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Belegon said:
This always seems to need repeating...


Men Do Not Get Hints.
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Well, I don't want to seem like a total wanton on first meeting. Second meeting maybe ;)
I actually was talkative, somewhat flirty but was a good girl and didn't proposition anyone. Looking back, maybe I should have but overall it was a great time. There wasn't any time that I can remember where conversation lulled. Mostly we were breaking out in laughter and having to Shush people due to the crankies who were trying to sleep in a hotel. :eek: Sleeping, in a hotel, what is the world coming to?
 
S-Des said:
OK folks, have yourselves a good night. I'm not reading through 28 pages again, so if you're going to get crazy make sure someone takes cliff notes. :rose:
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sleep well.............

I'm probably an hour behind you myself........

16 hours I'm looking at tomorrow as far as work is concerned........ gotta go in earlier because a supervisor injured herself today and can't make it tomorrow
 
mansome said:
I am totally clueless..........

I literally need my cock grabbed before I wake up and realize I'm "wanted"
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But how do we know that you want us unless you let us know? I don't want to offend someone with attention they don't want so I am very cautious about approaching someone. Was raised that ladies didn't chase the men.
 
OneLustyWench said:
Well, I don't want to seem like a total wanton on first meeting. Second meeting maybe ;)
I actually was talkative, somewhat flirty but was a good girl and didn't proposition anyone. Looking back, maybe I should have but overall it was a great time. There wasn't any time that I can remember where conversation lulled. Mostly we were breaking out in laughter and having to Shush people due to the crankies who were trying to sleep in a hotel. :eek: Sleeping, in a hotel, what is the world coming to?
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Well, I know I would have loved more time getting to know you myself........ but you conducted yourself very well........ was impressed with your

Restraint
 
OneLustyWench said:
But how do we know that you want us unless you let us know? I don't want to offend someone with attention they don't want so I am very cautious about approaching someone. Was raised that ladies didn't chase the men.
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such is my life.. *laugh*

seriously.......... I'd rather have the confusion and the possibility of missing out on something that could have been .. then to go through the game playing of letting a woman have the satisfaction of knowing I want her first with tons of other men along with me just there to flatter her (in her eyes)

I know.. fucked up...
 
OneLustyWench said:
But how do we know that you want us unless you let us know? I don't want to offend someone with attention they don't want so I am very cautious about approaching someone. Was raised that ladies didn't chase the men.
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I've got the same problem.

I usually try for the old Saying it directly and if there's an awkward silence, quickly pretend that it was a joke.

Doesn't work very well :rolleyes:
 
mansome said:
such is my life.. *laugh*

seriously.......... I'd rather have the confusion and the possibility of missing out on something that could have been .. then to go through the game playing of letting a woman have the satisfaction of knowing I want her first with tons of other men along with me just there to flatter her (in her eyes)

I know.. fucked up...
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Oooh you so needed to talk to me more. Took me 20 years to accept Nero calling me gorgeous. (I still think he's biased) I honestly am flattered every time someone is attracted to me. Men or women. I don't see it, many others don't and those that do tend to get rewarded.
 
mansome said:
such is my life.. *laugh*

seriously.......... I'd rather have the confusion and the possibility of missing out on something that could have been .. then to go through the game playing of letting a woman have the satisfaction of knowing I want her first with tons of other men along with me just there to flatter her (in her eyes)

I know.. fucked up...
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I don't have this... what I have is the "must be absolutely certain that I am not doing or saying something that is unwanted" thing.

I am TOTALLY about consent. Always have been.
 
OneLustyWench said:
Oooh you so needed to talk to me more. Took me 20 years to accept Nero calling me gorgeous. (I still think he's biased) I honestly am flattered every time someone is attracted to me. Men or women. I don't see it, many others don't and those that do tend to get rewarded.
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you are a sexy wench for sure....................:rose:
 
OneLustyWench said:
Oooh you so needed to talk to me more. Took me 20 years to accept Nero calling me gorgeous. (I still think he's biased) I honestly am flattered every time someone is attracted to me. Men or women. I don't see it, many others don't and those that do tend to get rewarded.
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I'm just getting used to having an effect on people. I spent years feeling like the ugliest bitch on the planet.

My husband and Lit are the two major factors that got the ball rolling for me, and now I'm slowly getting used to the fact that other people might actually find me sexy. It's a learning process, slow, and there are setbacks, but I do believe I've come a long way (and I think there was a lot of evidence of that last weekend). Just the fact that I have learned to talk to people and flirt with them makes me very happy. A few years ago I couldn't have done it.



And for the record, I think you're fantastic. :rose:
 
Belegon said:
I don't have this... what I have is the "must be absolutely certain that I am not doing or saying something that is unwanted" thing.

I am TOTALLY about consent. Always have been.
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Honor, integrity and consent. Can never go wrong with those.
*I'd still love to do a kilt check on you. The demo just lacked something with towels.
 
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fieryjen said:
I'm just getting used to having an effect on people. I spent years feeling like the ugliest bitch on the planet.

My husband and Lit are the two major factors that got the ball rolling for me, and now I'm slowly getting used to the fact that other people might actually find me sexy. It's a learning process, slow, and there are setbacks, but I do believe I've come a long way (and I think there was a lot of evidence of that last weekend). Just the fact that I have learned to talk to people and flirt with them makes me very happy. A few years ago I couldn't have done it.



And for the record, I think you're fantastic. :rose:
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Yes, you've come a long way baby. And you've just started so enjoy the ride! ;)

And thank you very much. :rose:
 
OneLustyWench said:
Well, I don't want to seem like a total wanton on first meeting. Second meeting maybe ;)
I actually was talkative, somewhat flirty but was a good girl and didn't proposition anyone. Looking back, maybe I should have but overall it was a great time. There wasn't any time that I can remember where conversation lulled. Mostly we were breaking out in laughter and having to Shush people due to the crankies who were trying to sleep in a hotel. :eek: Sleeping, in a hotel, what is the world coming to?
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People were trying to sleep there? :eek:
 
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