Do you get the impression you somehow always end up with partners who have a certain penis size?

[WeShallUnclench]

Important, this is not a "does size matter" thread!

This is asking, for anyone who has had sex with multiple partners who had/have a penis, whether or not there was a noticeable trend.

Background: I saw a vlog by a girl who says she has had sex with a whole bunch of men ever since she became sexually active, and from that sample she had been under the clear impression that something like 7 inches/18cm (erect) was the average size for penises. Then she came across a 5 inch/13cm (erect) penis once and was somewhat shocked.

No idea if that was purely affect, to generate reactions, but it does make me ask:

Those who've had multiple partners, was there size variety, or do you get the sense all those who flock to you somehow tend to have especially small, especially large or especially average dicks?

 

[AnnieLit]

My sample is all over the place. Not that I have ever measured anybody, but I would guess something like 4 to 7+.

 

[14ALL]

I suspect the trend has more to do with who she’s attracted to. If she’s always dating guys who are 6’4”, they probably all have larger than average penis’… or at least I would expect the data to skew that way.

 

[LMWM321]

I suspect the trend has more to do with who she’s attracted to. If she’s always dating guys who are 6’4”, they probably all have larger than average penis’… or at least I would expect the data to skew that way.

Yes, there is a correlation with body length, but it's only 1/10" for every 3" of body length. So the average penis of a guy who is 6'4" is less than 3/10" of an inch longer than the penis of an average man who is 5'9".

So the notion that all the guys in the NBA have huge dicks is nonesense. Ironically, even a 6" dick - which is statistically uncommon, even in the NBA - will look quite minuscule on a guy who is 6'8" tall.

Remember, dicks are not like lungs, livers, and hearts which are organs that are sized in proportion to the body they belong to... Mother Nature equipped us with dicks or vaginas that are sized for their expected counterparts. Hence, they tend to be quite close in size across all people, regardless of the size of the human they belong to. To wit: 95% of penises are between 5.15 and 5.5" - regardless of body length.

As for the OP knowing a girl who's every male partner had a penis of 7" or more... Well, that's nonsense. ..She's most likely NOT measuring them properly, if she truly measures them at all. There is a correct way to measure them...

 

[Mrman69]

I suspect the trend has more to do with who she’s attracted to. If she’s always dating guys who are 6’4”, they probably all have larger than average penis’… or at least I would expect the data to skew that way.

I’m 6’4” and have a six incher. My cock buddy in 5’9” and has a 7” cannon in his pants.

 

[14ALL]

All fair points and that’s certain aligned with the data that I’ve seen… who knows how valid that is.

As for the OP knowing a girl who's every male partner had a penis of 7" or more... Well, that's nonsense. ..She's most likely NOT measuring them properly, if she truly measures them at all. There is a correct way to measure them..

This was my underlying assumption as well, “She doesn’t know what she’s doing…”. My original comment gave the benefit of the doubt that there was some objective analysis of her partners. Personally, with myself as the sole exception, no one has ever measured my erection. I have no data to support this, but I don’t think it’s even remotely common for women to measure men.

 

[BillyWalrus]

My experience is limited to the cocks of two trans women. One of them had a cock smaller than mine. Hers was about 4 1/2 inches. My girlfriend's cock is much larger than mine. Hers is over 7 inches.

The girl with the small cock had an amazing libido. God, she could fuck.

 

[Mrman69]

I had a woman insist that I was 7” no matter how much I disagreed. I’m 6” but in her vast experience she couldn’t tell

 

[TinaG_2023]

All fair points and that’s certain aligned with the data that I’ve seen… who knows how valid that is.


This was my underlying assumption as well, “She doesn’t know what she’s doing…”. My original comment gave the benefit of the doubt that there was some objective analysis of her partners. Personally, with myself as the sole exception, no one has ever measured my erection. I have no data to support this, but I don’t think it’s even remotely common for women to measure men.

"But I don’t think it’s even remotely common for women to measure men."

I can't imagine getting a guy hard and saying, "Wait a minute while I go look for a ruler or tape measure!"

Then if he's still hard, take that "data", open my laptop to the spreadsheet I've been keeping, scroll down through thousands of names and record his stats.

By then his cock is limp as a noodle and the mood is lost!!

Just a fun thought!

Have a great day!

 

[LMWM321]

I don’t think it’s even remotely common for women to measure men.

Of course it's not, it would seem like a weird thing to do, Frankly.

Without knowing how to properly measure, people will measure from whatever angle gives the longest measurement. The ONLY way to measure is along the top, with a ruler pressed lightly into the pubic bone - this is your "insertable length." Women know guys want to hear they're big and some like bragging about how big their guy is.. So, lot's of bias.

 

[Badxxxwifey]

Pretty sure I’m a Big dick magnet XD

 

[gtnlynn]

I asked my wife, and she said that almost all of her partners had penises about the same size. She remembers one being considerably thicker, which she liked, and one on an older man that was longer and thicker, which she liked even more. Otherwise, the other 15 or so were similar in size.

 

[14ALL]

At the end of the day, I would think most penis' would feel about the same since vaginas get aroused, too. Obviously, unusually small or large examples would stand out…but everything else would probably feel about the same otherwise. I suspect that better explains why someone would assume all their lovers are x or y and also presumes they are above average (which would likely be associated with a better than satisfactory performance in addition to being sufficiently aroused to want to have sex with them in the first place).

If I’m thinking about it from the other end of it, I can’t tell how “big” a vagina is based on feel. What I can tell is if it feels good or not. Fortunately, I’ve never experienced a vagina that didn’t feel great. I would also venture to guess that what feels great or above “average" has a lot more to do with the connection than anything else. But I’m just drawing on my own experiences to reason through it.

 

[Ellies_adventures]

Of course it's not, it would seem like a weird thing to do, Frankly.

Without knowing how to properly measure, people will measure from whatever angle gives the longest measurement. The ONLY way to measure is along the top, with a ruler pressed lightly into the pubic bone - this is your "insertable length." Women know guys want to hear they're big and some like bragging about how big their guy is.. So, lot's of bias.

Reminds me of a joke,
Fred and John are having a few beers. Johnson cat walks into the room and starts being a pain in the ass brushing up against Fred. Fred says "I bet you a case of beer that my cocks longer than your cats tail."
John almost falls over laughing. "Yeah right, well I'm not measuring you, but I'll measure the cats tail. He goes and grabs a tape measure from the garage and comes back and measures the cats tail.
"8 inches" he gloats, quite sure that he has a box of beer headed his way.
Fred smiles and says "tell me, how did you measure the cats tail?"
John says "from its asshole to the tip, why?"
Fred says "thought so. Well let's make it fair, I'm going to have to measure myself the same way!"

 

[Pabiporffor]

Fact is most men are pretty close to the average but somehow average has become the new small in men's minds.
Perhaps the reason we see more larger men is they have more confidence to approach us.

 

[Greedy_lion]

Women consistently measure my cock with their forearms. It’s like the proper unit for cock measurement is establishing on one’s forearm “all the way to here.”

 

[MrAnderson360]

My sample is all over the place. Not that I have ever measured anybody, but I would guess something like 4 to 7+.

4?! damn thats big

 

[AnnieLit]

it would seem like a weird thing to do, Frankly.

The only weird thing about it is that if my result ends up being even 1/4" smaller than what he thought it should be, he will get upset. Is my curiosity worth the risk? Not really.

The only scenario where I can see myself doing it, is with a man that likes to be humiliated because of his small size (or perceived small size, doesn't matter if it's real or not.)

 

[LMWM321]

The only weird thing about it is that if my result ends up being even 1/4" smaller than what he thought it should be, he will get upset.

Haha.... Yes, that's a pretty keen insight. That when a woman DOES measure her partners dick, she'd better report a big number or hurt feelings will ensue. ..And the easiest way to get that result is to measure it from whatever angle yields the longest measurement, which is NOT the way penis length is measured in studies.

Did you read that, you guys who claim your girlfriend measured your dick and confirmed it's extraordinary length? ..And amazingly, and it's nearly always a whole number - 6, 7, or 8". ...no fractions ever cited. Seems like there's a whole lot of rounding up going on.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

What can you say ? Some women are just attracted to "Big dicks".

 

[MrAnderson360]

Sorry but ultimately, who cares? If he’s a good, lasting and considerate lover, one who as I ride the subway home I manage to get wet at thinking of our next time, I’m happy! I’ll add the that a short addendum: I do have a fondness for girth. Ultimately, size is a nice visual stimulus, but it’s the man and his knowledge and experience that makes my panties wet on that subway ride home

Hey, so I got a question. Fondness for girth. Once a guy asked me to wrap a dollar bill around my dick and tell him how much it overlaps. It doesn't overlap. It's like half inch gap. You seen to know about girth. What does this dollar bill thing mean, do you know? And once a girl told me I was hung like a horse. I said I didn't understand coz I'm average but not really that long. She said no, that I was hung like a horse. I was with a pregnant girl, we were having sex and she was saying over and over holy fuck that she could actually feel it. I guess her husband's was smaller somehow, I'm guessing it's this girth thing. Nobody ever talks about it. How important is it to you? And why? This is serious question.

 

[Cob083]

My experience with women has been the opposite Im a bit over 7" long, rather girthy as well and the women i have been with are surprised and not used to seeing one my size.

The truth is the vast majority of men are somewhere between 5" to maybe 6.5" and 6.5" may be pushing it.

 

[MrAnderson360]

My experience with women has been the opposite Im a bit over 7" long, rather girthy as well and the women i have been with are surprised and not used to seeing one my size.

The truth is the vast majority of men are somewhere between 5" to maybe 6.5" and 6.5" may be pushing it.

Opposite of what? Women don't have penises. What are you replying to?

 

[Cob083]

Opposite of what? Women don't have penises. What are you replying to?

The OP said the sex Vloger was mostly with men who were 7 inches and when she stumbled across a man who was 5 inches she was shocked.

Of the women I've been with, as a guy who's over 7" its been the opposite scenario. Women i have been together with havent seen one my size. Most have had partners more on the average side some even below.

 

[PierceDe]

I didn't know what other dude's dongs looked like and the size ranges until I was in Asia and went to their nude spas. Yeah Asia, so folks will suppose a certain size... and most of the guys were on the small side. But one of those dudes, short, skinny, had a burrito hanging there... he might have been a cock pumper though because that's how it looked.

I can speak more about vagina size, and I know they range dramatically. Some... everything down there is on a smaller scale... and others can put a couple cola cans in like a chipmunk storing for the winter.

Ah I remember I had a female friend from Canada, she and I would talk about everything without ever getting intimate who told me her first boyfriend was enormous that she couldn't touch her index and thumb tips around it and her next boyfriend was thumb-sized and small enough to disappear in her palm if she closed it. I asked her if it made a difference and she said seemingly honest "No, it's all in the clit for me. It feels fuller if its exceptionally large but that just feels like I have to poop."

She said what she said.