Love_Is_Blonde
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Age Play
Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.
I typically am not attracted to men that are much younger than I am for very long, so if I realized that they were super young, that would usually cause me to limit my flirty discussions with them. I enjoy talking to a range of people, but I tend to be more attracted to qualities found in men that are older than I am. I also felt that really young men tended to be here for different reasons than I was.- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?
Warning: over generalizations ahead:
Every once in a while it is a powerful feeling to be giving direction, to be leading or to surprise or tease. I do like that. But that’s very different from guiding and teaching and explaining, which is what I don’t want to spend a lot of time doing. There is nothing wrong with that, but that is just not how I want my relationship to be.
I have to be intellectually stimulated as well as physically. There needs to be some self-awareness that comes with age.
not really, no.- What about in person?
Oh. Oh Yes.- Do you ever role play a large age split?

Not at all until recently. I’m not really sure how it even started but I’m very glad it did. I wouldn’t say that age play is something that “I’m into” because that makes it seem like it would work with anyone. But it wouldn’t. For me, it has taken time, and trust and communication and chemistry and crystal clear understanding with my partner to make it work, at the very least. It will not look the same for everyone, but for me it works remarkably well.
It is hard to be vulnerable, which I suppose makes sense. So, it’s natural to need to trust who you open up to. Maybe what is a little unusual is how long it takes me to trust someone or how few people I can really be wholly comfortable around. That being said, the chances of me feeling safe with a man who is significantly younger than I am are slim to none.- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?
