Distance Domination-Support Thread

[ataxia.girl]

Have a wonderful time

Thank you!

Feels like i have been look for a Daddy for forever and i finally found the right one. Took awhile to prove to Uncle Jack i was worth all the trouble i am always causing but was so worth the wait. i imagine i will have both a very terrible and very wonderful time as Uncle Jack is a bad bad nasty man.

i have been lurk around here for quite awhile and i do love these boards.

 

[akittenone]

kitten would like to say hello to those in this thread, she is a slave serving an online Master at the moment until she can be with Him r/t.

A lot is said against online serving but if viewed in the right way it can be used as a learning tool, a time when B/both can learn about E/each O/other, likes, dislikes hopes and desires for the relationship, all things which in r/t have to be learnt as well.

Does being online make the service less worthy ? No in kittens mind it actually intensifies it as the need to prove and reinforce the desire to serve your Master is greater if You cannot judge their reation to something done or said, you go that bit further, do that bit more so they know you are serious and not just playing.

Online if used properly is a stepping stone into a life so many crave, used right it opens many doors,

 

[EmpressFi]

kitten would like to say hello to those in this thread, she is a slave serving an online Master at the moment until she can be with Him r/t.

A lot is said against online serving but if viewed in the right way it can be used as a learning tool, a time when B/both can learn about E/each O/other, likes, dislikes hopes and desires for the relationship, all things which in r/t have to be learnt as well.

Does being online make the service less worthy ? No in kittens mind it actually intensifies it as the need to prove and reinforce the desire to serve your Master is greater if You cannot judge their reation to something done or said, you go that bit further, do that bit more so they know you are serious and not just playing.

Online if used properly is a stepping stone into a life so many crave, used right it opens many doors,

Some feel that strictly online.. well it's not that it's less worthy, but how intense can it be if you can just turn the computer off if you dont like something that he's said. Now, whil I understand their take on that, I've never had the mindset of that. If Master gave me an online order or said something I didnt like... if it were a hard limit.. then we could discuss it.. as if we were in person. Basically, it's just communicating.

My relationship is mostly online, in that we only see each other ever 2-3 months. But it never enters my mind to turn the PC off if I dont like where a conversation is going. but that's just me

 

[the captians wench]

Some feel that strictly online.. well it's not that it's less worthy, but how intense can it be if you can just turn the computer off if you dont like something that he's said. Now, whil I understand their take on that, I've never had the mindset of that. If Master gave me an online order or said something I didnt like... if it were a hard limit.. then we could discuss it.. as if we were in person. Basically, it's just communicating.

My relationship is mostly online, in that we only see each other ever 2-3 months. But it never enters my mind to turn the PC off if I dont like where a conversation is going. but that's just me

I believe that most people think "roleplay" when they hear "online". They aren't nessisarily thinking about online based relationships, but insted they think of the roleplay games that some people enjoy.

When we've tackled this conversation before here on lit, it became very obvious that this was the key difference in the argument. I'm not into role play, my relationship is not a fantasy world, it is based online at the moment.

 

[akittenone]

Some feel that strictly online.. well it's not that it's less worthy, but how intense can it be if you can just turn the computer off if you dont like something that he's said. Now, whil I understand their take on that, I've never had the mindset of that. If Master gave me an online order or said something I didnt like... if it were a hard limit.. then we could discuss it.. as if we were in person. Basically, it's just communicating.

My relationship is mostly online, in that we only see each other ever 2-3 months. But it never enters my mind to turn the PC off if I dont like where a conversation is going. but that's just me

kitten agrees with you, she has never considered not carrying out Masters orders, the fact it is online at the moment does not mean kitten can pick and choose when or indeed if she does as she is told, but again it makes you wonder if some see this as a 'game' they can play and not be expected to actually do anything,

In this day and age with cams and audio the oppertunity to interact and 'be' with Y/your choosen O/one is always there until it can be r/t

 

[SubKekiLee]

I am so excited... I am going to see Sir again in 3 days when I relocate to my Base for my job it is very exciting,.,

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

SMH at MTV.

They had on True Life: I'm In A Long Distance Relationship and one of the couples on it, get this, lives 3 HOURS APART!

They ended up breaking up/going back to just dating in the end.

 

[the captians wench]

SMH at MTV.

They had on True Life: I'm In A Long Distance Relationship and one of the couples on it, get this, lives 3 HOURS APART!

They ended up breaking up/going back to just dating in the end.

3 hours is a great deal to some people. I've known people who lived an hour away and felt like it was just too much distance for them to continue. *shrug* I think it might have something to do with our instant gratification society. I want it here and now.

 

[jockdom]

I hate speaking on the mic! But practice makes perfect i suppose! Roll on october!

 

[Homburg]

SMH at MTV.

They had on True Life: I'm In A Long Distance Relationship and one of the couples on it, get this, lives 3 HOURS APART!

They ended up breaking up/going back to just dating in the end.

This boggles me. I would kill to only be 3 hours away from MIS. No, I would not want that a permanent situation, but it would be a helluva lot better than the current distance.

 

[myinnerslut]

one of the hardest things is having a medical or emotional NEED for assitense and having the assistence available limited by distance.

 

[Keeper_of_Fi]

This boggles me. I would kill to only be 3 hours away from MIS. No, I would not want that a permanent situation, but it would be a helluva lot better than the current distance.

Ditto with Fi. Luckily when she moves we'll be about 8 apart and have a good place to stop right in the middle so at most we'll be travelling 8 hours but can plan it to do 4 hours each.

 

[catalina_francisco]

3 hours is a great deal to some people. I've known people who lived an hour away and felt like it was just too much distance for them to continue. *shrug* I think it might have something to do with our instant gratification society. I want it here and now.

Could be...we do live in a very greed, wants must be met instantly time where tossing it away is also whimsical and common. Also, could be cultural...I see nothing unusual in driving 2+ hours to get to work, coming from a capital in Oz...here they think 30 minutes is out of the question and reason to complain.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

Could be...we do live in a very greed, wants must be met instantly time where tossing it away is also whimsical and common. Also, could be cultural...I see nothing unusual in driving 2+ hours to get to work, coming from a capital in Oz...here they think 30 minutes is out of the question and reason to complain.

Catalina

Good point. The average commute is 30-45 mins here, so that might also add to it.

 

[Homburg]

one of the hardest things is having a medical or emotional NEED for assitense and having the assistence available limited by distance.

*hugs*

I'm sorry, doll. I wish more than anything else that I could be there, now.

 

[kittenartist]

Well, since someone (thanks again) suggested I pop over here to see all the support/understanding of others in LDRs...

Hi All.
I went from living 6 hours from my boy, to living together, to him living a few states away >.< And soon, we will have an ocean separating us *sigh* Remind me again why I supported/encouraged his decision to join the military? Bah humbug.

It is hard. Lots of phone calls, texts, picture messages so that is nice. No internet interaction, so that is sad. I will get to see him in September... the light at the end of the tunnel. And after that light, another stupid tunnel *laughs* And another light in the form of our up coming marriage (early '09) and me moving overseas so we can be together again.

I am finding it very hard to satisfy my BDSM needs at this distance. I am a touch based person. And yet, in some regards, that aspect in our relationship is growing deeper at a distance. The D/s has become much more emotional and spiritual. He literally started worshiping me which kinda blows my mind... and, in my spiritual beliefs, has some very interesting implications. Still trying to wrap my mind around that one...

Anyways. Yeah. Hi. LDRs are not my preference but there are some silver linings. My heart aches at the distance.

 

[EmpressFi]

Well, since someone (thanks again) suggested I pop over here to see all the support/understanding of others in LDRs...

Hi All.
I went from living 6 hours from my boy, to living together, to him living a few states away >.< And soon, we will have an ocean separating us *sigh* Remind me again why I supported/encouraged his decision to join the military? Bah humbug.

It is hard. Lots of phone calls, texts, picture messages so that is nice. No internet interaction, so that is sad. I will get to see him in September... the light at the end of the tunnel. And after that light, another stupid tunnel *laughs* And another light in the form of our up coming marriage (early '09) and me moving overseas so we can be together again.

I am finding it very hard to satisfy my BDSM needs at this distance. I am a touch based person. And yet, in some regards, that aspect in our relationship is growing deeper at a distance. The D/s has become much more emotional and spiritual. He literally started worshiping me which kinda blows my mind... and, in my spiritual beliefs, has some very interesting implications. Still trying to wrap my mind around that one...

Anyways. Yeah. Hi. LDRs are not my preference but there are some silver linings. My heart aches at the distance.

*hugs*

 

[kittenartist]

*hugs*

Wow, sometimes it really is the simplest things that make the day easier -- thank you

 

[EmpressFi]

Wow, sometimes it really is the simplest things that make the day easier -- thank you

I'm in a sappy mood, cant always put into words. I'm also very touchy feely and nothing is more pronounced for me than missing my Master's touch right now. I get so used to it during our visits, that the time apart, well it's like an exquisite torture to think about it.

 

[kittenartist]

I'm in a sappy mood, cant always put into words. I'm also very touchy feely and nothing is more pronounced for me than missing my Master's touch right now. I get so used to it during our visits, that the time apart, well it's like an exquisite torture to think about it.

I can relate. I am always in a sappy mood (so is my boy, its part of why we are so perfect together) and often times there are no words. I truly believe that touch is a more true way to express deep emotion. It has been a month and one week since I touched my boy... I do not count down until when I can touch him again because that is too depressing. *sigh* Besides, I do not know the exact day yet aways. All I know is it is in September, probably.

*hugs* I hope you get to feel his touch again soon. And thank you, again.

 

[EmpressFi]

This last visit was the first in about 4 1/2 months.. definitely our longest separation in the 18 months we've been together. We know that our next visit will be Labor Day weekend. After that, We'll take it as it goes..

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I hate speaking on the mic! But practice makes perfect i suppose! Roll on october!

Ditto.


As I really feel I cannot take one more fuckin day.........

 

[kittenartist]

This last visit was the first in about 4 1/2 months.. definitely our longest separation in the 18 months we've been together. We know that our next visit will be Labor Day weekend. After that, We'll take it as it goes..

Ugh. 4 1/2 months? How do you survive? Seriously -- after September I will have about 4 1/2 - 5 months to wait before our next time together if all goes as planned. I am not sure how to last that long... take it one day at a time, I guess.

Our first separation was "only" 45 days. In that time we got literally 30 minutes of phone time and three physical letters. That was painful. But the reunion was bliss.

 

[the captians wench]

Ditto.


As I really feel I cannot take one more fuckin day.........

Maybe two more people pressing for October to come quicker will make it get off its ass and get here! *giggles*

 

[minx1]

Could be...we do live in a very greed, wants must be met instantly time where tossing it away is also whimsical and common. Also, could be cultural...I see nothing unusual in driving 2+ hours to get to work, coming from a capital in Oz...here they think 30 minutes is out of the question and reason to complain.

Catalina

Good point Cat. I find it similar in WA. Distance seems to be a big deal to people. But back home I would think nothing of driving 200 miles from London to go see my mum. A forty mile journey was nothing lol.
Because it was the capital it used to take me a couple of hours sometimes to get to work. I think its very relative.

Maybe two more people pressing for October to come quicker will make it get off its ass and get here! *giggles*

three

I'll press since its when my mum comes to stay and I can't wait!