Kinkier as we get older?

"Kinkier as we get older?"​

For my wife and I, it is about finding what works best for us as a couple. We agree with everyone that as we mature the less inhibited we are getting. We both love this. Life is to short to be tense and tight holed. Our orgasms are more frequent and strong as ever with new discoveries. Thank goodness for funding of space exploration. ;)
 
My wife seemed to be more turned on as she aged. More of her bi side came out and she enjoys the bi interaction. She posts on here as well. Any others noticing more bi activity from one or both in a couple?
its been some years since but I do think about it a lot more now playing with another man
 
My wife seemed to be more turned on as she aged. More of her bi side came out and she enjoys the bi interaction. She posts on here as well. Any others noticing more bi activity from one or both in a couple?
As my wife and I find people off of lit who will talk sex, we are seeing that tend as well. The younger ones are less inclined, while older couples come out rather early in a conversation. From the people we have met this past year I'd put a number on it of around 80% men being actively bi with the ladies below 20%. They have been more open to couple play and threesomes. The only exception has been a few young married ladies asking my wife's insight about exploring their sexuality.
 
I was born kinky and my wife eased into it. She's certainly gotten kinkier but that's more of an exploration thing than an age thing.

But the major difference for us is being empty nesters. It's just us in the house now so open engagement is so much easier!

There's so much to not like about aging that we owe it to ourselves to make the absolute most of what the good things are and living room spankings, loud, thundering vibrator-driven orgasms and having trouble remembering where we put our pants are definitely some of the good things. ;)
 
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I was born kinky and my wife eased into it. She's certainly gotten kinkier but that's more of an exploration thing than an age thing.

But the major difference for us in being empty nesters. It's just in the house now so open engagement is so much easier!

There's so much to not like about aging that we owe it to ourselves to make the absolute most of what the good things are and living room spankings, loud, thundering vibrator-driven orgasms and having trouble remembering where we put our pants are definitely some of the good things. ;)
My ex wife got more vanilla the older she got, we grew apart sexually as well as in life
 
I was born kinky and my wife eased into it. She's certainly gotten kinkier but that's more of an exploration thing than an age thing.

But the major difference for us in being empty nesters. It's just in the house now so open engagement is so much easier!

There's so much to not like about aging that we owe it to ourselves to make the absolute most of what the good things are and living room spankings, loud, thundering vibrator-driven orgasms and having trouble remembering where we put our pants are definitely some of the good things. ;)
I’ve lived longer then i ever was gonna. Everyday is new experience of kink.
 
I was probably just as kinky but with age comes freedom. I know I act out more of my kinks and explore even more. Life gets better the older you get.
I recently retired, so I have freedom and time. My mind has begun to wander into the kink/sex realm, a lot. I'm fortunate to have a partner that is willing to be my accomplice. I hope to have new writing material in the very near future.
 
How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.
Sounds wonderful to me
 
Well, my ex said that she loved how perverted I am, although she was the kinky one. I just didn't mind to do the fucked up shit to her that she was (more or less secretly) into. I'm quite content with free use and good blowjobs these days.
 
Also, an extension from my previous answer:


Personally, I'm less judgey than I was in my formative years.


I still have same hard limits I've always had, but I've absolutely softened on my softer limits.


"Age brings wisdom only to the ones who are receptive towards it and those who identify it." - Me.
 
I was born kinky and my wife eased into it. She's certainly gotten kinkier but that's more of an exploration thing than an age thing.

But the major difference for us is being empty nesters. It's just us in the house now so open engagement is so much easier!

There's so much to not like about aging that we owe it to ourselves to make the absolute most of what the good things are and living room spankings, loud, thundering vibrator-driven orgasms and having trouble remembering where we put our pants are definitely some of the good things. ;)
Being "empty nesters" really does open things up. Without the fear, or worrying about being discovered, we are more open to exploring and just enjoying ourselves. It is fun when we can even take it outside of the house as well. I remember a time when my wife got me naked and she was topless. She took me onto our deck in the backyard to jack off and cum on her tits. It was quite intense, and I didn't last very long. After cumming, I had to sit down and recover. As we sat there, me naked and her with my cum on her tits, she told me our neighbor had watched us through a gap in our fence. I told her, she should have stopped me. She shook her head and said it turned her on, watching him watch us. Thinking about it, it turned me on too, after the fact.
 
Being "empty nesters" really does open things up. Without the fear, or worrying about being discovered, we are more open to exploring and just enjoying ourselves. It is fun when we can even take it outside of the house as well. I remember a time when my wife got me naked and she was topless. She took me onto our deck in the backyard to jack off and cum on her tits. It was quite intense, and I didn't last very long. After cumming, I had to sit down and recover. As we sat there, me naked and her with my cum on her tits, she told me our neighbor had watched us through a gap in our fence. I told her, she should have stopped me. She shook her head and said it turned her on, watching him watch us. Thinking about it, it turned me on too, after the fact.
Would love to be neighbors that would have been hot to watch and hopefully join !❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
 
How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.
Exact same. I have always been submissive and now in my late 40’s and want to try everything. Very open to it all and looking for ideas.
 
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