Kinks - how open are you about them?

I always considered kinks to be relative. A kink to one person could be the norm to another. What is the cutoff between “normal” and “kinky” and who gets to decide? I didn’t realize I was kinky until my porn search words started showing up with “kink” as part of the search results.
 
I will say the main people that know of my kinks are either people I start dating and she asks me . Family and friends don’t know that much . I don’t really have like minded people to be open about that . I don’t believe my kinks are super wild

Roleplay
Ropeplay
Squirting
Breeding
Handcuffs
Public sex
Sneaky sex
 
In general, I'm not open about my kinks. When married, I shared some with my ex-wife and she didn't see the point or pleasure in them. But when she shared stories about her former BF tying her up, it was clear that her kink was important something I should get into.
But I did have one FWB from before my marriage and then we picked it up again after the divorce...and still got together with her a few times a year until a couple of years ago. Every time we met, we'd share new desires and kinks and fully explore them over the next couple of days. Not much was out of bounds and the fact that we could so freely share them and have the desire to explore them to please each other was truly special. We had a lot of fun and opened up a lot of new doors of pleasure.
 
I love them, Waterloo Sunset is without doubt in my Top10 of all time.😉
 
Most of my kinks revolve around bondage and control scenarios, as well as anthropomorphic and fantasy characters. I have interests in things like straitjacket bondage, pony play roleplay, and prison roleplay, to name a few things.

I've indulged my kinks mainly through online roleplay (which admittedly I don't do so much these days) and through writing stories that deal with the themes I'm interested in. In real life, I've experimented a little bit with ball gags and things like that, though not extensively.

I generally don't talk about them with people I know in real life unless it's in a setting where it's appropriate to do so, i.e. a munch or similar event. Even so, I might be a bit cautious anyway. 😁
 
So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.
I’ve always wanted to go to Folsom and have myself exposed, played with and look at other people having fun.

One day, perhaps.
 
A few of my friends know about my ENF/exhibitionism kink. Sometimes they would “help” by leaving me in a place without any clothes access outdoor or showing & fingered me in front of a group of people indoor.
Id love to hear more about what your friends do to you. Love to hear and talk with you about you being an exhibitionist mmmm Dm me
 
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