiates?
Are there women who do as much work during sex as the man? Do they work even when a man is on top the way a man would work when a woman is on top?
Are there women who fulfill their men's fantasies just as much as he fulfills theirs?
Are there women who don't use sex as a control mechanism?
Do you think men have as many erogenous zones as women?
Do men give more and spend more time (longer sessions) on oral sex?


Are there sexually submissive women who give much more than they take?

Some references to what I am talking about.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...U4QVvW7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090716124703AAv9qYQ

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12029462.aspx

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12590462.aspx

 

[SweetErika]

Do you think women are more sexually selfish than men?

In general? No.

Are there women who desire men just as men desire them? From what I have read women enjoy their bodies being desired and not desiring men's bodies?
Are there women who give an equal amount of foreplay?
Are there women who give as much pleasure as they take and bring their men to multiple orgasms through prostate stimulation and tantra?
Are there women who don't put their pleasure first?
Are there women who intiate sex as much as their man intiates?
Are there women who do as much work during sex as the man? Do they work even when a man is on top the way a man would work when a woman is on top?
Are there women who fulfill their men's fantasies just as much as he fulfills theirs?
Are there women who don't use sex as a control mechanism?
Do you think men have as many erogenous zones as women?

Are there sexually submissive women who give much more than they take?

The answer to all of these questions is "yes."

Of course that's true for nearly every "Are there people who...?" type of question, just like the answer to "Does every person like/dislike...?" is "no."

Do men give more and spend more time (longer sessions) on oral sex?

It completely depends on the man, as some men don't give oral sex at all or do it very infrequently, some give an equal amount, and some give more.


That said, I'm still not sure what the goal of this thread is, or what you're trying to get at. Are you trying to get answers so you can respond to questions on Yahoo and POF? Or is this a survey for your general education and/or entertainment? Or is there another point that I'm completely failing to see?

 

[Eilan]

Are there men who desire men just as women desire them? From what I have read men enjoy their bodies being desired and not desiring women's bodies?
Are there men who give an equal amount of foreplay?
Are there men who give as much pleasure as they take and bring their women to multiple orgasms through G-spot stimulation and tantra?
Are there men who don't put their pleasure first?
Are there men who intiate sex as much as their woman intiates?
Are there men who do as much work during sex as the woman? Do they work even when a woman is on top the way a woman would work when a man is on top?
Are there men who fulfill their women's fantasies just as much as she fulfills theirs?
Are there men who don't use sex as a control mechanism?
Do you think women have as many erogenous zones as men?

Are there sexually submissive men who give much more than they take?

 

[midwestyankee]

Are there sexually submissive women who give more than they take?

Apparently summer camp must be expensive this year.

 

[Eilan]

Are there sexually submissive women who give more than they take?

Apparently summer camp must be expensive this year.

Yeah, I saw that when I was lurking over there.

Nothing some small cock humiliation wouldn't cure.

 

[newtoforums]

Yeah, I saw that when I was lurking over there.

Nothing some small cock humiliation wouldn't cure.

WTF? That's disgusting.

Any serious answers?

 

[SweetErika]

WTF? That's disgusting.

Any serious answers?

Trust me, if you think Eilan's lurking and small cock humiliation are disgusting, you have absolutely no concept of disgusting.

We'll give you some serious answers when you start asking serious questions, instead of just regurgitating simpleton questions you've seen on other sites all over our forums.

 

[Eilan]

WTF? That's disgusting.

Any serious answers?

It's obvious from your posts that you're just begging for someone to humiliate your tiny cock, and since I'm all about the help. . .

But if you want disgusting, I'll throw some menstrual fluids and scat into the mix. Just for you. Seriously.

 

[bobsgirl]

It's obvious from your posts that you're just begging for someone to humiliate your tiny cock, and since I'm all about the help. . .

But if you want disgusting, I'll throw some menstrual fluids and scat into the mix. Just for you. Seriously.

That's what I like about you, Eilan. Generous and giving to a fault.


Plus you make me laugh.

 

[Quoll]

It's obvious from your posts that you're just begging for someone to humiliate your tiny cock, and since I'm all about the help. . .

But if you want disgusting, I'll throw some menstrual fluids and scat into the mix. Just for you. Seriously.

It's always about size with you isn't it.

 

[Eilan]

Plus you make me laugh.

Look here, missy. This is the internet. It's Serious Business.

It's always about size with you isn't it.

Of course. Except when it's about being disgusting.

Glad you could take me off Iggy long enough to figure that out.

 

[silverwhisper]

eilan, you cock size queen!

[trout-smacks eilan]

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Put it this way poppet; if every woman you have sex with is selfish and shit in bed, the common denominator is you. If you're not getting what you want, either you're too much of a pussy to ask/negotiate for it or too much of a dick to deserve it.

Asking us stupid questions fuelled by bitter misogynism will not improve your sex life.

 

[satindesire]

Hey, here's a novel idea, how about we all stop feeding the troll?

 

[shiny5437]

*Warning - lengthy post*

Are there sexually submissive women who give much more than they take?

Why should a woman that 'gives more than she takes' be sexually submissive. If you think about a bondage situation where the sub is restrained how much can they really give? Thinking about sex only through the lens of dom-sub is a bit restricting and unrealistic.

Also his first question is quite interesting: are there women that desire men in the same way that men desire women?

The associated question of why he has to ask this in the first place is also interesting.

In the western culture that has become increasingly sexualised it is the feminine that is held as being sexually attractive. Men's magazines have women on the front and so do women's magazines. People consider Sex and the City as being a turning about for the 'outing' of female sexual desire which kinda shows how repressed it is in the first place. How often do women really express how much they desire men? How often would they do this outside the environment of a female circle of friends? Often the portrayed dynamic in the culture is that of female resistance, the woman being gatekeeper to the 'prize' of being with her. In this the woman doesn't actively desire, that she has to be persuaded into being with a man, that being with her is a process of passive process of selection.

From personal experience, it took a long time for me to consider myself as a guy to be a desirable 'object', as something that a woman might find attractive. Which makes sense because I'm not gay - I don't find men attractive, I can't attempt to understand women through my own standards.

Plus, the OPs questions about foreplay are also interesting. I don't think he's presenting questions from his own experience but rather he is embodying a lot of themes from our culture about sex. When you read in magazines, TV etc about foreplay how much emphasis is placed on male 'non-orgasmic' enjoyment? However, contrast this with the amount of times foreplay is stressed as a necessary occurence before female orgasm. There is very much the theme of a guy shows his metal as a lover through the number of orgasms he can give and a woman shows her prowess by how receptive she is and how many different types of intercourse she 'perform'.

So even though the OP's questions are sort of conceptually limited in scope, it's actually fun to think about what is actually limiting them from the hegemonic culture they derive from.

Here's a dancing banana

 

[RuneBlade]

Hey, here's a novel idea, how about we all stop feeding the troll?

Shhh, I stole the sign. I was like Carmen freakin Sandiego.

 

[Eilan]

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