JustAnotherFlower
In The Garden
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That I'm tired.. that my mood is still swinging like a storm door in a hurricane.. I want a nap and a massage.
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Thank you sweet friend! I love you too! You make this place so much brighter.This is why I love you!
Or.. one of the many reasons why.
"Don't make their life worse. Don't be that asshole"
Yes, yes and a million times yes.
And thank the gods that you are doing better!!![]()
Unrelated?What’s with the three different speeds/settings on my new toothbrush?!
And completely unrelated…
That was the most intense, full bodied orgasm I’ve had in AGES![]()
TotesUnrelated?![]()
I felt this. Really felt it. I lost two friends to their demons, and I just try to always be kind.Why do we stay in situations that make us miserable? The last year I held onto something that took me so deep into depression that I thought about suicide. Actually had pills in my hand, but thank God I put them away and thought about my family, specifically what it would do to my Dad. After working through the pain and rage, I am so much happier. I'm not sobbing everyday, my marriage is so much better, and I'm beginning to not feel disposable anymore. Still a lot of healing to do and I will probably never trust my heart to anyone again, but I'm actually beginning to enjoy life again.
Last week someone I went to church with for decades hung herself. Her son found her days later. Everyone kept saying how she was so sweet and how she always had a smile on her face. Nobody has a clue why she did it. They all feel guilty, like they should have known something was hurting her and should have done more.
You never know what someone is struggling with so I/we need to always default to kindness. If they annoy you, put them on ignore. If you think they're talking about you, put them on ignore. If everything they post irritates you or makes you feel guilty, put them on ignore. Don't make their life worse. Don't be that asshole.
If you currently feel hopeless, please reach out to someone. Seek help. A few dear friends here have been so supportive and listened to me time and time again. Without their true, present, always listening love, I might not be here today.![]()
Oh my godWhy do we stay in situations that make us miserable? The last year I held onto something that took me so deep into depression that I thought about suicide. Actually had pills in my hand, but thank God I put them away and thought about my family, specifically what it would do to my Dad. After working through the pain and rage, I am so much happier. I'm not sobbing everyday, my marriage is so much better, and I'm beginning to not feel disposable anymore. Still a lot of healing to do and I will probably never trust my heart to anyone again, but I'm actually beginning to enjoy life again.
Last week someone I went to church with for decades hung herself. Her son found her days later. Everyone kept saying how she was so sweet and how she always had a smile on her face. Nobody has a clue why she did it. They all feel guilty, like they should have known something was hurting her and should have done more.
You never know what someone is struggling with so I/we need to always default to kindness. If they annoy you, put them on ignore. If you think they're talking about you, put them on ignore. If everything they post irritates you or makes you feel guilty, put them on ignore. Don't make their life worse. Don't be that asshole.
If you currently feel hopeless, please reach out to someone. Seek help. A few dear friends here have been so supportive and listened to me time and time again. Without their true, present, always listening love, I might not be here today.![]()
I'm so incredibly sorry!I felt this. Really felt it. I lost two friends to their demons, and I just try to always be kind.
Hugs![]()
Mine too. I use a different speed settings for for each holeWhat’s with the three different speeds/settings on my new toothbrush?!
And completely unrelated…
That was the most intense, full bodied orgasm I’ve had in AGES![]()
I'm so glad it could help! There's beauty in brokenness.Oh my god. This is so breathtakingly beautiful and heartbreaking. I’m so glad that you had the strength and support to stay and put yourself and your value first. This is actually what I needed to read today and I thank you for posting it
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To remind you of what a twat they areIt’s annoying when you think there are new posts in a thread when it’s just from someone you have on ignore. Why do I have to see them at all?
Uh oh…Spa employee to me -
“Oh, you’ve never had a massage and you’re starting with Micha? So you’re starting at a 20 out of 10”
And my real reaction because I was already wet and vulnerable
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God I pull weeds every weekend and they grow back so fastWho’s got weed?
Sorry you went through this, glad you're better nowWhy do we stay in situations that make us miserable? The last year I held onto something that took me so deep into depression that I thought about suicide. Actually had pills in my hand, but thank God I put them away and thought about my family, specifically what it would do to my Dad. After working through the pain and rage, I am so much happier. I'm not sobbing everyday, my marriage is so much better, and I'm beginning to not feel disposable anymore. Still a lot of healing to do and I will probably never trust my heart to anyone again, but I'm actually beginning to enjoy life again.
Last week someone I went to church with for decades hung herself. Her son found her days later. Everyone kept saying how she was so sweet and how she always had a smile on her face. Nobody has a clue why she did it. They all feel guilty, like they should have known something was hurting her and should have done more.
You never know what someone is struggling with so I/we need to always default to kindness. If they annoy you, put them on ignore. If you think they're talking about you, put them on ignore. If everything they post irritates you or makes you feel guilty, put them on ignore. Don't make their life worse. Don't be that asshole.
If you currently feel hopeless, please reach out to someone. Seek help. A few dear friends here have been so supportive and listened to me time and time again. Without their true, present, always listening love, I might not be here today.![]()
Thanks. Just what I needed.![]()
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Hugs.Why do we stay in situations that make us miserable? The last year I held onto something that took me so deep into depression that I thought about suicide. Actually had pills in my hand, but thank God I put them away and thought about my family, specifically what it would do to my Dad. After working through the pain and rage, I am so much happier. I'm not sobbing everyday, my marriage is so much better, and I'm beginning to not feel disposable anymore. Still a lot of healing to do and I will probably never trust my heart to anyone again, but I'm actually beginning to enjoy life again.
Last week someone I went to church with for decades hung herself. Her son found her days later. Everyone kept saying how she was so sweet and how she always had a smile on her face. Nobody has a clue why she did it. They all feel guilty, like they should have known something was hurting her and should have done more.
You never know what someone is struggling with so I/we need to always default to kindness. If they annoy you, put them on ignore. If you think they're talking about you, put them on ignore. If everything they post irritates you or makes you feel guilty, put them on ignore. Don't make their life worse. Don't be that asshole.
If you currently feel hopeless, please reach out to someone. Seek help. A few dear friends here have been so supportive and listened to me time and time again. Without their true, present, always listening love, I might not be here today.![]()
May I play too?Come here. I’ll cook for you. We can negotiate an exchange
Go see Weapons. It looks really good.If I am going to a movie at the cinema alone, should it be something more on the scarier side ( Weapons ), or on the nostalgic side (Jaws at Flashback Cinema)?