Chastity

At times over the years I've fancied locking a lover in chastity, but it's always felt ridiculous as the men I've been involved with have always been so assertive. I understand there are likely 'macho' men that would enjoy that, but I could never broach the subject. I wouldn't even know where to begin.
I get that and I could never see allowing it but we all have our kinks and fantasies.
 
At times over the years I've fancied locking a lover in chastity, but it's always felt ridiculous as the men I've been involved with have always been so assertive. I understand there are likely 'macho' men that would enjoy that, but I could never broach the subject. I wouldn't even know where to begin.
You might be pleasantly surprised. Not all chastity play has to involve the man being turned into a sissy or being feminised in any way. It can be done to enhance teasing and denying them until you are ready to unlock them.

Personally I lock myself away as I enjoy the feeling of being teased and aroused while caged and I find it enjoyable even when I'm Domming someone.
 
You might be pleasantly surprised. Not all chastity play has to involve the man being turned into a sissy or being feminised in any way. It can be done to enhance teasing and denying them until you are ready to unlock them.

Personally I lock myself away as I enjoy the feeling of being teased and aroused while caged and I find it enjoyable even when I'm Domming someone.
Seems the humiliation factor is big for some. Myself I could see it in this situation.
A woman is going to have her girlfriends over for a pool party. I am hired to be their bartender, servant for the day. The hostess is dominant and says that in order to get this opportunity I will be naked and caged the entire time.
The women can do anything they wish to me and can request oral services from me. At the very end she will take the cage off jerk me off for her girlfriends and then usher me out the door.
Why because they want girl time now😉
 
Seems the humiliation factor is big for some. Myself I could see it in this situation.
A woman is going to have her girlfriends over for a pool party. I am hired to be their bartender, servant for the day. The hostess is dominant and says that in order to get this opportunity I will be naked and caged the entire time.
The women can do anything they wish to me and can request oral services from me. At the very end she will take the cage off jerk me off for her girlfriends and then usher me out the door.
Why because they want girl time now😉
That could be a pretty interesting evening 😉
 
At times over the years I've fancied locking a lover in chastity, but it's always felt ridiculous as the men I've been involved with have always been so assertive. I understand there are likely 'macho' men that would enjoy that, but I could never broach the subject. I wouldn't even know where to begin.
if you met me in person or any of my friends would never think that I might be in chastity.
its something that can be enjoyed and not just a sissy thing
 
At times over the years I've fancied locking a lover in chastity, but it's always felt ridiculous as the men I've been involved with have always been so assertive. I understand there are likely 'macho' men that would enjoy that, but I could never broach the subject. I wouldn't even know where to begin.
You might present it as a challenge. Macho men like to prove themselves. I personally have ended up having noctornal dreams and getting all messy.
 
Sadly I am currently solo and spend most of the time locked. Sometimes I post myself the key, knowing that I will now remain caged for a few days before it comes back.
its still fun even solo, enjoy being caged and tease yourself
 
My wife locks me up once in a while, but it's never for very long. Maybe 3 days at the longest. I would love to go longer... dying to do locktober. But she likes my dick too much. My chastity cage is torture for her lol.
 
it is for both if she wants your cock. mine likes to make me cum.
but 3 days is still good, I self lock for about the same then its free for a day and I start all over
 
I don’t want to kink shame anybody, but I’d like to know what a urologist has to say about this practice. It just seems unhealthy to cage such sensitive organs like that.

My General practitioner knows that I wear and has seen me in my cage. She is very familiar with the lifestyle we first met her at a munch. The things she was most concerned about was fit and finish. I wear a metal cage there can be rough spots that and cause skin damage which can get infected same with fit. If it doesn’t fit well it can cause hot spots that can get infected. Also good hygiene. Now we don’t use it for long term Chasity but control. I have been locked for for a month with no issues. The most concern from the doctor came from using a urethral tube. Mostly with the same issues but with the urethral opening itself.
 
My General practitioner knows that I wear and has seen me in my cage. She is very familiar with the lifestyle we first met her at a munch. The things she was most concerned about was fit and finish. I wear a metal cage there can be rough spots that and cause skin damage which can get infected same with fit. If it doesn’t fit well it can cause hot spots that can get infected. Also good hygiene. Now we don’t use it for long term Chasity but control. I have been locked for for a month with no issues. The most concern from the doctor came from using a urethral tube. Mostly with the same issues but with the urethral opening itself.

I've had tiny tears at the opening from sounding so that's a legit concern. My sounds are put away and we're not sure if they'll get used again. I love sounding but we have to listen to our bodies.

I know you're probably talking about cages with inserts but same principle.
 
I've had tiny tears at the opening from sounding so that's a legit concern. My sounds are put away and we're not sure if they'll get used again. I love sounding but we have to listen to our bodies.

I know you're probably talking about cages with inserts but same principle.

It is. They can take time to heal. The dr also said you can change the shape of the opening and it can cause issues with your pee stream.
 
As I sit here locked up, I was wondering how many others are caged either locked by yourself or have a keyholder. Even the ladies who might be in a chastity belt
one year 7 months . wife has other blokes. i give oral but no erection or orgasm . caged in a small metal device. i actually don’t think about it anymore. her ridiculing it is now the turn on. her being satisfied is the main thing. weird isn’t it .
 
not weird. I love to make sure the wife gets her orgasms with vibe or mouth, even tho so wont take over the key and know my cock is locked at times.
I only cum if she makes me. I guess I get lucky as she likes to make me cum by jerking me off. sometimes once a week or up to 3 weeks. I dont masturbate anymore
 
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