I can't live if livin' is without.......

[SweetGigi]

What is the one sexual act that you will not/cannot and refuse to live with out? The one that is a deal breaker if it turns out the love of your life won't allow/preform? We've talked about hard limits, so now I want to know what it is you can't live with out?


For me, it is simply the kiss.

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[SubKekiLee]

What is the one sexual act that you will not/cannot and refuse to live with out? The one that is a deal breaker if it turns out the love of your life won't allow/preform? We've talked about hard limits, so now I want to know what it is you can't live with out?


For me, it is simply the kiss.

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Well Gigi... For me now... I'd have to say now that it pretty much out in the open that I am submissive I am never going to settle for someone who cannot provide me the control I need... But since I have a partner who is Dom... I am hoping to never end.. but since I cannot forsee the future.. Id say I cannot live without a dominate personality...

 

[intothewoods]

Not kissing would be odd. Other than that, I guess, ahem, being on top. If I could never do that again, it would suck. On the other hand, I've learned there are lot of ways to make this girl sing.

 

[intothewoods]

Oh, ha - yeah, the D part is kinda big. I could probably be with a switch though, if the connection were right and he was a Toppy switch.

 

[DVS]

I know what I couldn't live without. Now that would be a deal breaker, for sure.

 

[intothewoods]

Not kissing would be odd. Other than that, I guess, ahem, being on top. If I could never do that again, it would suck. On the other hand, I've learned there are lot of ways to make this girl sing.

Just to clarify - I meant that literally. I don't want to Top. I just want to be on top sometimes. This is awkward.

 

[TeachMeSir]

Kissing. I can not live without kising.....

hhhmmmmmm.......

*Little kisses on the back of the neck as I do some mundane task
*A quick kiss as I walk past.
*When someting adorable is said & rewarded with a kiss
*A hand cupping my face with a meaning ful look before a soft brush of the lips across mine and then trailed down my neck & collar bone.
* A cheeky comment elicts a primal response, a hard kiss & bite on my neck.
* A lingering kiss turns into something more urgent and I am against the wall with my leg wrapped around him.
* Kissing his body as he slides into me, tasting him.
* Gentle kisses after orgasm before we seperate.
* Morning kisses of reintroduction..."this is me and I give it to you"

Ahhh, yes, I like kissing.

 

[ownedsubgal]

of course i have no right to set limits or "refuse" to go without anything. but if i had to choose one act that would make me a very sad, miserable, frustrated little slavechick to do without, without question it would be sucking cock. i need it i need it i need it i NEED it..***** would be rather gray and bleak without it.

 

[BiBunny]

of course i have no right to set limits or "refuse" to go without anything. but if i had to choose one act that would make me a very sad, miserable, frustrated little slavechick to do without, without question it would be sucking cock. i need it i need it i need it i NEED it..***** would be rather gray and bleak without it.

That's what I was going to say!

Well, that and just stroking/petting my partner's body. I'm not a kisser or a cuddler. Petting is how I show affection (and very few people ever get this from me!), but I don't think that's really considered a sexual act.

 

[WriterDom]

A pussy!

 

[Netzach]

People who have issues with me getting myself off are out. Honestly if I can watch/touch someone hot while I masturbate the rest of my life I'm good.

 

[intothewoods]

A pussy!

Men are so easy.

People who have issues with me getting myself off are out. Honestly if I can watch/touch someone hot while I masturbate the rest of my life I'm good.

I used to have issues with this. I still sometimes do! I feel guilty. Let me help! I should be doing something! At least let me fix you breakfast.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

*thinks about this*

You know there is really nothing of a sexual nature that can not live without. *shrugs* I think the closest though would be giving/getting head. It would suck immensely if I couldn't do it/get it...but I wouldn't stop talking to someone who didn't want to do it/have it done.

 

[EmpressFi]

nothing sexual I couldnt live without... honestly.. sex isnt all that important.

It's fun.. but not.. important

but touch.. contact.. emotional contact.. I couldnt stand that.

 

[FurryFury]

Sexually, I'm tempted to say; fucking (with variations on the theme) at least every third night, though I'd like that to happen more often. Three times a day is ideal. We never seem to have that kind of time for pleasure though.

However if my partner were paralyzed or something and couldn't have sex, I wouldn't leave him over it. So, really I guess there is nothing I can't live without.

 

[graceanne]

intercourse.

 

[00Syd]

Hugs and cuddling

 

[midwestyankee]

Speech

 

[Netzach]

Men are so easy.



I used to have issues with this. I still sometimes do! I feel guilty. Let me help! I should be doing something! At least let me fix you breakfast.

That's why if you're tied up, gagged and looking pretty, it's perfect.

 

[intothewoods]

That's why if you're tied up, gagged and looking pretty, it's perfect.

I actually get that a lot!

 

[Homburg]

Submission/surrender. Lack thereof would be a relationship dealbreaker. Not saying I could not have fun with a non-submissive, but I would not consider someone relationship material sans that particular bit of sexuality. The given acts I enjoy are honestly immaterial in, and of, themself. The interplay is the important thing.

ETA: Yes, I realise this is not explicitly a sexual act. *shrug*

 

[DeservingBitch]

Playing with pussies. Mine and others'.

 

[YourCaptor]

intercourse.

agreed

without ever having another body to fuck I would probably be in a vegetative state.

 

[Tebazile]

I know it's already been said, but... kissing. It makes me feel valued and cherished.

And not being able to give head would suck ass.

 

[twysted73]

Kissing. I can not live without kising.....

hhhmmmmmm.......

*Little kisses on the back of the neck as I do some mundane task
*A quick kiss as I walk past.
*When someting adorable is said & rewarded with a kiss
*A hand cupping my face with a meaning ful look before a soft brush of the lips across mine and then trailed down my neck & collar bone.
* A cheeky comment elicts a primal response, a hard kiss & bite on my neck.
* A lingering kiss turns into something more urgent and I am against the wall with my leg wrapped around him.
* Kissing his body as he slides into me, tasting him.
* Gentle kisses after orgasm before we seperate.
* Morning kisses of reintroduction..."this is me and I give it to you"

Ahhh, yes, I like kissing.

Shit I hate admitting I'm a softie but this was right on.
Other then that? Absolute deal breaker?

Intimacy/touching.
You could be blind, deaf, mute...I'll roll with it Helen. But kisses, touching, contact..cannot live without.

Like living with a germaphobe...always washing and wiping and scrubbing after being touched? Pass.
I don't know how Howie Mandel's wife does it.