Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

It does. As the times when I struggle to really submit are also often the items when I feel like being somewhat disconnected from my soul.
The more I submit the more I feel true to my soul. And perhaps vis versa. The more I am connected to the essence of my soul, the more I see and crave my submission to be valued, nurtured and embraced by him.
 
Kinda quiet here, so let's talk about what gets you into, or deepens, your submission. I think it is tied to the post by Cascadiabound. For me, there are several things that make me melt as a sub. It's like they trigger a switch in me.

1. Lowering his voice when giving commands or scolding me. Not only softer but deeper. It's like his bass voice resonates in my bones.
2. His nurturing nature. There are times when I need structure and protocols, but most of the time I need nurturing.
3. Socialization. I need to be seen with him; I need him to display his ownership in public. Even if it's just in subtle ways, like wearing a discreet collar, or a possessive touch.
4. Having my outfits selected by him when we're going out. He leaves my day-to-day work outfits to me, but when we're going out, I melt if I go into the bedroom to change, and he's already laid out what I'm expected to wear.

How about you?
 
Kinda quiet here, so let's talk about what gets you into, or deepens, your submission. I think it is tied to the post by Cascadiabound. For me, there are several things that make me melt as a sub. It's like they trigger a switch in me.

1. Lowering his voice when giving commands or scolding me. Not only softer but deeper. It's like his bass voice resonates in my bones.
2. His nurturing nature. There are times when I need structure and protocols, but most of the time I need nurturing.
3. Socialization. I need to be seen with him; I need him to display his ownership in public. Even if it's just in subtle ways, like wearing a discreet collar, or a possessive touch.
4. Having my outfits selected by him when we're going out. He leaves my day-to-day work outfits to me, but when we're going out, I melt if I go into the bedroom to change, and he's already laid out what I'm expected to wear.

How about you?

For me, it's like a switch being flicked when he calls me "kitten." Even when he's not being overtly "dominant" with me (whatever that means!), just a casual "Hey, kitten" text will have me flipping over into the submissive mindset.

There are probably others, too. But that one is the most obvious!
 
let's talk about what gets you into, or deepens, your submission.
His hand(s) in my neck. It can make me melt into a puddle. Or get excited. Or something else depending on the situation, but tied to submission anyway.

Also when he makes me look up to him.

Oh and eye contact. That usually makes me melt. In a hot or a sweet way.
 
This is from a rope instructor and sub mentor I follow. It really hit for me.
__________
There's a special kind of peace that comes from consensually being someone's favorite toy.

Not a burden.
Not a fixer.
Not a girlboss holding everything together.
Just soft. Owned. Cared for.

Inside my dynamic, objectification is played with in many forms, but mostly,

It's about devotion.
Being tended to like a prized possession.
Being loved like an art piece.

And when I was deep in it last week — stripped of responsibility, ego, pressure
— my body melted.

We flowed into an objectification scene that started with tension in my bones... and ended with me crying in my Dom's arms from relief and surrender.

From finally being held when I didn't have to hold anything. From finally having a safe outlet for the tension I had been carrying for days.

He whispered, "Let it all out."
And then took me to the shower like his most precious thing.

Washed me down. Groomed me.
Restored me.

That's the flavor of submission I'll never forget.
 
Most of you who pay any attention to my posts know that I was a victim of domestic violence. That incident led to high levels of anxiety in my daily life. At times, it was crippling. My therapist once told me that people who struggle with anxiety and depression often can't remember much because they're too busy focusing on how to get through each moment. They don't fully experience what's happening, which keeps them from forming the memories they should
have.
For the past few weeks, Wolfie (my husband and Daddy) and I have been working through some legal and financial arrangements that will, we believe, end up transforming my life and his. More on that later when I can talk about it. All this activity has been triggering my anxiety again. He has been a real trooper, helping me through it almost nightly.
This relapse led me to the realization that, for approximately the past year, I have been more present. I have lived a joyous life full of happy memories, and I have both received and given more love than I could ever have imagined.
Why, you ask? I credit this lifestyle. In April of last year, I changed my status here to 'Owned little rabbit'. The first few months were a learning experience, with both of us finding our comfort levels and our boundaries. Now, we're fully in sync.
I am so fortunate. I am so thankful.
 
This relapse led me to the realization that, for approximately the past year, I have been more present. I have lived a joyous life full of happy memories, and I have both received and given more love than I could ever have imagined.
Why, you ask? I credit this lifestyle. In April of last year, I changed my status here to 'Owned little rabbit'. The first few months were a learning experience, with both of us finding our comfort levels and our boundaries. Now, we're fully in sync.
I am so fortunate. I am so thankful.
First of all, sending you hugs to get through the tough part ♥️

And then - I have similar experiences from the last 3 years, for a similar reasons. Except much less pointed, as I don't have trauma past or anxiety. Still, being owned and a little has made a huge difference.
 
First of all, sending you hugs to get through the tough part ♥️

And then - I have similar experiences from the last 3 years, for a similar reasons. Except much less pointed, as I don't have trauma past or anxiety. Still, being owned and a little has made a huge difference.
Thank you for the hugs. You have been with me from the beginning. I appreciate you so much. ❤️
 
Hope everyone is doing well. I have kind of stepped away form lit lately. I wanted to pop in and say hello and leave some cookies :)
 
Long time Literotica reader, but my first forum post. I’m here looking for recommendations from the DDLG community folks in this thread.

I stumbled into a couple of DDLG stories on Literotica, and some of the themes within them really resonated with me - especially DaddyDoms taking on a protecting/nurturing role. I’m fine with a real age difference between the characters, but I’m not a fan of littles that go very young - no pacifiers or diapers. I’m also not a fan of heavy punishment themes bordering on S&M. Some light spanking for bratty behavior is fine, but not much beyond that.

My favorite story so far is thanagar’s “Little Packages”, although not a huge fan of some of the exhibitionist themes that show up nor of the D/S club scene in the novel’s later chapters. I really like Greyman01’s “Just Jen”, but it’s only 3 short chapters, and there have been no further posts in more than a year.

Any other recommended stories similar to those two, either on Literotica or other sites? Searching story tags here has been frustrating. (As an aside, I wish readers could add tags to stories.)
 
Long time Literotica reader, but my first forum post. I’m here looking for recommendations from the DDLG community folks in this thread.

I stumbled into a couple of DDLG stories on Literotica, and some of the themes within them really resonated with me - especially DaddyDoms taking on a protecting/nurturing role. I’m fine with a real age difference between the characters, but I’m not a fan of littles that go very young - no pacifiers or diapers. I’m also not a fan of heavy punishment themes bordering on S&M. Some light spanking for bratty behavior is fine, but not much beyond that.

My favorite story so far is thanagar’s “Little Packages”, although not a huge fan of some of the exhibitionist themes that show up nor of the D/S club scene in the novel’s later chapters. I really like Greyman01’s “Just Jen”, but it’s only 3 short chapters, and there have been no further posts in more than a year.

Any other recommended stories similar to those two, either on Literotica or other sites? Searching story tags here has been frustrating. (As an aside, I wish readers could add tags to stories.)
No story recs…. But welcome to the thread!! I’ve been absent from this thread for too long. To the new faces, Welcome!! To the familiar ones, I hope things are well for you!!

@jaybird1967 …. You’ve stumbled into the BEST spot on lit to learn about DD/lg. the people here are amazing, but always remember it is first and foremost a safe place for the littles. Mind your manners here and ask your questions…😊
 
No story recs…. But welcome to the thread!! I’ve been absent from this thread for too long. To the new faces, Welcome!! To the familiar ones, I hope things are well for you!!

@jaybird1967 …. You’ve stumbled into the BEST spot on lit to learn about DD/lg. the people here are amazing, but always remember it is first and foremost a safe place for the littles. Mind your manners here and ask your questions…😊
Thanks, and I will try to mind my manners. :) I’m only interested in stories, and I’m really just trying to learn more about the kink and lifestyle. I appreciate the DaddyDoms in the thread making sure I understand the norms of behavior here.
 
Thanks, and I will try to mind my manners. :) I’m only interested in stories, and I’m really just trying to learn more about the kink and lifestyle. I appreciate the DaddyDoms in the thread making sure I understand the norms of behavior here.
I wasn’t trying to scare ya…. lol…. I am going to stick with guessing your interest grows over time, just keep the place in mind if it does.😊
 
I wasn’t trying to scare ya…. lol…. I am going to stick with guessing your interest grows over time, just keep the place in mind if it does.😊
Understood. I read enough of the thread to see this is a friendly and active group, which is why I thought I’d ask for reccos.
 
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