Distance Domination-Support Thread

[the captians wench]

I crave this.

What I've been looking forward to the absolute most is the idea of collecting shells with him on the beach for my mom. That thought makes me almost giddier than the idea of seeing a castle. *giggles*


The funniest part about this trip will be going to the live history and seeing people in costume who don't have to fake an accent. *giggles*

 

[minx1]

What I've been looking forward to the absolute most is the idea of collecting shells with him on the beach for my mom. That thought makes me almost giddier than the idea of seeing a castle. *giggles*


The funniest part about this trip will be going to the live history and seeing people in costume who don't have to fake an accent. *giggles*

oh the Leprechauns! *nods*

Remember though Wenchie....its rude to stare

Yeah I have a thing about going for walks on the beach with D, probably because the coast is one of my most favourite places.
But apart from that just watching movies, sitting with him whilst he messes with his computer...*nods* yup just normal stuff

 

[the captians wench]

oh the Leprechauns! *nods*

Remember though Wenchie....its rude to stare

Yeah I have a thing about going for walks on the beach with D, probably because the coast is one of my most favourite places.
But apart from that just watching movies, sitting with him whilst he messes with his computer...*nods* yup just normal stuff

I'm not allowd to say the "L" word until I get back from my trip.

*giggles*

Actually I was talking about a castle that I found that is doing "live history" durring my time there. It'll be so much neater than the Ren Fairs here with all of the bad accents. *giggles*

 

[kittenartist]

Personally, this is the key statement in this post. Anyone can plan crazy BDSM sex-marathons. You know you miss that person down to your soul when you pine for simple things like walking in the park with that special someone.

I'm glad to see that he's coming home soon, KA. And I know the feeling on that last line too. Since I got here for our long weekend, we've left to room for food, and one trip to get supplies. I'm thinking today we'll manage to go do something mundane involving the outdoors and clothing, that isn't directed towards getting supplies to bring back to the room

Oh it is definitely the simple things. He is my partner in everything... we can spend hours giggling in the toy aisle of Target, walking around the park, or just reading. All the crazy sex is just an amazing bonus. I am so in love. Heh. After this visit we start counting down the days until we get married.

 

[DreamSensualist]

......

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I hate being in a LDR sometimes.

Amen.

 

[the captians wench]

I am anxious. Life is just getting to me. On top of that I think I am suffering from sub drop. I hold off from this because I know I hate it... but it just builds up inside and then I crash all the harder. I have no privacy at the moment. His phone is turned off even though he asked me to call. I have a trip planned to see him. But the specifics are still to be sorted out but I just can't seem to figure out how to tackle it all. I hate being in a LDR sometimes.

One step at a time. That's all you can do when planing a trip.

 

[Literotti]

Re: Distance Domination - Support Thread

A bit off-topic -- but still appropriate!

Thank you for this wonderful and pertinent topic.

Personally, in my last 15 years of being on the Internet, I have had at least a dozen online relationships which lasted 6 to 12 months apiece or longer. The dynamics of these individual relationships are just too many and too complex to go into here.

Most of those relationships eventually burned out in time, while a few others resulted in actual face-to-face meetings. All, however, began with much intensity and eroticism, and there was certainly commitment on both sides during this phase of the relationship. I believe that the excitement of a new relationship often takes us on a journey without regard to the future or to it's consequences. And then when the reality of perhaps never seeing each other in real life sets in, the whole experience often comes crashing down around us.

And then there are the meetings: Some of which are very awkward. We all have wonderful expectations of the way the first meeting will go, but it doesn't always have that immediate spark. Something is often missing that we couldn't see when we were hot and heavy online.

It's a very hazardous thing to want to take an online relationship further. And some are certainly not meant to become what I can only term as face-to-face reality. But then life is a gamble, isn't it? And if we are human, we all gamble with emotions at one time or another.

 

[the captians wench]

A bit off-topic -- but still appropriate!

Thank you for this wonderful and pertinent topic.

Personally, in my last 15 years of being on the Internet, I have had at least a dozen online relationships which lasted 6 to 12 months apiece or longer. The dynamics of these individual relationships are just too many and too complex to go into here.

Most of those relationships eventually burned out in time, while a few others resulted in actual face-to-face meetings. All, however, began with much intensity and eroticism, and there was certainly commitment on both sides during this phase of the relationship. I believe that the excitement of a new relationship often takes us on a journey without regard to the future or to it's consequences. And then when the reality of perhaps never seeing each other in real life sets in, the whole experience often comes crashing down around us.

And then there are the meetings: Some of which are very awkward. We all have wonderful expectations of the way the first meeting will go, but it doesn't always have that immediate spark. Something is often missing that we couldn't see when we were hot and heavy online.

It's a very hazardous thing to want to take an online relationship further. And some are certainly not meant to become what I can only term as face-to-face reality. But then life is a gamble, isn't it? And if we are human, we all gamble with emotions at one time or another.

This is something I put a lot of thought into. So far everyone, except for one person, that I've been crazy about online, I've been crazy about in person. But the fear is still there.

Nothing illistrates this better than the first time I met some one from here. We had talked for nearly a year and then it came up, "lets meet". Only one prob, I didn't have any clue what he looked like! Of course I didn't realize this until after I had given him my address and he was on his way. But that moment I was in a total panic of "what if I just don't feel it?". Fortunitly I did and it was an amazing fuck as was every time with him.

But I'm lucky that way. I've met 5 guys offline that I had some sort of connection with online and out of the 5 only one was a dud. 20% not bad odds really.

 

[EmpressFi]

He's on his way back home...

 

[intothewoods]

This is something I put a lot of thought into. So far everyone, except for one person, that I've been crazy about online, I've been crazy about in person. But the fear is still there.

Nothing illistrates this better than the first time I met some one from here. We had talked for nearly a year and then it came up, "lets meet". Only one prob, I didn't have any clue what he looked like! Of course I didn't realize this until after I had given him my address and he was on his way. But that moment I was in a total panic of "what if I just don't feel it?". Fortunitly I did and it was an amazing fuck as was every time with him.

But I'm lucky that way. I've met 5 guys offline that I had some sort of connection with online and out of the 5 only one was a dud. 20% not bad odds really.

Just my two cents but I think it's a good sign if you feel like yourself with the person, not a fantasy of what you want to be. Sometimes it's hard to see that at the time though!

 

[Homburg]

She's in the hospital, and I am stuck here.

 

[rida]

She's in the hospital, and I am stuck here.

sending good vibes to her ... and to you all

 

[Homburg]

sending good vibes to her ... and to you all

Thank you. She's going to be mostly okay. I'm just feeling bleak because she's in a hospital bed and I'm not there, where I should be.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Thank you. She's going to be mostly okay. I'm just feeling bleak because she's in a hospital bed and I'm not there, where I should be.

Big hugs to each of you.

A couple of years ago I was in the hospital with pneumonia. At the time I lived on the other side of the country from Daddy. I called him as much as possible to give him updates, but I know it was very difficult for him. Really much harder for him then me.

I'm glad to hear she will be mostly okay.

 

[Lady_Midnight]

Thank you. She's going to be mostly okay. I'm just feeling bleak because she's in a hospital bed and I'm not there, where I should be.

I am sure she knows that you would be with her if you could.

 

[SubKekiLee]

I am anxious. Life is just getting to me. On top of that I think I am suffering from sub drop. I hold off from this because I know I hate it... but it just builds up inside and then I crash all the harder. I have no privacy at the moment. His phone is turned off even though he asked me to call. I have a trip planned to see him. But the specifics are still to be sorted out but I just can't seem to figure out how to tackle it all. I hate being in a LDR sometimes.

As always I know what your going thru.. BREATHE deep breaths.. It will all work out I promise you .

 

[Harmony_1985]

Thank you. She's going to be mostly okay. I'm just feeling bleak because she's in a hospital bed and I'm not there, where I should be.

I know how that one feels honey, the boyfriend is having a rough time at the minute and I can't be with him. It kills me that I can't be there for him to support him.

Thoughts are with you

 

[Homburg]

Still in the hospital. They keep extending.

FUCK.

 

[Harmony_1985]

Still in the hospital. They keep extending.

FUCK.

They're keeping her in for her own good honey. I know its hard to deal with, but just remember there's that light at the end of the tunnel that she'll be all better when she comes out. That point may seem a long way away right now but it'll come quicker than you think.

 

[the captians wench]

*hugs for Hommy before I start my post*

25 days. I'm getting nervous now.

I mean seriously. Like I'm starting to have those unfounded worries about being accepted and fitting in. I'm American for crying out loud, I'll prolly stick out like a sour thumb! I really don't want to be pegged as "another American tourist".



I need to work out this energy and nerves. I'm starting to eat it out and that's not good. Mom caught me doing this. Like with out even thinking I poured myself a cup of milk and dove into her Oreo's. It wasn't until she said "What's wrong? It's not like you to sit there and eat cookies" that I even realized what I was doing!

and I still have a long way to go. *sigh*

 

[KayKat]

Just checking in with all my LDR's here..

Master P and I are doing great..Enjoying learning and taking this most wonderful journey with him!!

 

[kittenartist]

Still in the hospital. They keep extending.

FUCK.

*hugs*
There is nothing to really say, and digital hugs do not amount to much, but the positive energy is there.

 

[Homburg]

I'm in New York. She was transferred to another hospital for more tests. Surgery is a strong possibility.

Please think on her, pray, send mojo, something.

 

[rida]

I'm in New York. She was transferred to another hospital for more tests. Surgery is a strong possibility.

Please think on her, pray, send mojo, something.

Sending all the positive and good vibes I can to MIS

and also {{{hugs}}} to you Homburg-sama