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WriterDom said:With 50 males lined up around the street for every Domme I would think so.
WriterDom said:With 50 males lined up around the street for every Domme I would think so.
AAkasha said:Free labor? Give me a break. I have tested the "houseboy" thing. Sure, tons of males line up ready to clean your house, but in reality, they are more of a pain in the ass than paying a maid. They do shit work, steal your panties and jerk off in them, then suggest that maybe a "spanking" will help them get motivated. No thanks! This is a fantasy for them. The idea of having a man do "free labor" is a FANTASY for dominant women. No one does something for nothing.
serijules said:Ma'am has a maid that cleans her house for her on a fairly regular basis. They do not play sexually. He is very grateful for the opportunity to serve her and I think the most he gets in return is some spanking/impact play and her company (which in my eyes in reward plenty!). So no, not all male subs are out just for sex and their own desires. Ma'am would never waste her time with someone who expected or demanded more than that, and he's been serving her almost a year.
I won't say I dislike or distrust other male subs as a general rule...as a general rule I distrust a lot of others subs regardless of gender! I've noticed over the years that many people feel they are very entitled to whatever they want or desire without considering the impact their actions and desires have on others and their relationships. My owner is a very admired woman in the circles she socializes in, and there is ALWAYS someone that is wanting a relationship with her. I find little difference from males to females in their selfishness at times and inconsideration. sigh![]()
I don't think gender has as much to do with anything as the simple fact that there are a lot of selfish people out there with little understanding of how a BDSM relationship works.
BiBunny said:I guess my views are colored because male subs are more likely to approach a Domme (or female switch in my case) with a proposition than fem subs are, in my experience.
Netzach said:If I like a male submissive I have better things to do with him than make him do my dishes. Do you have girls come over to just vacuum?
WriterDom said:No, but it's not a bad idea. If one was willing to do it.
Chicklet said:In some relationships I would go over and do housework without play occasionally... but there was always a *relationship* there and play *occasionally*
Used to drive up to Seattle to do laundry. I liked that guy A LOT![]()
TANSTAAFL is still in effect. It ain't free labour if you are providing wank fodder for later. It's just low cost, or soft-cost, labour.
With 50 males lined up around the street for every Domme I would think so.
*pants*No not free labor at all though far too often they verbalize what they don't really mean hoping the Domme will read between the lines and give them what they want while doing what equates to "good enough" in their eyes while She kills time waiting to redo it herself the minute they are out the door.
Some male slaves serve impeccably because they truly do get off on pleasing a Woman which for this Mistress is valuable which can equate with "hot". It is all about the authenticity in the original verbalization.
Hello WriterDom long time no see!