Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Jw75766]

Good morning friends

Good morning!

 

[dawn_of_night]

Good morning!

Hey you

 

[dawn_of_night]

Good morning!

What are you doing?

 

[Strixaluco]

I just want to curl up in a beanbag and cry. I'm so frustrated and angry, and concerned. I hate this week and next week is looking to be the same.

Little me needs to color, but I'm not ready yet.

Hugs

 

[CuriousRick]

No motivation today. I am just going to find a big comfy chair and read for a while

 

[Jw75766]

What are you doing?

On call for work today. Just got back a little by ago. Family went to a water park so I'm just sitting around...

 

[dawn_of_night]

On call for work today. Just got back a little by ago. Family went to a water park so I'm just sitting around...

Damn dude.... Water park sounds fun though.

 

[Strixaluco]

Now the neglect of ice cream has been corrected.

 

[CuriousRick]

Now the neglect of ice cream has been corrected.

Ice cream?

 

[GrantBricksly]

Good morning to all the Daddies and Littles out there today. Sorry i didn't say much yesterday. Saturdays are busy for me. Farmers market day. And it's hot, so when I get home, I am BEAT!

Went well though! And I have some more left overs! English Muffins, Cheddar Biscuits...and we cooked Breakfast Sandwiches.. (we cook them fresh and made to order there) so if anyone wants Sausage Egg and Cheese or Bacon Egg and Cheese on an English Muffin, or in a burrito/quesadilla, I've got a tray full for everyone!

Also, I'm happy to report that Chapter 4 of my story went live today

 

[barefootgirl69]

I found the groups in Fetlife difficult, too. But you can also find munches (meet-ups in public places, often with the option to order food) there, based on location.

Or other happenings too, for that matter.

The local events and munches are the only feature I use there.

 

[desertbunny]

Good morning to all the Daddies and Littles out there today. Sorry i didn't say much yesterday. Saturdays are busy for me. Farmers market day. And it's hot, so when I get home, I am BEAT!

Went well though! And I have some more left overs! English Muffins, Cheddar Biscuits...and we cooked Breakfast Sandwiches.. (we cook them fresh and made to order there) so if anyone wants Sausage Egg and Cheese or Bacon Egg and Cheese on an English Muffin, or in a burrito/quesadilla, I've got a tray full for everyone!

Also, I'm happy to report that Chapter 4 of my story went live today

What about those of us who aren't sure where we're at quite yet?

Thank you for all the food! A burrito would be wonderful, please? Mexican food is my comfort food as I grew up with it.

 

[barefootgirl69]

What about those of us who aren't sure where we're at quite yet?

You're welcome here, too.

Often, you'll see some people who pop in to say hello who aren't any shade of Dom/sub, but are friends.

 

[desertbunny]

Let's change the subject for a bit.

Until I came to Lit ten years ago, I had never heard the term "Daddy Dom" or had any idea what DD/lg was.

I had known for years that my natural tendency was submission, but only when I felt safe and cared for. I had been in M/s before my marriage, and I thought I was getting D/s when I married. That's a story for another day, but goes deep into my WAIT AND VET, DON'T RUSH stance.

After filing for divorce, I knew that I wanted D/s, but nothing to do with humiliation or sadism. I wanted "a sensual Dom" - those were the words I used.

You see, even though I had been in that M/s dynamic, I hadn't been TAUGHT what to look for outside of that. Lit became a great place to learn many things, not always for the best. But, many took the time to teach and advise.

One of those things was to get involved with a local BDSM community. Go to events, ask questions, get to know people.
Is anyone else familiar with their local community?

I was semi-active in the BDSM community in my area prior to Covid, but let's just say that I didn't mesh well with it and I had issues with how they conducted themselves on a social level, not a BDSM or consent level. They were 100% solid with those things. I am no longer active in the community. My closest friends were also very active in the same community, that's where I met them, and had a similar experience and are minimally active. However, during that time I did learn many things and expanded my horizons.

I do agree that FetLife is a good resource for local events and munches, as well as information, IMHO.

 

[desertbunny]

You're welcome here, too.

Often, you'll see some people who pop in to say hello who aren't any shade of Dom/sub, but are friends.

Thank you, I do appreciate it, really.

One thing I learned about myself today is that apparently I have a brat side to me. Not intending to be malicious or disrespectful, much more playful but ultimately leading to a spanking. At least most of the time. Sometimes I'm just plain stubborn.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

You might want to continue in PM and not take over the thread, please.

I deleted my posts. Sorry.

 

[GrantBricksly]

I do agree that FetLife is a good resource for local events and munches, as well as information, IMHO.

I love FetLife. I'm met a lot of great people there. And if I'm being honest, it gives me an outlet for my wife and I to use for our exhibitionist side. Well, that and Fansly...lol

 

[GrantBricksly]

What about those of us who aren't sure where we're at quite yet?

Thank you for all the food! A burrito would be wonderful, please? Mexican food is my comfort food as I grew up with it.

I am so sorry, I should have said good morning to everyone else as well.

 

[desertbunny]

I am so sorry, I should have said good morning to everyone else as well.

No worries, this thread is geared primarily towards Daddies and littles. I probably shouldn't have spoken up like that anyway.

 

[WetSubGirl]

@FrenchLopBunny going back to the story you mentioned in the other thread got me thinking. You said your husband rolled you up in a blanket like a burrito when you were feeling anxiety/stressed. I've seen posts on here about anxiety before. Have any of you ever tried a weighted blanket for those times of anxiety? I had one before. It was nice. I bought too heavy of one but it was nice feeling like you're being held or cuddled even when you're alone. Just a random thought as was travelling between work sites.

It's super nice for calming the anxiety.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Ice cream?

Did you have ice cream for breakfast?

 

[CuriousRick]

Did you have ice cream for breakfast?

No just pancakes and eggs. Almost as bad! I do have a quart of key lime pie frozen custard in the freezer

I am a bad diabetic but not that bad…

 

[dawn_of_night]

No just pancakes and eggs. Almost as bad! I do have a quart of key lime pie frozen custard in the freezer

I am a bad diabetic but not that bad…

Ofpph... Key lime pie.... That sounds great!

 

[CuriousRick]

Ofpph... Key lime pie.... That sounds great!

It is really good! Ealier this year they had ooey gooey butter cake concretes!

 

[CuriousRick]

I am very nerdy and just bought this game! I couldn’t resist! I love the artwork! Do we have a game room