swinging lifestyle

The main reason my husband and I traveled an hour or more drive from home in the beginning was to avoid accidentally running into anyone we knew. As time went on we went to a much, much closer club that we ended up really liking. A few visits in we ran into a couple we knew. Never in a million years would we have done anything with them outside of that environment but once you're suddenly all standing there naked looking at each other it kinda makes sense to do it. We ran into more than a handful of people we knew there over time. It's almost always the ones you would never suspect lol
My wife and I were the same. For the first 3-4 years of activity in the lifestyle we went to a club over an hour drive form our home. The reason we traveled so far was to minimize the risk of running into anyone we knew. That changed when one night we were driving home from my office holiday party, and she was a little drink and super horny. She was giving me head in the car and begging me to find somewhere we could fuck -- immediately. At that moment we were not far from a very different swing club, so I headed there. We went in, signed up, and starting going to that club for the next 2-3 years. Over that period we never ran into anyone we knew, but in that size club it is entirely possible someone was there we knew but we never saw them.
The clubs were quite different. The first was small, and most nights there were about 40-50 couples in attendance. The second club is one of the largest in the country. On a typical Saturday night there were upwards of 2000 people in attendance, mostly in the bar/dance area. Fun times at both, but very different experiences.
 
Our first visit to a club before I changed into my schoolgirl outfit this is what I had on as we walked around to check everything out. It was a small place so pretty crowded. In the back area most people were naked and I had a lot of naked women and men brushing up against me. I'll never forget the first dick that touched against me. It was an old gray balding nerdy looking white man and his dick pressed hard against my hand and my bare leg as we squeezed by each other. I was also kinda turned facing the people squeezing by me so my boobs were constantly getting bumped into and rubbed against. It was definitely getting me hot lol.

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Damn missed the pic
 
I have a question for the experienced.

My husband & I have been to a sex/swinger club 5 times over the last few months. We met a couple there that use to belong to a swinger group who would all meet up at a members home to play. Before I got to ask anything the conversation got interrupted.

Has anyone here experienced both of these??
I know how the club works & love it since you can choose between only couples, couples & singles, different themes.........
I don’t know exactly how it goes with other couples at someone's private residence.
 
I have a question for the experienced.

My husband & I have been to a sex/swinger club 5 times over the last few months. We met a couple there that use to belong to a swinger group who would all meet up at a members home to play. Before I got to ask anything the conversation got interrupted.

Has anyone here experienced both of these??
I know how the club works & love it since you can choose between only couples, couples & singles, different themes.........
I don’t know exactly how it goes with other couples at someone's private residence.
We go to our local club as well as private parties, from small group of 4-6 couples which sometimes are couples only, include single ladies, other times select single males invited as well. Other parties are invite only which # up to 120 people, the dynamic is different with each.

We would recommend trying all sizes when the opportunity arises, you can then experience and decide for yourselves if you enjoyed it, want to partake again or not.

Even with smaller groups, keep in mind people will be at different phases during the party. Respective to the boundaries of other couples there, the opportunity to play with just another woman or guy is a possibility.

No matter the size or environment, you can play with others or not, always your choice. Each experience will be different, never set expectations, just enjoy what unfolds.
 
We go to our local club as well as private parties, from small group of 4-6 couples which sometimes are couples only, include single ladies, other times select single males invited as well. Other parties are invite only which # up to 120 people, the dynamic is different with each.

We would recommend trying all sizes when the opportunity arises, you can then experience and decide for yourselves if you enjoyed it, want to partake again or not.

Even with smaller groups, keep in mind people will be at different phases during the party. Respective to the boundaries of other couples there, the opportunity to play with just another woman or guy is a possibility.

No matter the size or environment, you can play with others or not, always your choice. Each experience will be different, never set expectations, just enjoy what unfolds.

Thank you
I think for now we're going to enjoy the club. Yes at the club single women & couples are always welcome with single men not allowed Saturday nights or certain themed events.
 
I have a question for the experienced.

My husband & I have been to a sex/swinger club 5 times over the last few months. We met a couple there that use to belong to a swinger group who would all meet up at a members home to play. Before I got to ask anything the conversation got interrupted.

Has anyone here experienced both of these??
I know how the club works & love it since you can choose between only couples, couples & singles, different themes.........
I don’t know exactly how it goes with other couples at someone's private residence.
My wife and I were in the lifestyle over 15+ years. We started out going to clubs, but eventually met up with a group of couples similar to us in age and background and eventually quit the club scene altogether. We became great friends with the 5-6 other couples (one couple infrequently participated). We got together at each other's homes, sometimes with one couple, sometimes 2 or 3, and on rare occasions all 6 couples. Generally, we would arrive early in the evening, talk, have some drinks and snacks, then adjourn to the bedroom for play. Afterward we would eat dinner, then go home. One couple had a hot tub, so evenings often started in the hot tub. Two couples had pools, so at their homes we started in the pool. Basically, we socialized like any other group of friends, but our evenings progressed to the bedroom before they ended.
 
Twelve years ago today, New Years Eve, we had our first swing experience which was with a couple we met on a swingers web site. It was actually more of a relaxed couple swap than a swingers event. They lived surprisingly near to us and it turned out to be quite fun and to this day they are still friends.

For the last five years except for the pandemic one we have hosted a New Years Eve party at the house with pretty much the same four or five couples in attendance

Happy New Year! 🥳🎈🎉🔥
 
Twelve years ago today, New Years Eve, we had our first swing experience which was with a couple we met on a swingers web site. It was actually more of a relaxed couple swap than a swingers event. They lived surprisingly near to us and it turned out to be quite fun and to this day they are still friends.

For the last five years except for the pandemic one we have hosted a New Years Eve party at the house with pretty much the same four or five couples in attendance

Happy New Year! 🥳🎈🎉🔥
I would love to hear the recap afterwards of this gathering…
 
Twelve years ago today, New Years Eve, we had our first swing experience which was with a couple we met on a swingers web site. It was actually more of a relaxed couple swap than a swingers event. They lived surprisingly near to us and it turned out to be quite fun and to this day they are still friends.

For the last five years except for the pandemic one we have hosted a New Years Eve party at the house with pretty much the same four or five couples in attendance

Happy New Year! 🥳🎈🎉🔥
Sounds like a great tradition!

We are attending a local Swinger party this evening, a bit bigger with 120 RSVPd last I looked.

Hope everyone has a Happy New Year!
 
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Even before we married the fantasy of having sex with others was a hot topic, at least for me. Little did I know that deep inside she had some of the same thoughts and would end up enjoying it too! Those dirty little chats after sex like saying to her, "Have you ever thought about fucking that guy at the party last night? I'd like to do his wife." would lead into a crazy fantasy about it and we'd fuck again!!

I mean at that time we had no idea we would eventually get married. We were more sexually involved than emotionally. Two divorced and horny people having great sex with seemingly no strings involved.

We did marry and all kinds of fantasies were part of our sex life at times. Now many years later we have many friends, both swingers and those who are not.
 
I have recently found out how turned on my wife gets to the thought of adding a 2nd cock to our sex life. When i told her it would turn me on to watch her suck on another cock while i was fucking her, her pussy got so wet and she was so into that scenario, she came several times.

I had always let her know how i really wanted a 3some with another woman, and while she got into that scenario, and even turned on by it, she wasnt nearly as turned on as she was by the thought of another cock.

As the scenario has evolved, she is very turned on by the thought of us finding a couple to play with. While she gets so turned on by us talking out the scenario, im not sure if she would actually go through with it. I know she wouldnt actively seek it, but if presented with the scenario i think she would actively participate.

What are yalls first experiences in starting this lifestyle? Anybody else have to overcome this obstacle with a S/O? I would love to hear the details regarding how other couples got their start into couples swapping or even inroducing another partner.
I have recently found out how turned on my wife gets to the thought of adding a 2nd cock to our sex life. When i told her it would turn me on to watch her suck on another cock while i was fucking her, her pussy got so wet and she was so into that scenario, she came several times.

I had always let her know how i really wanted a 3some with another woman, and while she got into that scenario, and even turned on by it, she wasnt nearly as turned on as she was by the thought of another cock.

As the scenario has evolved, she is very turned on by the thought of us finding a couple to play with. While she gets so turned on by us talking out the scenario, im not sure if she would actually go through with it. I know she wouldnt actively seek it, but if presented with the scenario i think she would actively participate.

What are yalls first experiences in starting this lifestyle? Anybody else have to overcome this obstacle with a S/O? I would love to hear the details regarding how other couples got their start into couples swapping or even inroducing another partner.

Jan and I got a head start. Jan slept with my best friend Gary before I even married her. Yeah, I was pissed. But the three of us had been close for a long time. I had even thought that Jan and Gary could be good together. I'd have been okay with it I didn't want to lose either of them.

I didn't actually see Jan and Gary having sex. I caught them sitting in bed together after they had finished. They were both topless. Jan’s long blond hair was askew and her small breasts exposed, taut nipples still shiny with Gary's saliva.

The three of us had been tight for years. Both of them wanted to make things right with me. I wasn't pissed about the sex. I was pissed at being shut out. I told them they could make it right if they did it again. but this time included me. Jan went for it instantly. it took Gary a little longer. Jan finally talked him into it.

IWe went out to Red Lobster (Gary's favourite.) We had dinner and a few drinks. Jan doesn't usually drink. But she had a cocktail and two glasses of wine and got sweet and giggley. I had Gary sit next to Jan across from me in the booth. I felt like a porn film director.

“Dude!“ I said to Gary. “Put your arm around her for Christ’s sake! Kiss her the way you did on Tuesday night before I got there!’

When Gary bent down to kiss Jan she put her arm around him and pulled him into the kiss! I could tell by the way Jan’s shoulder was moving that she was massaging Gary's cock through his jeans.

It's a good thing I was sitting down so the bulge in my pants didn't show. What was exciting was thinking that Jan really might leave me. That's scary, but I can enjoy it because I know she won't. It's like being on a roller coaster it's scary because you think you're going to die, but iyou can enjoy it because you know you aren't.

I had them sit together in the back seat on the way home. I tried to keep my mind on my driving, my hands on the wheel., and my snoopy eyes on the road ahead. I kept hearing the faint moist sounds of Gary's lips on Jan’s bare neck and her faint whimpers of arousal. By the time I pulled into the garage Gary had Jan’s shirt unbuttoned enough so her bra was showing, and her bare neck and shoulders were blushing pink from his tongue.

I opened the door to the house. Gary took Jan's hand, and helped her out of the car. I saw Jan's wedding ring wedding ring flash in the hall light as Gary led her back to our bedroom.

I didn't wear Jan’s panties or suck Gary's cock, so I guess I'm not a “real” cuck. I did enjoy sloppy seconds with Jan, I busted both nuts. The next morning I could still taste Gary's cum on Jan's lips before she sucked me off.

We went on like that until Gary hooked up with this other girl, who was definitely NOT into swapping

Jan and I both keep thinking aboutt adding another cock and that thought is a constant in our sex life. Gary was unusual in that we both had a long history with him. For now it is our fantasy. We might do a roleplay here. Jan reads all my posts and DM’s here, and I encourage her to have cybersex here if she wants. I’ll even set it up for someone with her.

Robert
and
Jan
 
Jan and I got a head start. Jan slept with my best friend Gary before I even married her.Yeah, I was pissed. But the three of us had been close for a long time. I had even thought that Jan and Gary could be good together. I'd have been okay with it . I didn't want to lose either of them.

I didn't actually see Jan and Gary having sex. I caught them sitting in bed together after they had finished. They were both topless. Jan’s long blond hair was askew and her small breasts exposed, taut nipples still shiny with Gary's saliva.

The three of us had been tight for years. Both of them wanted to make things right with me. I wasn't pissed about the sex. I was pissed at being shut out. I told them they could make it right if they did it again. but this time included me. Jan went for it instantly. it took Gary a little longer. Jan finally talked him into it.

IWe went out to Red Lobster (Gary's favourite.) We had dinner and a few drinks. Jan doesn't usually drink. But she had a cocktail and two glasses of wine and got sweet and giggley. I had Gary sit next to Jan across from me in the booth. I felt like a porn film director.

“Dude!“ I said to Gary. “Put your arm around her for Christ’s sake!;! Kiss her the way you did on Tuesday night before I got there!’

When Gary bent down to kiss Jan she put her arm around him and pulled him into the kiss! I could tell by the way Jan’s shoulder was moving that she was massaging Gary's cock through his jeans.

It's a good thing I was sitting down so the bulge in my pants didn't show. What was exciting was thinking that Jan really might leave me. That's scary, but I can enjoy it because I know she won't. It's like being on a roller coaster it's scary because you think you're going to die, but iyou can enjoy it because you know you aren't.

I had them sit together in the back seat on the way home. I tried to keep my mind on my driving, my hands on the wheel., and my snoopy eyes on the road ahead. I kept hearing the faint moist sounds of Gary's lips on Jan’s bare neck and her faint whimpers of arousal. By the time I pulled into the garage Gary had Jan’s shirt unbuttoned enough so her bra was showing, and her bare neck and shoulders were blushing pink from Gary’s tongue.

I opened the door to the house. Gary took Jan's hand, and helped her out of the car. I saw Jan's wedding ring wedding ring foash in the hall light as Gary led her back to our bedroom.

I didn't wear Jan’s panties or suck Gary's cock, so I guess I'm not a “real” cuck. I did enjoy sloppy seconds with Jan, I busted both nuts. The next morning I could still taste Gary's cum on Jan's lips before she sucked me off.

We went on like that until Gary hooked up with this other girl, who was definitely NOT into swapping

Jan and I both keep thinking aboutt adding another cock and that thought is a constant in our sex life. Gary was unusual in that we both had a long history with him. For now it is our fantasy. We might do a roleplay here. Jan reads all my posts and DM’s here, and I encourage her to have cybersex here if she wants. I’ll even set it up for someone with her.

Robert
and
Jan
 
Very good story. I dont think my wife would be as comfortable with someone she would have to see again...just in case it wasnt a good experience, but thats good u got your brother on board and it worked out. Im sure next time will be more rewarding for yall.
Fucking someone you get to see again is amazing.

I fuck my ex's best friend. We have a loving friendship. Sex is fun, like shopping with the girls. It's not an affair.

The fact my ex doesn't know enhances some of our foreplay.

Neither of us has a problem with bumping into each other out in public.
 
Fucking someone you get to see again is amazing.

I fuck my ex's best friend. We have a loving friendship. Sex is fun, like shopping with the girls. It's not an affair.

The fact my ex doesn't know enhances some of our foreplay.

Neither of us has a problem with bumping into each other out in public.
We agree! Have become great friends with a couple that we just click. We aren't in the same state, get together a few times a year, next year we've booked a Bliss Cruise together.

We enjoy being together in and outside the bedroom. Of course having fun is always a possibility, but none of us expect it....but it usually does.
 
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