Bunny's Stuffie Corner

[NuclearFairy]

Take all the hugs.

 

[BiBunny]

Take all the hugs.

Thank you!

So Daddy forgot my birthday, even though I reminded him on Tuesday that it was today. I don't know whether I'm even going to bother saying anything to him about it or not. It won't change anything, anyway.

I spent my day helping my mother put up Christmas decorations. Yay.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Thank you!

So Daddy forgot my birthday, even though I reminded him on Tuesday that it was today. I don't know whether I'm even going to bother saying anything to him about it or not. It won't change anything, anyway.

I spent my day helping my mother put up Christmas decorations. Yay.

Well, Happy birthday from me. I'm glad you were born more than 18 years ago.

Oh crap it's almost Christmas time. I mean, yay, Christmas time is coming, time to go rearrange everything so we can get our tree up.

Did you at least have some fun hanging out with your mom? Do you have any fun holiday traditions that you look forward to?

 

[BiBunny]

Well, Happy birthday from me. I'm glad you were born more than 18 years ago.

Oh crap it's almost Christmas time. I mean, yay, Christmas time is coming, time to go rearrange everything so we can get our tree up.

Did you at least have some fun hanging out with your mom? Do you have any fun holiday traditions that you look forward to?

Thank you so much! I'm 42 today and feel at least twice that, lol.

It was ok, just exhausting. I'm not much of a family person, I guess, so none of the holiday traditions really appeal to me. I go along with them because it makes my mom happy, but I'd really rather spend the holidays doing something else, lol. I know that's awful, haha.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Hey that's around my own age. =D

No not awful. Everyone has different desires and wants. Personally I'd be much happier if I could give presents without receiving any. I don't need any of this stuff. D= Just give me a picture or a card or something immaterial and lemme give you stuff. Stupid family wanting to give and receive.

But I love them, so like you I go along with it and act excited about the gifts. And occasionally they surprise me with something that I am really happy to have gotten.

 

[scarlett_babygirl]

Hey All: I'm looking for some moral support. My long-term Daddy has stopped communicating and I don't know why.

I was travelling for Thanksgiving to be with family. It was far and into a different country. I was on my way back home and the engine in my car went into, "limp," mode. I'm now stranded, waiting to hear about the warranty coverage.

I have been adulting SO hard and it makes me want my Daddy much more. To make matters worse, I left my usual cuddle stuffie at home and brought a smaller one that is easier to pack.

I'm just floundering a bit.

 

[BiBunny]

Hey All: I'm looking for some moral support. My long-term Daddy has stopped communicating and I don't know why.

I was travelling for Thanksgiving to be with family. It was far and into a different country. I was on my way back home and the engine in my car went into, "limp," mode. I'm now stranded, waiting to hear about the warranty coverage.

I have been adulting SO hard and it makes me want my Daddy much more. To make matters worse, I left my usual cuddle stuffie at home and brought a smaller one that is easier to pack.

I'm just floundering a bit.

I am so sorry this is all happening to you at once. It seems like things never happen one at a time with space between them so you can recover from one crisis before another one pops up. Oh, no, it all crashes down on you at one time, and it's fucking overwhelming. So I'm really sorry about that.

Also, as someone whose Daddy communicates whenever he damn well feels like it and ignores me the rest of the time, I'm sorry your Daddy has stopped communicating, too. It's frustrating and infuriating, and it makes you feel insignificant.

I hope things get better for you soon. Hug your travel stuffie close and tell him/her/it/they what's on your mind. They'll understand. They always do.

 

[scarlett_babygirl]

I am so sorry this is all happening to you at once. It seems like things never happen one at a time with space between them so you can recover from one crisis before another one pops up. Oh, no, it all crashes down on you at one time, and it's fucking overwhelming. So I'm really sorry about that.

Also, as someone whose Daddy communicates whenever he damn well feels like it and ignores me the rest of the time, I'm sorry your Daddy has stopped communicating, too. It's frustrating and infuriating, and it makes you feel insignificant.

I hope things get better for you soon. Hug your travel stuffie close and tell him/her/it/they what's on your mind. They'll understand. They always do.

Thank you for this, especially that last part. I also lost my dog this year. I used to talk to him about everything and he would snuggle into me. I never thought about telling my travel stuffie. I bet it feels good. I appreciate the suggestion.

I can't do sporadic communication. You are stronger than I am in that regard. My mind spirals and wonders if I did something wrong. You nailed it about feeling insignificant. I'm sorry you are experiencing that.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Hey All: I'm looking for some moral support. My long-term Daddy has stopped communicating and I don't know why.

I was travelling for Thanksgiving to be with family. It was far and into a different country. I was on my way back home and the engine in my car went into, "limp," mode. I'm now stranded, waiting to hear about the warranty coverage.

I have been adulting SO hard and it makes me want my Daddy much more. To make matters worse, I left my usual cuddle stuffie at home and brought a smaller one that is easier to pack.

I'm just floundering a bit.

Have some hugs.



Hope it gets better soon.

 

[scarlett_babygirl]

Have some hugs.



Hope it gets better soon.

Thank you for the hugs!

I'm so happy I reached out here!

 

[BiBunny]

Thank you for the hugs!

I'm so happy I reached out here!

I'm happy you did, too. I hope you're feeling better today.

 

[BiBunny]

The Kitty is in!



Gonna start leaving her on while I work.

 

[BiBunny]

It's been cold (for here) for the past week and a half (highs in the 40s). I've taken to covering my Hello Kitty stuffies with my Hello Kitty snuggie (remember those?) to keep them warm, lol.

ETA: Also, the humidity has been very high (it's 82% right now, and it's not raining), so it's a disgusting, wet cold that seeps into your arthritic joints...wait, maybe that's just me.

 

[NuclearFairy]

We've finally got the heaters plugged in around here, but I'm a freak who likes the cold so we're all wearing sweaters anyways.

 

[BiBunny]

We've finally got the heaters plugged in around here, but I'm a freak who likes the cold so we're all wearing sweaters anyways.

Same here. My apartment has central heat and air, but I keep the heat set at 62 while I'm up and 58 when I go to bed, lol. Setting it any higher during the day results in my sweating in bed at night.

I used to work from my bed, but since I got the new mattress, I'm trying very hard not to ruin it. So I've been trying to work from the desk chair. I'm currently in the process of loom knitting myself some warm slipper socks because it's rather chilly when I'm not under the covers, lol.

 

[BiBunny]

Heyyyy, y'all.

I got my crafting website relaunched (again). I got a little two-paragraph write-up in a local magazine for my crafts. I'm trying desperately to get my shit together to get some stuff made to put in a shop to sell before Christmas, lol.

So it's chaos as usual around here, tbh. How is everyone doing?

 

[NuclearFairy]

I got a mountain of presents to wrap, two little boys hair to cut, and a tree to decorate once the weekend comes. I'll get through it though, I always do.

 

[BiBunny]

I got a mountain of presents to wrap, two little boys hair to cut, and a tree to decorate once the weekend comes. I'll get through it though, I always do.

Oh, wow, that's a lot! Hope it all goes as smoothly as possible for you.

I decided not to do a tree this year, but I also don't have any kids in the house (or at all, lol). I have done at least one each year the past several years, and I usually end up not even plugging the damn thing in. So I told myself I'd save the effort for something else this year.

I put a snowman sign on the front door, and that will be the extent of my own personal decorating, lol. I did help with my mom's tree the day after Thanksgiving, though.

I actually don't mind wrapping presents, if my back will hold out. It's kinda fun.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Oh, wow, that's a lot! Hope it all goes as smoothly as possible for you.

Thanks!

I decided not to do a tree this year, but I also don't have any kids in the house (or at all, lol). I have done at least one each year the past several years, and I usually end up not even plugging the damn thing in. So I told myself I'd save the effort for something else this year.

Ours is only a little tree, not much space for anything bigger. The difficult part is coordinating the kids so that they all feel like they had an equal hand in decorating.

I put a snowman sign on the front door, and that will be the extent of my own personal decorating, lol. I did help with my mom's tree the day after Thanksgiving, though.

I actually don't mind wrapping presents, if my back will hold out. It's kinda fun.

Same here. The problem is it's a mountain, and so my back is likely to ache before I'm done.

 

[BiBunny]

My sympathies are with your poor back!

 

[BiBunny]

Guys...how difficult (and/or expensive) do you think it'd be to fake one's own death? Asking for a friend.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Very difficult, and generally not worth it. As for expensive. I could be as cheap as dropping your clothes and ID into a river and then walking naked as far as you get until you're picked up as some sort of amnesiac Jane/John Doe or as expensive as hiring a team of people to fake it for you and then whisk you away to another country with a brand new identity.

 

[BiBunny]

That's disappointing. Fine. My...friend...will just have to come up with something else.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Why's your friend want to fake their own death?

Oh, are they planning to crash their own funeral? Cause I can see how that might be fun.

 

[BiBunny]

Why's your friend want to fake their own death?

Oh, are they planning to crash their own funeral? Cause I can see how that might be fun.

I think so, too!

My friend just needs people to stop using her as an emotional crutch, but everyone around her is so fucking stunted that it'd probably be easier to just fake her own death than to refer these people to therapy or get them to have the slightest ounce of self-awareness, lol.