Frequency of Non-Consent and Abuse in BDSM stories.

[HarleyQuim]

Unfortunately I think there’s an audience for non-consensual torture porn. Incels and some followers of certain online personalities don’t think women should even be educated, why should they have to consent to sex and sexual violence. I think those authors are writing out their fantasies.

Personally I love BDSM and like stories that capture the joy and intimacy of it.

 

[liqueur]

Incels and some followers of certain online personalities don’t think women should even be educated, why should they have to consent to sex and sexual violence. I think those authors are writing out their fantasies.

Exactly so.

 

[Hypocrites]

Fascinating thread. I have written stories before (not published here) as well and my sub @HyposMuse has seen those as well. In the end, whether fantasy or "true" I write from what I know.

So my first foray into a BDSM fantasy necessarily has its references to the ongoing consent, safety and aftercare that are part and parcel to my reality.

For me they're part of the experience and from my, the story teller's POV, they enhance the narrative. I know how my baby thinks of them and that's enough. My opinion being just that, an opinion, I am reticent to judge those that don't include those details in their stories.