spawnofdavey
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Hmmmm.. sounds like something I'd like to explore.
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9to5
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the you need more of a belt style, not the ball trap cages.
I dont remember when I came in my wife. I only get hand jobs now
so they keep you in the spikes?
saintcero
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I wish. No. I have to self lock if in a cage or self clamp if wearing my glans ring. My wife has no kink at all. But she still likes to fuck and asks for dick twice a week. I’m not hurting too bad (unless I get the spikes too tight
Mrs_and_mr
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Interesting. I have no problem with this. My testicles each are way bigger than the gap between the base ring and the cage. If they were to somehow slip through I think it would cause me great pain.
Mrs_and_mr
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Why wouldn’t it hurt? I don’t think my testicles could fit through if they wanted too.
9to5
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sometimes in the morning mine want to pull in tight. and depending on what im doing one just might sneak out of the ring. and it is a slow pain
HarleyQuim
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I don’t want to kink shame anybody, but I’d like to know what a urologist has to say about this practice. It just seems unhealthy to cage such sensitive organs like that.
CuriousRick
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Especially long term!
EbonySub29
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Something like this?
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9to5
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almost looks like a little too much but I hope she likes being in it.
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spawnofdavey
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Sadly, can't see that link here in the UK.
Neither can I now
TheIntrepidBoyager
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I've been in cageless chastity for a couple months now. Well, I actually call it Regimented Orgasm Control by my Mistress (wife). I voluntarily surrendered full control of my orgasms to her as a sign of my commitment to our return to our D/s lifestyle. We were engaged in the lifestyle pretty heavily for quite a while but strayed from it for a long time.
In the first go around, this was not something I would've considered but I wish I would've. I think it is making a huge difference this time. I'm far more attentive and she is far more engaged and active as my Domme.
She is not a fan of the cages and at my age, at least so far, I'm able to maintain. Yes, it can get very challenging. A couple weeks is the longest she's had me go but that is because she decides she wants me to cum in whatever fashion makes her happy at that moment. And yes, if I cheated I would absolutely tell her. The guilt and shame of not telling her and betraying that trust would be too much for me.
But, we now have an Orgasm Calendar and I see she has marked specific days and it looks like there is only one day marked per month for the rest of the year.
In the first go around, this was not something I would've considered but I wish I would've. I think it is making a huge difference this time. I'm far more attentive and she is far more engaged and active as my Domme.
She is not a fan of the cages and at my age, at least so far, I'm able to maintain. Yes, it can get very challenging. A couple weeks is the longest she's had me go but that is because she decides she wants me to cum in whatever fashion makes her happy at that moment. And yes, if I cheated I would absolutely tell her. The guilt and shame of not telling her and betraying that trust would be too much for me.
But, we now have an Orgasm Calendar and I see she has marked specific days and it looks like there is only one day marked per month for the rest of the year.
MaturemanAJ
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Never understood the desire for this
TheIntrepidBoyager
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Never understood the desire for this
Fair. To be honest, I'm not sure a lot of us who engage in it, or even those who just fantasize about it, truly understand why it clicks for us.
I did a short writeup on it here: The Enigma of Male Chastity
I can tell you certain specific things like how strong and mind blowing my orgasms are after two weeks of her edging and teasing me daily and then finally giving me release! Totally worth it just right there!!!
But as I said in my post above, it runs much deeper for me and surrendering control of my orgasms is my ultimate display of commitment to my wife. My orgasms, my pleasure, is solely hers now. Not even my own, just for her. She can allow me to experience it fully or ruin it if that is what she desires/thinks I deserve.
It makes me much more attentive to her and, I suppose, obedient. As strange as it may sound, my moods are much lighter and more consistent now. I'm focused on her needs
MaturemanAJ
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I could possibly see it if she was into it but I know guys that want it but their wives have no desire for it.
Like they say it takes two to tango
9to5
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yep. my wife is not into it. so I do it for myself. I still have fun with it
IlsaDark
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At times over the years I've fancied locking a lover in chastity, but it's always felt ridiculous as the men I've been involved with have always been so assertive. I understand there are likely 'macho' men that would enjoy that, but I could never broach the subject. I wouldn't even know where to begin.
