Your best or your worst PM or IM opening lines... and if you want your reactions ...

[RedHairedandFriendly]

bumpin' for red

w00t!!! Thanks. I needed a good bump this evening.

How is your weekend starting out? Good, I hope.

 

[Guest]

w00t!!! Thanks. I needed a good bump this evening.

How is your weekend starting out? Good, I hope.

not really but it never is good so i'm used to it.......how's by you?

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

not really but it never is good so i'm used to it.......how's by you?

Sorry to hear that. I'm okay, fighting a stomach bug, but nothing too horrid, just a bit draining.

 

[Guest]

Sorry to hear that. I'm okay, fighting a stomach bug, but nothing too horrid, just a bit draining.

bummer, hope you feel better soon

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

bummer, hope you feel better soon

Thanks, I do.

 

[Guest]

Thanks, I do.

yeah! http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/bounce014.gif

 

[agent2407]

Rofl.....

I got....
Hard, hot & horny.. are you?


Hard....????? duh!!!

I find this amusing.....

And genuinely, here is why...

There are seriously a huge amount of men posing as women out there in cyberspace! Normally ugly, smelly breathed drunks that can't get their kicks in real life...

So they, on the odd occasion when they do stumble across a lady to chat to, they forget themselves....

They are so wrapped up in wanking with a false photo of some young doll that they forget that women do actually chat too!

So they therefore get used to asking Julie, Sarah or whatever her name is if "she" has a hardon too!

Believe me, as a woman you wouldn't understand it but it is true......sadly!!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

yeah! http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/bounce014.gif

I love the bouncing smiles. I've not seen them in a loooong time. Thanks.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I find this amusing.....

And genuinely, here is why...

There are seriously a huge amount of men posing as women out there in cyberspace! Normally ugly, smelly breathed drunks that can't get their kicks in real life...

So they, on the odd occasion when they do stumble across a lady to chat to, they forget themselves....

They are so wrapped up in wanking with a false photo of some young doll that they forget that women do actually chat too!

So they therefore get used to asking Julie, Sarah or whatever her name is if "she" has a hardon too!

Believe me, as a woman you wouldn't understand it but it is true......sadly!!

If memory serves me right, I wasn't chatting with this particular person, they just PMed me that. *shakes head* It is a mystery to me sometimes.

I have been tempted, very tempted to PM a gentleman or two on Lit because they have gotten under my skin sexually and it was just a post or perhaps an av they had, but I come here instead or blurt about it, because I just can't bring myself to molest someone I don't know in a PM right off the bat. I want respect so I try to give it too.

 

[agent2407]

If memory serves me right, I wasn't chatting with this particular person, they just PMed me that. *shakes head* It is a mystery to me sometimes.

I have been tempted, very tempted to PM a gentleman or two on Lit because they have gotten under my skin sexually and it was just a post or perhaps an av they had, but I come here instead or blurt about it, because I just can't bring myself to molest someone I don't know in a PM right off the bat. I want respect so I try to give it too.

Credit and respect to you....

The point I am making is that he may have been one of those that hid behind false AV's and descriptions and there fore, wrongly, assumed that everyone else did that, including you...

People like that do amuse me enormously

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Credit and respect to you....

The point I am making is that he may have been one of those that hid behind false AV's and descriptions and there fore, wrongly, assumed that everyone else did that, including you...

People like that do amuse me enormously

Possibly yes. I do have alts, but I keep them in the SRP forum, unless someone sends them a PM/IM that is sexual. Then they make an appearance here. My alts otherwise stay in the SRP forum where they write in threads I am in that I didn't want to die.

 

[agent2407]

Possibly yes. I do have alts, but I keep them in the SRP forum, unless someone sends them a PM/IM that is sexual. Then they make an appearance here. My alts otherwise stay in the SRP forum where they write in threads I am in that I didn't want to die.

Hope you didn't think I was suggesting you had ALT's. Simply saying that some "men" will stoop to all sorts of lows to get their kicks

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Hope you didn't think I was suggesting you had ALT's. Simply saying that some "men" will stoop to all sorts of lows to get their kicks

Nope, wasn't worried at all. Everyone around here knows I have them. They may not realize who they are, simply because they don't post in the SRP forum. Those that write a lot with me know who they are and if folks are curious I'll tell them up front. My alts never write sex with another person except the people I control, unless the other writer is aware I'm writing the part.

But anyway...

There are women on Lit that use alts too and they use them for the same reasons men do, simply because they feel they need another outlet to either inflict pain on others, or to find a way to find something they are missing in their other personality.

I find my own RedHairedandFriendly self is plenty for me. I don't think I could handle another frequent posting person.

 

[anna_tv]

Hope you didn't think I was suggesting you had ALT's. Simply saying that some "men" will stoop to all sorts of lows to get their kicks

What percentage of girls you think are actually just guys pretending? From my experience I think it's pretty high. They're usually pretty crap at it too. But it's not like they're ever going to say "I'm a guy" so its all guesswork / hunches.

All a bit depressing really.

 

[agent2407]

What percentage of girls you think are actually just guys pretending? From my experience I think it's pretty high. They're usually pretty crap at it too. But it's not like they're ever going to say "I'm a guy" so its all guesswork / hunches.

All a bit depressing really.

Anna, i have read your posts and I have nothing but total respect for you. Everyone knows where they stand with you and that is refreshing.

I do, however, like you, think there are a high percentage out there but not here on Lit.

I mean in general chat rooms on msn, yahoo et al.

anyway, sexy pics by the way....and I'm straight, like you!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

What percentage of girls you think are actually just guys pretending? From my experience I think it's pretty high. They're usually pretty crap at it too. But it's not like they're ever going to say "I'm a guy" so its all guesswork / hunches.

All a bit depressing really.

I think it is just the reality one has to take with being online. You have to go with your gut instinct and yes, sometimes your gut instinct is wrong, but for the most part, I've learned about how long it takes to find the lies behind the words that spill from folks.

 

[anna_tv]

Anna, i have read your posts and I have nothing but total respect for you. Everyone knows where they stand with you and that is refreshing.

I do, however, like you, think there are a high percentage out there but not here on Lit.

I mean in general chat rooms on msn, yahoo et al.

anyway, sexy pics by the way....and I'm straight, like you!

Aww, thanks, that's such a lovely post.

I would like to think I'm pretty straight forward. Still amazes me that people don't bother to read my profile and ask me silly questions. I've never tried to pass myself off as a woman. Funny how people make assumptions (dangerous things).

You are right, lit is better, though the chat rooms aren't great. I guess it's just down to the speed of communication, people tend to use IM / chat when they want to get off. This means they don't show the same honesty / respect to people. And chat's aren't stored. Whereas every word here is saved for anyone to see - encourages honesty / decency.

Anyway I'll stop ranting. Thanks for the compliment and kind words.

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[anna_tv]

I think it is just the reality one has to take with being online. You have to go with your gut instinct and yes, sometimes your gut instinct is wrong, but for the most part, I've learned about how long it takes to find the lies behind the words that spill from folks.

Yeah, you pick up good questions to ask that catch people out. And often just the sheer laziness of someone's dialogue is a clue. I think women take more care and pay more attention to what they say than guys pretending to be women.

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[RedHairedandFriendly]

Yeah, you pick up good questions to ask that catch people out. And often just the sheer laziness of someone's dialogue is a clue. I think women take more care and pay more attention to what they say than guys pretending to be women.

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It never takes long for the truth to come out. Recently I had a gentleman (and I use the term loosely) that PMed me claiming he wanted to be a friend and how he admired my work... I was fine with that, gave him a few links to threads I post on. He posted here twice and then as the PMs came, it wasn't long. (I believe the six one he sent revealed his intentions) He wanted to know if I was in the mood to get a bit erotic. *shakes head* I blew up at him in a PM and then blew up here on the thread. Still thinking about him irrates me, not because I knew him, or liked him, but because I tried to be polite and respectful and give him the benefit of the doubt. It is men like that that make me leery of PMs that turn out to be ones that are truely only wanting to be friends first and maybe lovers later.

 

[Guest]

I'm a (45+) lez who likes BWW. You're beautiful and brave. You are a real turn on. I just wanted to tell you I've been amusing myself with your pics. Thanks for the courage to post.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I'm a (45+) lez who likes BWW. You're beautiful and brave. You are a real turn on. I just wanted to tell you I've been amusing myself with your pics. Thanks for the courage to post.

That's a sweet one.

 

[anna_tv]

It never takes long for the truth to come out. Recently I had a gentleman (and I use the term loosely) that PMed me claiming he wanted to be a friend and how he admired my work... I was fine with that, gave him a few links to threads I post on. He posted here twice and then as the PMs came, it wasn't long. (I believe the six one he sent revealed his intentions) He wanted to know if I was in the mood to get a bit erotic. *shakes head* I blew up at him in a PM and then blew up here on the thread. Still thinking about him irrates me, not because I knew him, or liked him, but because I tried to be polite and respectful and give him the benefit of the doubt. It is men like that that make me leery of PMs that turn out to be ones that are truely only wanting to be friends first and maybe lovers later.

Yeah there are a fair few disingenuous (10 points) people about.

So he was daft enough to post on this thread and then pull the same trick himself?

I think the general rule is take everything someone says with a pinch of salt if you have never actually met / spoken to them. It's a bit of a pessimistic view, because I know I'm not the only decent person here (there are plenty) but you have to be careful to protect yourself from the freaks.

x

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Yeah there are a fair few disingenuous (10 points) people about.

So he was daft enough to post on this thread and then pull the same trick himself?

I think the general rule is take everything someone says with a pinch of salt if you have never actually met / spoken to them. It's a bit of a pessimistic view, because I know I'm not the only decent person here (there are plenty) but you have to be careful to protect yourself from the freaks.

x

Yes, you do. I will admit, if a person PMs me on a good day they will be pleasantly surprised. But they really need to know me well enough to even think a spontanious moment is going to happen, which means they have either posted a lot with me in the past, or they've lurked enough to know when I have a need that needs to be met now. lol

 

[JagFarlane]

Yeah there are a fair few disingenuous (10 points) people about.

So he was daft enough to post on this thread and then pull the same trick himself?

I think the general rule is take everything someone says with a pinch of salt if you have never actually met / spoken to them. It's a bit of a pessimistic view, because I know I'm not the only decent person here (there are plenty) but you have to be careful to protect yourself from the freaks.

x

Completely agreed. And it does go both ways these days. There are some women that just...GAH! -shudders- Ah well, such is life, eh?

 

[anna_tv]

Yes, you do. I will admit, if a person PMs me on a good day they will be pleasantly surprised. But they really need to know me well enough to even think a spontanious moment is going to happen, which means they have either posted a lot with me in the past, or they've lurked enough to know when I have a need that needs to be met now. lol

Sometimes it's about how well someone writes. I much more inclined to reply to someone if they've:

Said something that shows they read my profile / some of my posts
Used a spell checker
Written in full sentences
Actually posted on the board - there are a lot of lurkers

I do admit to sometimes firing off a quick PM saying - I love your pics. But I think that's ok, every 'conversation' has to start somewhere.

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