Cock Talk

[Endless_Night]

It's more fun to draw them on with a pencil. Some days I want to look more pensive and some days I want to look like I am expressionless.

I have thought about microblading.

My best friend shaves and pencils on beautiful hues of purple, pink, and blue elaborate eyebrows almost every morning to match her hair.

Sometimes she comes in, rushing from running behind, and she’ll let one of us do her eyebrows for her.

Many a unibrow have been drawn.

Gosh I miss her

Well, now I just feel all staid and boring.

 

[morelikeasong]

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

I do not want to wear a tiny thong but it has nothing to do with my pubic hair

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear.

This opinion has actually been in the minority with guys I’ve been with or chatted with, despite the societal messages I’ve ingested over the years. Not that I haven’t actually encountered it, just not nearly as much as I expected I would.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

He didn't get to come near me again. And added to the list of reasons why my opinion of myself is so low.
I'm working on that.

It's sad how we let other people's opinions of us impact how we feel about ourselves. I need to work on that too. The last guy to see me naked in person other than my husband told me I'd be perfect and he would date me if I just lost 40 pounds.
Thanks buddy.

 

[base10]

It's sad how we let other people's opinions of us impact how we feel about ourselves. I need to work on that too. The last guy to see me naked in person other than my husband told me I'd be perfect and he would date me if I just lost 40 pounds.
Thanks buddy.

And I’m sure he was sculpted from granite

 

[hotoldrguy]

It's sad how we let other people's opinions of us impact how we feel about ourselves. I need to work on that too. The last guy to see me naked in person other than my husband told me I'd be perfect and he would date me if I just lost 40 pounds.
Thanks buddy.

That is horrible. Another asshole

 

[MindYaBitness]

Nope.
I like trimmed.
I used to wonder why they called it a “Beaver”, then I saw some old ‘60s/‘70s porn.

It's called a beaver because it takes in a lot of wood

 

[EvaLane]

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear.

See, in person, I’ve never once experienced a flicker of discontent.

But online? The preference seems to still heavily skew bare. I’ve seen it in many, many many cliché DMs -

Them: “What’s it looking like down there?”
Me: blah blah blah
Them: “Wouldn’t you rather feel my stubble against your skin?” or “You know Daddy prefers you pretty and exposed.”

Which… ok. I get it. But that’s message three, not weeks into anything. That’s not feeding into my kinks or a dynamic, that’s just telling me your preference in a flowery way.

It’s funny, engaging in these conversations publicly - age play, roleplay, all of it. Everyone says they’re into anything, but most stick to the safest scripts.

And yet… my DMs say otherwise.
Top results on top sites say otherwise.

I can keep a secret, but we all know

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[MindYaBitness]

It's sad how we let other people's opinions of us impact how we feel about ourselves. I need to work on that too. The last guy to see me naked in person other than my husband told me I'd be perfect and he would date me if I just lost 40 pounds.
Thanks buddy.

Please, save this clip to send to any jackass who has the audacity to say that bullshit.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I have always had a lower opinion of my body.
Sometimes, it just goes that way with all the locker room stuff and seeing all the "sculpted" people.
My preference on a woman is whatever she is comfortable with because much of the "desirable" looks take work and I want her to feel comfortable in her own skin.
I always ask my partners what they prefer and try to accommodate when I can.
The woman I am married to has no preference, but at the same time we are not intimate either.
So there's always that.
We as people need to be more understanding of that although many want to play the "let's mold them into what I want, then cast them aside" which is disheartening and cruel.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I was with someone, who, in the midst of everything, when I asked why he wasn't putting his face near me, declared that 'you said it wasn't shaved, so I decided it was a bit long for me'.

He hadn't even bothered to see, as although I've never been waxed or shaved smooth, I knew his preference and so I had made sure it was extra extra trimmed and tidied.

He didn't get to come near me again. And added to the list of reasons why my opinion of myself is so low.
I'm working on that.

The fucking audacity! As though guys give any thoughts to their pubic hair, other that their own preference!!!!!

 

[MindYaBitness]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

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Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

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So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

As many here know, I was a stylist & esthetician, and owned a salon for several years. I've styled, dyed, waxed & vajazzled many a bush, butt, and bikini line. As with many things, ladies do it for the art of it, or because they feel societal pressure to do so. I, myself, am a bit of a wax addict. I have no objection to pubic hair, but as in all things, I get a bit carried away. So, if a little waxing is good, then all the waxing must be better!

I don't live in an urban area, but the population is large enough that I had quite a few male body wax clients compared to the average (which is usually zero). Generally, they were doing a head to toes wax, Brazilian included, as prep for body building competitions. I never had a man come in and get his bush, balls, butt waxed because the woman in his life required it of him. Where as I had several women for whom it was a requirement for the men in their life, which I think is horrible. I think if a man is requiring that you wax for him, then he should be willing to get waxed himself!

I was bullied as a kid. It's not that I'm "hairy", per se, but my skin is two shades darker than Casper, and my natural hair color is dark brown. Thus, "Monkey Girl" was my 3rd grade bully's name of choice. It got worse when kids saw my dad, who looks about three to the left on the evolution of man illustration. I've shaved my legs since the age of 8, and have wrestled with hair ever since.

Whatever you do, do it for you. If a man or woman objects, kick his/her ass out of your bed/DMs/Life. You're body is your own to express yourself with as you choose, or to simply be comfortable in. End of story.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Everyone says they’re into anything, but most stick to the safest scripts.

For the record, I’m not into “anything”.

 

[peekingone]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

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Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

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So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

I must admit, I like a tight trimmed bush. I won't refuse a bald one either. Whatever she feels is the need at that time let's go for it..... Now the question is what is your style?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

. But that’s message three,

and here I thought I was premature.

 

[EvaLane]

I've styled, dyed, waxed & vajazzled many a bush, butt, and bikini line.

Well, now I want a Vajazzling. I remember they were all the rage shortly after lockdown. Maybe something like this? Cute



Has anyone ever shaved or waxed their partner? Would you want to? Would you want your partner to shave/wax you?

So many questionssssss.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Well, now I want a Vajazzling. I remember they were all the rage shortly after lockdown. Maybe something like this? Cute

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Has anyone ever shaved or waxed their partner? Would you want to? Would you want your partner to shave/wax you?

So many questionssssss.

Yes, but the ones you get in the Salon aren't in pre-set designs, or pre-glued. I got to be a vajazzled artíst!

 

[Mei5ter]

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Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?)

It's 1997. And it's staying that way.

I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

Yes, age is the reason you walked into the kitchen and forgot why.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

No. I've been flirty with people older and younger than me. If I like you and I'm attracted to you, that's the way it is. People are individuals, not demographics.

- What about in person?

Same. I'm not one of those men who wants a girlfriend half his age, thank you.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

Right. This is a complex question. Role-play and age play mean different things to different people.

I'm going to risk pissing everyone off by using BDSM as a comparison. At one end of the spectrum, maybe you like the physical sensation of a spanking once in a while. At the other end, BDSM is a label for a dynamic of care and love and power which expresses and underpins your whole relationship and connection.

Age play is similar, I think. At one end, maybe you've dug out the schoolgirl outfit for playtime because you wore the leather corset and thigh boots last night, felt like a change of pace, and the nurse costume was still in the laundry basket. It's sexy, it's a little bit naughty (as Matilda might have said), and you take the role off with the costume afterwards.

Then, you have play involving power exchange and power imbalance. Age play often serves as a proxy for that. It's familiar, and we've all experienced it. We're used to older figures having that authority and power over us, whether that's a parent, teacher, or boss. In the bedroom, that familiarity matters. We don't have to explain it to a partner, and it isn't hard to maintain in the heat of the moment. Just about everyone alive will have been told, at some stage, that they've been naughty and need to accept the consequences. Yes, you can express power exchange in other ways. But most of us have no first hand experience of being secret agents interrogated in locked rooms, or mediaeval princesses chained in dungeons and forced to reveal where their jewels are hidden. But we were all kids, and we all got told off. So...you've been very naughty and you're going over my lap for a spanking, and when you've apologised on your knees like a good girl we can play ravished princesses later.

Where was I? Oh yes. Age play. Well. It's also got a taboo aspect, and that makes it very difficult to talk about openly. (Being briefly serious, this discussion in Cock Talk has been amazingly non-judgemental, which is brilliant and thank you). The first D in DD/LG is a hugely difficult word for many, and if you're a man who admits to liking a partner to role-play cheerleader or schoolgirl in bed, I can assure you that you get plenty of flak for that too. All I'll say that for me, speaking entirely personally, it's simply that I like role-play, and that I have my normal share of the human desire to want things I'm told I shouldn't want, and do things I'm told I shouldn't do. And just as age play is familiar as a dynamic for power exchange, it's also about as familiar a taboo as you can get. And sharing playing at breaking a taboo of that strength with a sexual partner is an incredibly powerful thing to do together.

And at the far end, you have age play dynamics, like DD/LG, where age play expresses fundamentals about who you both are and how you connect. That is something I've started to understand only recently in my current Lit relationship, and, like any other relationship, that is something unique which we create between the two us. It is not something I ever expected to desire or feel. But it isn't role-play. It's intense, loving, complicated, powerful, impossibly hot...and it's how we connect. Neither of us looked for it. It found us.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

Not for me, no. Though I can see why, as others have said, it's easier to give up power to someone older.

 

[Neanderthal247]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

View attachment 2523228

Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

View attachment 2523231

So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

I want to see the answers to this question

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

70's and 80's bushes are my preference, it's my first memories of pussy. It was also seductive to me, looking at the hair come out, made you feel like you're closer to eat. Plus it soaks up the flavor of pussy juices, after eating her out, I'd suck the juices from the bush

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

Not all fellas

 

[summer_reine]

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Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

I don't often flirt but it seems to not make a lot of a difference though I definitely prefer the <my age type when it comes to idle fantasy.

- What about in person?

Of the people I have a mild crush on IRL, 1 is older, 1 is similar age and the rest are younger than me. Rawr

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

No, not my jam.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

There is an interesting dynamic going either way. Getting an older guy to submit seems more challenging intellectually, a younger guy more difficult emotionally (ego)

 

[Endless_Night]

It is not something I ever expected to desire or feel. But it isn't role-play. It's intense, loving, complicated, powerful, impossibly hot...and it's how we connect. Neither of us looked for it. It found us.

In my early years on Lit, someone said to me that I didn't really know what I liked. At the time, I was indignant and hair-flipped my way outta there. How dare'st they!

They were, of course, correct.

One taboo sexual desire drove me to Lit. If I'd been less wrapped up in my angst over trying to sort that situation the underlying logic in what they were saying would have been apparent.

What you're describing is how I came to DD/lg. Like so many, that first D squicked me away with its superficial connotations. But - the images posted held a certain allure. The ones that implied an air of safety, security, surrender. Like a nude girl curled up in a man's lap.

I mentioned this once to a partner, included my sense of discomfort. He, too, flinched at the D. We moved on conversationally, but, apparently he continued to think. Eventually he pressed to try. I was doubtful. Most. He continued to press. We did, and whoosh!

As you say, it was intense, complicated, powerful, insanely erotic, and added a depth to emotional intimacy that took sex to unimagined heights. It was heady. Overwhelming. And so very surprising.

Sometimes it is the way things happen. The right partner, the right connection, the right timing.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I bloody love this thread, and all it's contributors.

 

[69Explorer]

Okay, okay...

Here we go.

It had been a few weeks since we've seen each other. I got the whole weekend off from mum duty and went to stay at the librarian's place. He had things to do and places to be during the day, so I pretended to live in a very silent and very clean house. That was nice. I'm sure that played in to it.

The librarian is a very snuggly bedmate. We were both exhausted and naked after a marathon sex session earlier in the evening. At about 2am I feel fingers gently brushing my inner thigh. My groggy, horny self let them slowly wake me up over the course of 20 or so minutes. You know that half asleep dance that can happen? We got in to that. I got progressively more and more worked up to the point where I was ravenous.

I don't remember the exact sequence of events, but this all kind of started when I started touching myself. The librarian started touching himself. This is something I've always wanted to see and just hadn't yet. It was hot. I wanted to help. So I did. I started licking the top of his penis before covering the head with my mouth. I let my head move with the motion of his hands. At times I took over, but I was eager to let him lead so I could learn and really feel his body. It was great.

I could tell he was starting to climax and just rucked in. As he gasped that he was about to come I kinda grinned to myself, shrugged my shoulder with the understanding that I already knew that. I didn't take the whole load in my mouth- I pulled off as he ejaculated and ran my (very wet) tongue up his chest and neck. I wasn't sure how much cum made it into my mouth, but I dragged at least some up to neck (I could smell it when I snuggled back in).

That is all

Well.., all I can say.., as a fellow countryperson, you have done the nation proud !!

 

[69Explorer]

Yes, but the ones you get in the Salon aren't in pre-set designs, or pre-glued. I got to be a vajazzled artíst!

Shaved and waxed, yes & yes. Was trying to creat a the other day on gf's vaj area.. But now know why there was a reason I didn't take Art in HS......

 

[Bbl87]

In my early years on Lit, someone said to me that I didn't really know what I liked. At the time, I was indignant and hair-flipped my way outta there. How dare'st they!

They were, of course, correct.

One taboo sexual desire drove me to Lit. If I'd been less wrapped up in my angst over trying to sort that situation the underlying logic in what they were saying would have been apparent.

What you're describing is how I came to DD/lg. Like so many, that first D squicked me away with its superficial connotations. But - the images posted held a certain allure. The ones that implied an air of safety, security, surrender. Like a nude girl curled up in a man's lap.

I mentioned this once to a partner, included my sense of discomfort. He, too, flinched at the D. We moved on conversationally, but, apparently he continued to think. Eventually he pressed to try. I was doubtful. Most. He continued to press. We did, and whoosh!

As you say, it was intense, complicated, powerful, insanely erotic, and added a depth to emotional intimacy that took sex to unimagined heights. It was heady. Overwhelming. And so very surprising.

Sometimes it is the way things happen. The right partner, the right connection, the right timing.

I really think that, aside from some really good friendships here, is one of the biggest things I've taken from Lit: I don’t really know what I'm into or not. I've discovered some things, but still definitely very much in that process. In my case, since I can't really explore alot of those things at home Lit gives me a safe place to explore those things.

IRL, my experiences are pretty limited, and my wife doesn't really want to explore much outside of bondage (which is something she likes, I'm indifferent but very much willing to participate since she enjoys it). But I have an insatiable thirst for knowledge and experience.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Age Play
Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.
- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

If it's just flirting on the boards, I'm not concerned about age. For situations that are more involved, I would say that ten years either direction would be my limits. We're at roughly comparable places in life and are more likely to be looking for similar situations.

- What about in person?

The only time there was much of an age gap in "real life" for me was when I was 18 and dating someone who was 26. It was only a couple months, as I fairly quickly realized that being at very different places in life can make things complicated. I was in my senior year of high school and living with my parents and he was working a full-time job as a firefighter and living on his own. I'm not available in real life, but I think my age limits would be the same as here.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

The only large age split I've ever role played is one with a college student and her professor. The appeal there is partly the unequal power dynamic and partly the approval and attention of an older and wiser man.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

I am and, for me, it does. I would find it difficult to take a much younger man seriously as a Dom. When watching the trailers for the movie "Babygirl", I find it hard to believe that a 24 year old intern could have the gravitas to evoke feelings of submission from a 49 year old CEO. But that's just me. I might totally get it after watching the movie.

I might also be biased because the D/s dynamic that resonates the most with me is the DD/lg dynamic. When I first joined Lit, if someone had told me that I'd be calling someone Daddy in a few years, I would have told them that they're crazy. But then I started to read stories and threads and talk to different people. And I discovered that it's something I'm very drawn to. Talking about age though, for me, there's no component of age regression/age play.