Anal play

[youngrabbit]

During sex with my gf a few weeks back she started to finger my ass and to my suprise i really liked. This has developed into lots of experimenting between us including licking etc.

Just wondered how common this was amongst men?

 

[Eilan]

Just wondered how common this was amongst men?

I'm not a man, but I doubt if the answers that you get on Lit will reflect how common anal play is (or isn't) for men, since many, but not all, of the people who come here are pretty open-minded about trying new things.

If you and your GF are having fun exploring, why does it matter what other people are doing?

 

[youngrabbit]

it dosnt matter just curious to know

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

My man likes it.

I can't say that I speak for everyone. However, I can certainly try!.

 

[PoeticMusings53]

During sex with my gf a few weeks back she started to finger my ass and to my suprise i really liked. This has developed into lots of experimenting between us including licking etc.

Just wondered how common this was amongst men?

I enjoy fingers and tongues, which has developed naturally with 3/4 of my long-term sexual partners. I've even had a one-night stand use a finger to bring me over the edge. So my guess is that it isn't too rare. Never tried anything else.

Its not talked about because of homophobia. My suspicion is that most do or would enjoy it if you took that out of the equation, as the prostate is extremely sensitive and it changes the feel of an orgasm.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I think that regardless of homophobia, most men these days are aware that their G spot is somewhere up their ass and most men are curious about that to some degree. My guy is a heterosexual, alpha domly type and yet he enjoys anal play. We have tried rimming, fingers and prostate toys with success. I am petite with very small hands and I simply could not finger him deeply enough so a toy seemed like the next logical step. You can buy these things online and have them shipped in nice discreet packaging so there's nothing to worry about. Online sex toy stores also have an innocuous trading name so you won't find 'Monster Buttplugs R Us' on your Visa bill.

There are men who are 100% heterosexual and yet enjoy receiving strap-on sex from women. That's a bit of a leap from where you're at now but don't feel that limiting yourself in anal play is somehow going to preserve your heterosexuality. 'Bottom' line is, you're only bi/gay if you fancy guys. Some women can have reservations about their guy being into anal play but the fact your missus initiated the anal fingering suggests to me that this will not be an issue.

Saliva is a handy and effective lubricant but exploring with some lube on your fingers will help with any discomfort. Many men find their orgasm is stronger if they have a toy in their ass and sex stores sell toys, vibes and other gadgetry in a range of sizes and shapes. You don't have to break the bank to experiment a little.

 

[intruder52]

Common

Don't know about common but I enjoy it. I have a collection of anal toys that I masterbate with. My wife is not into anal play so for me it is a solo experience.

 

[WriterDom]

The best orgasms were when this lady would tongue my ass and jerk me off. She was good though. Licking assholes was like a fetish to her. But I have also known women who were into almost anything but would never go there.

 

[omgitsjoe]

One of my ex girlfriend's would do this from time to time and it was actually very enjoyable and noo i don't think it has anything to do with homosexual desires ....hellooo it simply felt good

 

[RandomAssGuy]

Most guys will try to hide it if they like it in public settings for sure. I know I dont go throwing it out there due to the can of gay jokes this would very likely open. I do know a number of women that tell me some details of what they do with thier partners though, and from what I hear its not very common, but more common then most probably think. Those womens magazine's have been hinting at this trick for years, theres gotta be tons of people that have tried it. Most guys just dont wanna talk about it though thats all, and I totally get where they're coming form with that.

 

[pedicur8her]

It certainly increases the intensity and even the output of my orgasm when she slips a finger or toy in while giving me head and as long as she likes it as much as I do there is nothing wrong with that.

 

[SilkyDave]

During sex with my gf a few weeks back she started to finger my ass and to my suprise i really liked. This has developed into lots of experimenting between us including licking etc.

Just wondered how common this was amongst men?

I love it when a finger is slid into me, I want to get a vibrator to hit the prostate and get that "full" feeling inside me, any suggestions ?

 

[pedicur8her]

I love it when a finger is slid into me, I want to get a vibrator to hit the prostate and get that "full" feeling inside me, any suggestions ?

Try out an Aneros - with practice, the sensations are incredible.

 

[subgirl2]

I would imagine that quite a few men are into it. I have come across a two or three and it took a long time for them to admit it. There seems to be this homophobic air around it for some guys but it is becoming less taboo as time goes on.

 

[robinOrrin]

Into Giving, rather than Receiving Not Necessary For Me

I enjoy fingers and tongues, which has developed naturally with 3/4 of my long-term sexual partners. I've even had a one-night stand use a finger to bring me over the edge. So my guess is that it isn't too rare. Never tried anything else.

Its not talked about because of homophobia. My suspicion is that most do or would enjoy it if you took that out of the equation, as the prostate is extremely sensitive and it changes the feel of an orgasm.

ROB' Orrin:

"Anngilingus Latin etymological root-word, is favorable over 50% of Females{Women average ages 20-40} I have personally surveyed and a quite enjoyable experience; especially enjoyable experience when utilized as "foreplay"- methodology".

 

[super_dude_32]

i enjoy it

during masterbation and oral sex!

 

[Submission13]

I am learning to like anal play, just can't seem to relax as much as I would like. Prior to cumming I am really into her playing with my ass, but as soon as I have cum, that interest evaporates! Best blow job ever was in the shower with my partner playing with my prostrate! Mind blowing orgasm!

 

[hommax]

One of the major reasons that I absolutely love my wife is her open mind about my sexuality. She loves to be the boss and control my feelings and anal play is the best way to keep me under control.

 

[sublime216]

Anal play is always good, It really does make my orgasms stronger. One of my favorite toys is an inflatable butt plug ! My wife doesn't seem to care, she loves watching me get off this way and is more than happy to clean up!