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Kinkier as we get older?

I wonder if we get more blasé. I’m not really into water sports, but if somebody is. I’ll pee on them. I don’t care anymore as long as we’re somewhere that it’s easy to clean up and I make them clean it up
 
Will527 said:
In my first marriage, it was vanilla sex because we were young. After our divorce, I dated some girls who liked trying different things and I learned a lot about kinks. Second marriage turned out perfect sexually, she enjoyed doing things to me and "making" me do things for fun. After she died, I had to resort to finding the right escort who knew how to take care of my needs. As it has been previous said, the older I get, the kinkier I get - I want younger and younger woman and girls and I want to do nastier things.
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My second marriage was a lot like you describe. She has since passed. I have had the good fortune to meet a widow that is okay with my kinks and we are building on that. Keep going. It's worth it.
 
lowcollar said:
How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.
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Absolutely yes. Over the years I learned about and tried different sexual situations. I learned what i liked, and what I didn't. That gave me a base to create my own kinks. The kink
Ier the better
 
I have evolved with time. I actually don't love the term "kinky" because what does that really mean? Is it deviant or is it natural? What people call deviant, to me is really very natural. I feel like my deeper dominant nature emerged as my life circumstances changed. In earlier phases, I will admit, I appeared pretty damned much like a beta-male. But in the old contest between nature & nurture, unsurprisingly, nature won. Along the way I discovered that I liked to take charge, and that, despite all the conditioning to be a civilized man, I have found that I have this aggressive hungry nature coiling inside me. In the presence of a submissively inclined woman, it's blood-in-the-water intuitive.

It's not like the civilized version of me has gone away. The primal side of me and the civilized self actually work together really well. And why shouldn't they? But how much do I love letting that primal side do his thing.
 
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After 40 years if PiV sex with my wife of course I want something a little different. She does not swallow or even spit. The back door is locked down.


I showed her my anal toy and she used it on me. Kind of kinky.
She enjoys watching me jerk off I ask her to make me eat my cum. Kind of kinky.

She is waxed bald love that and get hard thinking of her legs spread wide with the lady pulling out all her hair. Kind of kinky.
I have asked if her place would give me a manzillion.
 
ouchfeelsgood said:
I think my degree of kinkiness increases with each passing day, with the realization that I'm 66 and there are so many things on my bucket list I haven't done yet! ;)
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If the guy I met yesterday and another bf of his and I can coordinate dates, I reckon I'm in for my first gay threesome soon. His bf's a top and we're both vers, and the thought of having two hard cocks to play with gets me weak at the knees 😉
 
I suppose I'm the odd one out here, but I really haven't gotten any kinkier as I've gotten older. Maybe the opposite? I'm more in tune with what I'm into and what gets me off, and I tend to stick with what works and go deeper into those rabbit holes rather than have the need to try new or "wilder" things all the time. I have a wide range of interests as is, and I tend to go through periods where one thing attracts me more and then it goes to the back burner for a spell.

That doesn't mean that I never discover new interests anymore, but the interests don't really feel particularly kinky, definitely not kinkier than what my older, base interests are. I do occasionally really enjoy playing the Fetish Fairy Godmother, as someone called me, but these days I'm pretty picky as to what I'd like to play with more indepth.
 
DpropertyofR said:
I am in my forties. I was pretty much born a slut. I had kinky fantasies from a very early age, but it wasn’t until almost two years ago that I found my Master so that I could explore those fantasies. The thing is, my Master has gotten me to engage in activities that I previously had never thought of doing. This is turn encourages me to get creative when thinking about things I might want to try.
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oh boy, do I want to hear more.
 
It may appear on the surface that we get kinkier as we age, but it's not necessarily as black and white as that. It's nuanced.

With age comes experience, wirh age comes learning and growth and discovery, etc.

So yes, in a way we do get kinkier as we age.

I experienced some taboo activies as a pre-teen so I think that warped me and made me uber kinky from an early age. Suppose that's one of the reasons why I like taboo and extreme.

It made me who I am and wouldnt take it back, particularly if it made me less kinky.
 
I also feel like we know time is winding down on our sex lives so we want to get in as much as possible.
I am right around the corner from 65 and I would like to throw caution to the wind but my wife not so much
 
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