The word "Faggot"

[lushlucid]

No, I really notice this.

How many women talk about doing their man up the pooper on here?

Maybe you just dont get out much, it's a new fad.

The thought of the male being subserviant is a huge turn on for some women.

In reality, neither sex should be subserviant during sex, that is dysfunctional.

Yes, they are women that are in a relationship, why would a woman who is in a heterosexual relationship want to turn her bf/husband gay? You're a fuckin idiot.

 

[TurdFergeson]

I'm not a fan of labels. I like names...as in people's names. They're good. Anything else I tend to avoid.

But over here the term 'fag hag' is used to describe a woman who's best friends with a gay man, not necessarily a woman whose ONLY friends are gay men. I think the relationship works 'cause when she asks him what he thinks about the outfit she's wearing, he actually tells her the truth rather than just grunting.

haha, so most men "grunt'??

 

[TurdFergeson]

Yes, they are women that are in a relationship, why would a woman who is in a heterosexual relationship want to turn her bf/husband gay? You're a fuckin idiot.

You tell me! You can't but you love calling names.

You must have been insulted a lot, haven't you?

Why do some women want their men to bend over and take it?

Hmmmm?

 

[Bubba84]

I noticed that. But they ignore the nasty comments about wishing death on people and talking about their genitals.

Hypocrites, really.

Exactly. I'm glad i'm not the only one who notices this.

 

[hiddenleaf]

Yes, it is different for a black person to say "nigger" than for a white person to say it, and different for a gay person to say "fag" than for a straight person to say it. If you're a member of an oppressed group, and you've heard a nasty insult like "nigger" or "fag" all your life, trying to take the sting out of the word by using it lightly with your friends is a coping mechanism.

It's a bit like... Suppose my mom dies, and I'm grieving for her. And suppose once in a while I try to lighten my grief by making a joke about it. That's a coping mechanism, and it's my right to do that. But if some random person decides to make wisecracks at me about my dead mom, just because he finds it fun or because he's mad at me, he's kind of an asshole, right?

 

[TurdFergeson]

Yes, it is different for a black person to say "nigger" than for a white person to say it, and different for a gay person to say "fag" than for a straight person to say it. If you're a member of an oppressed group, and you've heard a nasty insult like "nigger" or "fag" all your life, trying to take the sting out of the word by using it lightly with your friends is a coping mechanism.

It's a bit like... Suppose my mom dies, and I'm grieving for her. And suppose once in a while I try to lighten my grief by making a joke about it. That's a coping mechanism, and it's my right to do that. But if some random person decides to make wisecracks at me about my dead mom, just because he finds it fun or because he's mad at me, he's kind of an asshole, right?

Hypocrisy. It would be bigotted for me , being white, to say "all white people suck at dancing".

Being white does not give me an excuse to throw around stereotypes. Mainly because it's just plain incorrect.

 

[hiddenleaf]

Hypocrisy. It would be bigotted for me , being white, to say "all white people suck at dancing".

Being white doe not give me an excuse to throw around stereotypes. Mainly because it's just plain incorrect.

But we were talking about language and tone, not statements of fact. "All white people suck at dancing" is an assertion of a fact that is incorrect. The word "nigger" isn't a statement of fact, it's a word that has hurtful potential because of how it is used.

 

[TurdFergeson]

But we were talking about language and tone, not statements of fact. "All white people suck at dancing" is an assertion of a fact that is incorrect. The word "nigger" isn't a statement of fact, it's a word that has hurtful potential because of how it is used.

Um, ALL words have "hurtful potential' if used in certain ways.

I don't see your point.

If a guy constantly talks about penis and male genitalia, he's a faggot. Period.

 

[Bubba84]

This whole discussion is semantics. You say Tomato...

 

[TurdFergeson]

This whole discussion is semantics. You say Tomato...

The question is:

Am I a "homophobe" for calling a guy a "faggot", after he said he wished I would stop breathing and talked about my penis?

And even posted a picture of a naked man wearing a only a penis gourd?

 

[hiddenleaf]

Um, ALL words have "hurtful potential' if used in certain ways.

I don't see your point.

If a guy constantly talks about penis and male genitalia, he's a faggot. Period.

Surely you understand the point that "nigger" has implications that are different from "black person."

 

[TurdFergeson]

Surely you understand the point that "nigger" has implications that are different from "black person."

Yes, like slavery.

Which is why the "n" word and the "F" word are NOT the same, as Lady F implied.

 

[hiddenleaf]

Yes, like slavery.

Which is why the "n" word and the "F" word are NOT the same, as Lady F implied.

They are the same in that they are both words of hate.

"Nigger" is the word of hate and contempt that non-blacks use against blacks.

"Faggot" is the word of hate and contempt that non-gays use against gay men.

 

[TurdFergeson]

They are the same in that they are both words of hate.

"Nigger" is the word of hate and contempt that non-blacks use against blacks.

"Faggot" is the word of hate and contempt that non-gays use against gay men.

It's also a word used as an observation. Of a guy who constantly thinks about and posts about other guys cocks.

lol

 

[hiddenleaf]

It's also a word used as an observation. Of a guy who constantly thinks about and posts about other guys cocks.

lol

If all you're trying to do is make an observation that you think he's gay, then why use a word that's traditionally used in such a hateful way? Why not just say "gay"?

 

[lushlucid]

Firstly have you thought maybe the men asked them to have it done to them?
Secondly, you must be either close minded, homophobic or both to assume what you have.

And lastly, literotica is hardly a cross section of the general public.

 

[TurdFergeson]

If all you're trying to do is make an observation that you think he's gay, then why use a word that's traditionally used in such a hateful way? Why not just say "gay"?

I will admit to compare all gay people to that individual is wrong.

Gay people are MUCH better people, in general.

lol

 

[TurdFergeson]

Firstly have you thought maybe the men asked them to have it done to them?
Secondly, you must be either close minded, homophobic or both to assume what you have.

And lastly, literotica is hardly a cross section of the general public.

I'm sure some men do. (Fags).

I assume nothing. I have seen how women have attempted to feminize men.

Like I said, it seems to be a fad in society at large.

Literotica IS a cross section, you must be close minded to think everyone here is some type of freak. That's not nice.

 

[Bubba84]

The question is:

Am I a "homophobe" for calling a guy a "faggot", after he said he wished I would stop breathing and talked about my penis?

And even posted a picture of a naked man wearing a only a penis gourd?

In my opinion, No.

That's all I have to say on the subject.

 

[MechaBlade]

Are black rappers "racist" when they use the "N' word?

No, just ignorant, because they don't use it as an insult.

 

[TurdFergeson]

No, just ignorant, because they don't use it as an insult.

Oh, I beg to differ, many times they do.

 

[MechaBlade]

Oh, I beg to differ, many times they do.

Most the time they don't.

 

[TurdFergeson]

Most the time they don't.

Most of the time not.

Now, do you think the N word and the F word are comparable, besides both can be used as an insult?

 

[MechaBlade]

Most of the time not.

Now, do you think the N word and the F word are comparable, besides both can be used as an insult?

No, nothing is comparable to "nigger." It's unique in it's popularity, variety of meanings and usages and level of offensiveness.

"Fuck" is just a crude word for sex, which is a good thing.

 

[TurdFergeson]

No, nothing is comparable to "nigger." It's unique in it's popularity, variety of meanings and usages and level of offensiveness.

"Fuck" is just a crude word for sex, which is a good thing.

I agree.