swinging lifestyle

We agree! Have become great friends with a couple that we just click. We aren't in the same state, get together a few times a year, next year we've booked a Bliss Cruise together.

We enjoy being together in and outside the bedroom. Of course having fun is always a possibility, but none of us expect it....but it usually does.
My ex and i talked about this with his friend. We spent one evening together, the three of us. I was a rag doll after those orgasms.

We couldn't engage with the friends female companion. She is fully Bi and very dominant to the other woman. I had/have never been with a woman. From what I heard and the pictures I have seen, she is NOT good for a rookie.
 
We never planned to adding sex to our relationship with our close friends but it happened after a cpl years..baby slow steps until oral then a month or so later we fucked. Been going on for 30+ years with a long break in between.

During our break tried a little swinging..little mostly with two cpls we met through the SLS swinger web site. Met several different couples but weren't comfortable after talking to them. Works for some not for all.
 
We had our first visit to a swingers club last weeks it’s taken a number of years to get to that spot.
We didn’t full swap but had some interactions with another couple which we both loved. Now we’re starting to think about what we do next.

Heres my post and thread on our journey and a review of the night at the club

Post in thread 'First time swingers club advice'
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/first-time-swingers-club-advice.1639737/post-101539325
 
We had our first visit to a swingers club last weeks it’s taken a number of years to get to that spot.
We didn’t full swap but had some interactions with another couple which we both loved. Now we’re starting to think about what we do next.

Heres my post and thread on our journey and a review of the night at the club

Post in thread 'First time swingers club advice'
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/first-time-swingers-club-advice.1639737/post-101539325
Missed your thread being a new one, glad you had a wonderful first experience!

As your journey continues, you will find that there is no set way, you may get to full swap, you may not. Nothing defines what you tried or experienced last time.

Approach each time with no expectations, maybe with changes to your boundaries as you may change as well as time moves on, but they are your boundaries.

I did not read every response, sounds like you are communicating, allowing each other to process, that will continue to be critical to enjoy the lifestyle together.

Hope you continue to enjoy!
 
Last 6 weeks for us has been fun filled, 4 couples together on Sunday Funday, then Labor Day weekend we met a new couple for drinks and dinner that we had been chatting with for a bit. We clicked, ended the evening in their bed, looking forward to catching up with them again.
 
Back
Top