Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

Thinking due to a discussion totally elsewhere....

What are your thoughts about "trying out" DD/lg? Even as in trying it out with many people before perhaps even trying to settle with anyone in a dynamic.

I'm curious to hear your opinions.
 
Thinking due to a discussion totally elsewhere....

What are your thoughts about "trying out" DD/lg? Even as in trying it out with many people before perhaps even trying to settle with anyone in a dynamic.

I'm curious to hear your opinions.
I don't know if ... "Trying out" is how I would explain what I was doing when I found what I was looking for ....

I already knew I was a little, I didn't have to try it....

Am I missing the main conversation?
 
I don't know if ... "Trying out" is how I would explain what I was doing when I found what I was looking for ....

I already knew I was a little, I didn't have to try it....

Am I missing the main conversation?
The discussion that made me wonder happened not in Lit, and not in English. Someone was very strongly encouraging people to "try out". It felt foreign to me.
 
The discussion that made me wonder happened not in Lit, and not in English. Someone was very strongly encouraging people to "try out". It felt foreign to me.
In my opinion, you know, even though you may not totally understand the concept. I can’t see anyone waking up one morning and thinking, “I believe that I’ll try being a Little.”
It was that way with me. I had this feeling that I needed something different, someone who could lead me, and then I came here and found out it has a name.
 
Thinking due to a discussion totally elsewhere....

What are your thoughts about "trying out" DD/lg? Even as in trying it out with many people before perhaps even trying to settle with anyone in a dynamic.

I'm curious to hear your opinions.
In a way aren’t we always trying out new things? Since everyone sees the world a bit different and has their own wants and needs.
 
Thinking due to a discussion totally elsewhere....

What are your thoughts about "trying out" DD/lg? Even as in trying it out with many people before perhaps even trying to settle with anyone in a dynamic.

I'm curious to hear your opinions.

I can understand "exploring" to see if it's that thing you feel is missing. Explore feelings, explore if you're into DD/lg or D/s or M/s.

Even having to try the dynamic with several people until we find the one that's perfect for us.

Maybe it was worded differently, and "try out" may not be the best word, but the meaning might have been similar to what I wrote above.
 
The discussion that made me wonder happened not in Lit, and not in English. Someone was very strongly encouraging people to "try out". It felt foreign to me.
I would imagine someone would already have to feel or demonstrate the tendencies to be drawn to such a structured relationship. It doesn't seem like something to be learned or it would likely feel forced or just unnatural.
 
I would imagine someone would already have to feel or demonstrate the tendencies to be drawn to such a structured relationship. It doesn't seem like something to be learned or it would likely feel forced or just unnatural.

No, you're right. It's a part of who were are. But - there's always that word - I can envision not understanding "who you are" and feeling weird or different than others. Until someone comes along and tells you about it.

When I first came to Lit, I only knew how to be in a M/s or a D/s dynamic. I'd never heard of DD/lg! But, I knew what I wanted and the things I needed, and others started telling me about this. It's the perfect fit for me.
 
I can understand "exploring" to see if it's that thing you feel is missing. Explore feelings, explore if you're into DD/lg or D/s or M/s.

Even having to try the dynamic with several people until we find the one that's perfect for us.

Maybe it was worded differently, and "try out" may not be the best word, but the meaning might have been similar to what I wrote above.
Exploring is a better word choice than "try out" but it may be a translation thing.
I think that because DDlg is not a very well known or understood dynamic, seeing if it is a good fit for you and your partner might be a thing. As others have said, you already know you have these feelings or needs but you may not have a word for it. Or recognize that it is a way of being with another person. Men who having caring, tender, but also dominance sexual needs may actually be perfect daddys for a little, but they aren't sure they want to be called "daddy" or worry about possible incest implications or, or, or and they need to have a chance to ask a lot of questions and see if their needs match the needs of a particular little. Later they may realize what they have come to have is a DDlg relationship.
 
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