What do men feel when they see a woman tied up and fucked?

[Haida_lee]

Sometimes, under normal circumstances, I'm confused by men's fantasies. They want their women to be beautiful and sexy. But once they find a beautiful and sexy woman, they tie her up and fuck her. Sometimes these men want to see their woman's tortured expression, so they gangbang her. Please give me your opinion. View attachment 2559476

 

[magicalmoments]

Fantasies can be confusing, even more-so when they are turned into real life.

There is a world of difference between a man having a sexual fantasy about tying up a woman and having her gangbanged and a real life scenario where a man actually does this.

A man having a fantasy does not necessarily ever want to act it out, especially if it involves violence. If he is lucky he may find a woman who has fantasies about being treated this way and between them they might act the fantasy out, such people are rare and lucky

The fantasy is fine, it's normal and personal to the person who has it. It's acting out the fantasy in real life where things become murky.

 

[CaptCharles]

Sometimes, under normal circumstances, I'm confused by men's fantasies. They want their women to be beautiful and sexy. But once they find a beautiful and sexy woman, they tie her up and fuck her. Sometimes these men want to see their woman's tortured expression, so they gangbang her. Please give me your opinion. View attachment 2559476

What if this idea got the woman so hot that she deeply desired this from her man? Considering her needs should be most in mind...

 

[Britva415]

People are all weird and some of them have fantasies which seem extreme.

Don’t project this one onto all men, though.

Also: You sound like you’re reacting to stuff you have seen in commercial porn, which is not stuff most men ever do in real life.

Look at it? Sure. Do it, or even want to do it for real? Hardly ever.

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

It arouses me beyond words because I truly understand how much it turns my wife on.

 

[CaptCharles]

It arouses me beyond words because I truly understand how much it turns my wife on.

thats amazing

 

[Dearelliot]

Strange yes, A fantasy that excites me...a woman tied, whipped, and sexually abused..BUT! I realize in reality it would be horrible, it only works if she is sexually aroused by this and I know women arent....I suppose there are the few. I knew a married woman , we were close not intimate, but she discussed this...She answered an ad from a dominant man who would spank her...She told me, she made the date traveled into NYc and met him in his apartment../.and they proceeded, but he didn't stop, he spanked her so hard she was screaming crying and in pain..Be brutalized her, and he wouldn't stop! When she left, she was in pain and regretted doing it...

 

[Michael_Keaton]

I'm not being judgmental, ok? I know everyone (of both sexes) have their kinks but there are some I don't understand - and I don't have to because they're their kinks. However...

I do not at all understand some of the things I've seen in the BDSM forum. I can understand someone wanting to be tied up and edged or even being tied up and forced through multiple orgasms. Some of that even sounds hot to me! Even light spanking is something I can get behind as a sub/dom thing but a video I saw a month or so ago was, in a word, cringeworthy.

The video showed a naked woman probably 25-30 years old, blonde, very attractive, standing on the floor back-to with her hands tied above her head and being abused (sorry, but that's the only word I can think of for what was happening) being abused by someone with a bullwhip. Repeatedly. Multiple whips across her back and butt until she was bleeding, and still she wouldn't tell the abuser to stop.

I only watched a little of the video because it made me physically ill to first of all see someone who would do that to another person, and second to be that person be willing to accept it.

Maybe I am being judgmental because my thought was, "What the fuck is WRONG with those people? How can anyone do that to someone else, even if they're asking for it? And why would someone accept that?"

I've only started posting recently so maybe I don't have the right to post something critical of someone else's kinks and if that's so then trash me. Revoke my right to be here. I don't care. If that's the price I have to pay for having the compassion to speak up against what what I believe most people would see as cruelty then so be it. I don't understand it and I never will.

 

[WCSGarland]

I felt excited, then eventually spent and satisfied when my wife indulged my fantasy of tying her up, flogging her pussy lightly and then fucking her. She didn't enjoy it as much as I did nor as much as I would have liked, so we never did that again.

 

[dirk2024]

Sometimes, under normal circumstances, I'm confused by men's fantasies. They want their women to be beautiful and sexy. But once they find a beautiful and sexy woman, they tie her up and fuck her. Sometimes these men want to see their woman's tortured expression, so they gangbang her. Please give me your opinion. View attachment 2559476

It feels like you're lumping the issue into black and white, when the reality is that people are various shades of gray. Plus, moods can vary during an "event" between two people as they build on the momentum.

A woman can be beautiful just standing there, she can still be beautiful when bound to a bed. Speaking personally, I like 'some' bondage, but not to the extremes I sometimes see. I don't like delivering pain, other than a few well placed spanks on a bare butt. See? Shades of gray.

You're title description says, "submissive wife", so I'm curious why this is an issue for you.

 

[dirk2024]

I'm not being judgmental, ok? I know everyone (of both sexes) have their kinks but there are some I don't understand - and I don't have to because they're their kinks. However...

I do not at all understand some of the things I've seen in the BDSM forum. I can understand someone wanting to be tied up and edged or even being tied up and forced through multiple orgasms. Some of that even sounds hot to me! Even light spanking is something I can get behind as a sub/dom thing but a video I saw a month or so ago was, in a word, cringeworthy.

The video showed a naked woman probably 25-30 years old, blonde, very attractive, standing on the floor back-to with her hands tied above her head and being abused (sorry, but that's the only word I can think of for what was happening) being abused by someone with a bullwhip. Repeatedly. Multiple whips across her back and butt until she was bleeding, and still she wouldn't tell the abuser to stop.

I only watched a little of the video because it made me physically ill to first of all see someone who would do that to another person, and second to be that person be willing to accept it.

Maybe I am being judgmental because my thought was, "What the fuck is WRONG with those people? How can anyone do that to someone else, even if they're asking for it? And why would someone accept that?"

I've only started posting recently so maybe I don't have the right to post something critical of someone else's kinks and if that's so then trash me. Revoke my right to be here. I don't care. If that's the price I have to pay for having the compassion to speak up against what what I believe most people would see as cruelty then so be it. I don't understand it and I never will.

I understand, I wouldn't be into that either, but we don't kink shame here.

What if the woman wanted that treatment? For whatever reason you and I can't understand, she allowed her dom to do that to her. As long as she was fully on board, and he was respecting any boundary she might have put in place, that's all that matters. I don't know what the psychology of that is.

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

Its the fastest and most immediate turn off for me… i cannot stand it…