I want to be tied down

[desire30]

And it's not an all out nothiny first g prospect, different things click with different people. My wife, back when she was sexual, sometimes loved havinzo ties once- absolute no-no.

wonder stroy of growth and explorxg together.
my first attempt to get mubmissive

 

[Volk359]

Schedule doing a one-day roleplaying-vacation type deal, where you get a hotel/motel room and maybe start the roleplaying stuff at a nearby bar (maybe you're a female spy that gets caught and will have to be sexually-interrogated or whatever).

The advantage of a motel/hotel is that you're away from all the conventional trappings (including intrusive family members and friends) and perhaps that'll make it easier to let guards down and get into character.

Also, MAKE SURE to turn off/mute your phones, so that you two don't get cockblocked by bullshit.

@LaylaBelle my basement is always available, too!

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife enjoys being tied and "forced" with no real force. We use my old silk neckties, but I doubt if most people have those available. Any kind of soft tie is better than harder kinds.

 

[emme8]

Layla, maybe find your inner switch, tie him down. Play the role of a dome and let him enjoy everything you are wishing he would do for you.
Then he will at least know exactly what you are asking for.
Worst case scenario he hates it.
Best case scenario he loves it, decides to become your cuck, and then spends his free time waiting on you and finding the perfect bull to fuck you perfectly

 

[desire30]

All of us at some point wish they were tied down and helpless to stop what happens to them. Most want their partner to do it! We want what feels wonderful taken to an extreme and drives up over an edge of pleasure

 

[Greedy_lion]

I want to tie my partner down.

 

[Treeview]

Ive sewed a couple of sets of ankle/wrist restraints. The cuffs are padded with a couple of layers of polar fleece. The buckles and flat webbing came from worn out book bags or camping gear. The buckles pop open with a pretty light tug. No need to learn slipped knots or have keys. I always suggest a Safe Word anyway

In my world restraining is for fun, not a D/s lifestyle.

There is a bunch of good commentary in this thread

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

I live being tied up! But sadly don’t have enough

 

[dirk2024]

My boyfriend is really afraid to try something like this, he likes to make love and keep things sensual, but I want to be tied down.

I also really want to try role play where I’m coerced or forced but he’s terrified to hurt me in any way :/

I read a consensual/nonconsent story here that had (what I thought) was a good solution for this. The couple used the stoplight system. "Red" meant stop, "Yellow" was pause and of course "Green" meant go for it Tiger!

Having three options seems better than just a safeword. imho

Also, using something like this: cuffs is a good introductory step. Comfortable, and the wearer can get themselves out of them if they lose their comfort level.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I found a Master to satisfy this desire for me.
Neither of us looking to change our current lives. Just a sexual relationship sharing things we couldn't do with our spouses.

Tied to the bed, blindfolded, and toyed is an amazing way to foreplay.

 

[lowcollar]

I love being bound with hands over head, my neck and cock leashed, a steel anal hook penetrating and my mistress with crop in hand. I just beg.....please.

 

[Britva415]

I've found that the only people who can be trained and coached and even coaxed into BDSM, are people who are open minded and curious.

And even among them, sometimes they just don't want to. And that doesn't make them "not open minded" or "not curious." It just makes them someone who knows what they want.

 

[stxjimmy]

My boyfriend is really afraid to try something like this, he likes to make love and keep things sensual, but I want to be tied down.

I also really want to try role play where I’m coerced or forced but he’s terrified to hurt me in any way :/

Buy some restraints and post them to him with a card saying what you’d like and would he do it for you.

 

[MasterDarcy]

And even among them, sometimes they just don't want to. And that doesn't make them "not open minded" or "not curious." It just makes them someone who knows what they want.

Correct.

Thanks for adding the caveat.

Of course, I wasn't talking about hard limits. I meant in general.

But yeah, in general, people in this lifestyle are in the lifestyle in the first place because they're inherenty open minded and willing to explore.

And limits should be respected at all times and never a reason to pressure or shame or coerce someone into doing something they don't feel comfortable doing.

 

[AriesAngyl]

Start really slow like some of the people on here have said. Even blindfolds can be fun. Velcro cuffs are nice. Comfortable but they do the job. I am not strong enough to come out of them.

Work your way up. Start with blindfolds. Move to simple arms restraints on the headboard and see how that goes . Encourage him to have fun.

Here is a good way to entice, once you are restrained, ask him to feed you his cock. A good blowjob will do wonders with convincing a man to do anything!

 

[trucker6142]

My boyfriend is really afraid to try something like this, he likes to make love and keep things sensual, but I want to be tied down.

I also really want to try role play where I’m coerced or forced but he’s terrified to hurt me in any way :/

There under the mattress restraints. Get a set, and surprise him. My wife did, I tied her up thr first time and she cc went absolutely nuts

 

[KimberlyG]

I did a little bit of bdsm and being tied down or restrained or handcuffed when I was in college and liked it. My husband isn't into any bdsm.

 

[ridemybeard69]

I did a little bit of bdsm and being tied down or restrained or handcuffed when I was in college and liked it. My husband isn't into any bdsm.

Such a shame. Being tied or cuffed is so much fun!

 

[athelticguy04]

I did a little bit of bdsm and being tied down or restrained or handcuffed when I was in college and liked it. My husband isn't into any bdsm.

I got the handcuffs ready for you