Dildo question

[txwife594]

So we have been using the same dildo on me for a while. Lately it hasn’t seemed to have the same effect. We have used a bigger one the last few times and I came hard. Do you need to eventually upsize to get the same effect from a dildo?

 

[oldguymem]

That is wonderful that you are using a dildo for your pleasure! Using one is a personal thing to stimulate your own body. So if you feel the need to go with a larger one. go ahead. By "we" do you mean your partner also participates with using it? If so then also great, however you use it.

 

[txwife594]

Yes he uses it on me while I use a vibe

 

[SirCharles64]

So we have been using the same dildo on me for a while. Lately it hasn’t seemed to have the same effect. We have used a bigger one the last few times and I came hard. Do you need to eventually upsize to get the same effect from a dildo?

I have found that variety is often a factor, not always size. Different shapes, sizes, how used, where.

 

[lowcollar]

At one time, a dildo of 1 and 1/4 inch thick was difficult to handle. Now I need a fist.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Does this indicate a female’s inner need to move to the Alpha male in a group who obviously has the largest cock? Selective breeding to ensure the strongest offspring?

Or

A woman needing variety and spice, for everything “nice”?

 

[SirCharles64]

Does this indicate a female’s inner need to move to the Alpha male in a group who obviously has the largest cock? Selective breeding to ensure the strongest offspring?

Or

A woman needing variety and spice, for everything “nice”?

I would say both, or neither. More a matter of each individual woman. We are all different. Both sexually and non-sexually. Sometimes we just crave something 'different'. That doesn't mean we dump the 'old' because we like something new.

 

[Liberia]

Does this indicate a female’s inner need to move to the Alpha male in a group who obviously has the largest cock? Selective breeding to ensure the strongest offspring?

Or

A woman needing variety and spice, for everything “nice”?

You promised me to log off!

This is what happens when you don't.
Just give me a minute, I am putting shoes on and will then call you, to stop you from commenting.

"Selective breeding to ensure the largest offspring", sweetie, that's unhinged, too much fanfics and too much internet.

 

[Pad_Foot]

You promised me to log off!

This is what happens when you don't.
Just give me a minute, I am putting shoes on and will then call you, to stop you from commenting.

"Selective breeding to ensure the largest offspring", sweetie, that's unhinged, too much fanfics and too much internet.

Twas not serious !

But true enough, I need to log out of Lit.

Thank you, Aunty!

 

[Lucien_Al]

We have a selection of dildos ranging from a few glass ones to 2 realistic looking ones. For my wife it depends on how she wants them used. If she wants to get to her G Spot she prefers the black glass cock shaped dildo Not overly big but with a curved shaft and a nice mushroom head she can get it onto the spot and cums very very quickly. Her 9 inch dildo is silicon and a life like cock. If she wants to go deep that is her preference and the 7 inch silicon just doesn't do it for her. I will either tongue her clit or she will use her Palm Power wand on her clit.

 

[LusciousLili]

So we have been using the same dildo on me for a while. Lately it hasn’t seemed to have the same effect.

It's okay, it happens to every dildo at some point.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

I don't see why there would be a need to increase size. Do married men have regular penis enlargement operations to ensure they can continue to satisfy their wife?
From experience I suggest variety of how it's used (positions, angles of entry, pace, force, depth etc etc) much like what any man who's half decent in the sack does with his one-size appendage.

 

[StaciRay79]

I have a variety of them and frequently use different ones. I feel like it just depends on my mood as to which I prefer. All of them work for me. I don’t think it’s just a size thing

 

[Artfan2]

It's okay, it happens to every dildo at some point.

Hmm, is that true for the real thing too?

 

[BillyWalrus]

I am happy with the same size dildo that I have had for seven years. It is about an inch shorter than my gf's cock. Quite happy with her cock too lol

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Some just like to go bigger. I guess it depends on what gets you off. If it’s hitting a certain spot, then unless the spot moves then why upgrade. If it’s stretching and filling that gets you off then maybe.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

I like to go bigger, but I have to get permission from my wife. Everyone is different. We bought a 10” insertable dildo and after trying I just couldn’t take it all. I learned how to deep throat it but that’s all. Then we worked on girth. So I enjoy going bigger but my wife insists she doesn’t want anything bigger. She says we are a perfect match. I ask her from time to time she says it hits all the places and sometimes bigger wouldn’t fit. She’s the boss .

 

[LittleGreene]

I don’t have a huge selection but I have found that at certain times I need different feelings. So I have one that’s quite thick, one that’s very textured and glass ones (I like temperature play)
I’ve also found the time of the month has an effect for some reason.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

I don’t have a huge selection but I have found that at certain times I need different feelings. So I have one that’s quite thick, one that’s very textured and glass ones (I like temperature play)
I’ve also found the time of the month has an effect for some reason.

My wife has a decent selection, including a few glass ones, the one in the picture stays in the deep freeze until ready for use because that is the way she enjoys it most. Also, how does that time of the month play a role?

 

[sunset_dreaming]

It's okay, it happens to every dildo at some point.

Hmmm… does that beg the question of ‘Is there a need for a service of re-homing used and no-longer-needed dildoes?’

 

[TravisAW]

Mrs AW has different requirements at different times.

A 5.5" one for normal play
An 8" one for role play or when she wants her clit licking because it really pushes it out from the inside.
A 10" one to use once a year to remind her that too big does exist.