Cock Talk

[Endless_Night]

And not to worry. I'm in the camp of catch them while you can..

Wait. There were pictures?!

Never seen it but I’m pretty sure that’s Tom Berenger and this movie is
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0077728/

Whoa. I had no idea Tom Berenger was ever that attractive.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

When I was younger, I always liked older girls. I met my wife when I was 18 and she was 25. As you’ve all surmised, I’m mature beyond my years, so girls my age just weren’t cutting it. I talk about classy shit like art museums and caviar. Not the latest boy band concert. So, I tended to go for women older than me.

That kind of carried its way onto Lit. When I first got to Lit 13 years ago, I was about 28 or 29. I was still mostly interested in women 5-10 years older than me. Again, because I’m so mature.

Now that I’m in my early 30s to early 40s, that has changed a bit. It doesn’t matter as much, but probably +/- 10 years seems to work. Age really is less relevant now. I don’t have much of a preference really. It’s just about connection. And breast size.



No in person shenanigans for me, but I’d probably be similar to what I said above. I don’t want to be a sugar daddy, so I’m definitely not interested in some 18 year old. That would feel creepy.



I’m just so youthful at my current age it wouldn’t make sense.



I’m not a dom or a sub.

Interesting

 

[hotwords229_A]

It can be scary, but also thrilling, when another people-watcher catches me watching. There’s this quiet understanding, like we both see the near misses, the brief flickers of connection that vanish before they have time to start.

I do this too.
I catch a lot of people looking at me and I wonder what they’re looking at before I realize that I was looking at them and they are thinking the same thing.

You'll have to use your imagination.

I am SO tired of reading “that page no longer exists”!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I am SO tired of reading “that page no longer exists”!

Psst

if it ever existed it was for less than 3 minutes .

 

[Wand3rlust]

Psst

if it ever existed it was for less than 3 minutes .

No true. It was an hour - but the link broke, but I fixed it.

 

[EvaLane]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me



Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -



So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

 

[Bbl87]

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

Forced to choose between the two, bare. But I'm not picky, bare or bush won't change anything for me. Honestly, main reason for my preference is I love eating pussy, and bare just means I have to stop less due to not getting the occasional hair in my mouth. . And that can be achieved pretty well by a well kept trim too.

 

[morelikeasong]

https://i.ibb.co/VWG6RK15/IMG-7639.jpg

Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

+10, don’t give it a second thought. That describes most people I interact with here.
-10 is a hard no for me, for a number of reasons. Mostly they’re too immature. And that’s not a fault, just… reality.

- What about in person?

Before I was married, I dated almost exclusively older than me. Not always a big gap, sometimes just a couple years.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

I don’t really role play at all, no. And I don’t do any age play/age regression. I do enjoy the age gap and some of the natural dynamics that come with that. But I don’t pretend. My imagination isn’t that great.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

When I’ve dabbled in that, yes it does. I don’t think I could be dommed by someone younger than me. At least, not by a man.

 

[lavendersilk]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

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Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

View attachment 2523231

So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

I've never shaved/waxed, just trimmed. I'm pretty lucky I guess because I have very light color hair that doesn't grow much down there, on my legs, my armpits or... sadly my eyebrows.

I am of the opinion that you should do what makes you feel comfortable, not what society tells you is fashionable or trendy.

 

[Bbl87]

I am of the opinion that you should do what makes you feel comfortable, not what society tells you is fashionable or trendy.

Agreed. I've literally never expressed an opinion on it with any of my partners. Don't really think its my place.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

https://i.ibb.co/VWG6RK15/IMG-7639.jpg

Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

I typically am not attracted to men that are much younger than I am for very long, so if I realized that they were super young, that would usually cause me to limit my flirty discussions with them. I enjoy talking to a range of people, but I tend to be more attracted to qualities found in men that are older than I am. I also felt that really young men tended to be here for different reasons than I was.

Warning: over generalizations ahead:
Every once in a while it is a powerful feeling to be giving direction, to be leading or to surprise or tease. I do like that. But that’s very different from guiding and teaching and explaining, which is what I don’t want to spend a lot of time doing. There is nothing wrong with that, but that is just not how I want my relationship to be.

I have to be intellectually stimulated as well as physically. There needs to be some self-awareness that comes with age.

- What about in person?

not really, no.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

Oh. Oh Yes.

Not at all until recently. I’m not really sure how it even started but I’m very glad it did. I wouldn’t say that age play is something that “I’m into” because that makes it seem like it would work with anyone. But it wouldn’t. For me, it has taken time, and trust and communication and chemistry and crystal clear understanding with my partner to make it work, at the very least. It will not look the same for everyone, but for me it works remarkably well.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

It is hard to be vulnerable, which I suppose makes sense. So, it’s natural to need to trust who you open up to. Maybe what is a little unusual is how long it takes me to trust someone or how few people I can really be wholly comfortable around. That being said, the chances of me feeling safe with a man who is significantly younger than I am are slim to none.

 

[Apisto42]

https://i.ibb.co/VWG6RK15/IMG-7639.jpg

I chose this picture because I wanted to keep the focus a bit on adults, and also, this is probably the sexiest that Tom Beringer has ever been. So throwing him a bone.

Age Play

Having been fucking around on lit from my late 30’s to almost 50 (wtf, what year is it?) I’ve begun to wonder about age related questions.

- Does a considerable difference in age (let’s say +/- 10 years) give you a pause in being flirty on lit?

So when I first started flirting on lit, it was funny. Girls younger than I was at the time were receptive, but often women my own age and older, upon sharing face pics, would say things like “oh, you’re too young.”

Now that I’ve got white in my beard? I don’t hear that anymore

- What about in person?

I don’t flirt with younger women in person. I’m hyper aware of being perceived as the old dude in the club that’s skeevy everyone out.

- Do you ever role play a large age split?

I have. It was super hot with the right person and we were comfortable with each other for a while beforehand.

- If you’re into dom/sub stuff, does age play a factor?

Not really my kink, but playing around with it, age is the least important factor.

 

[Apisto42]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

View attachment 2523228

Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

View attachment 2523231

So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

I fully support everyone doing whatever they want to their own bodies. If it makes you happy, go for it. Plus hair grows back, so there’s always options.

Personally? I like trimmed over wild for two reasons. I love looking at pussy and I love seeing my cock sliding in and out.

 

[JPReads]

Forced to choose between the two, bare. But I'm not picky, bare or bush won't change anything for me. Honestly, main reason for my preference is I love eating pussy, and bare just means I have to stop less due to not getting the occasional hair in my mouth. . And that can be achieved pretty well by a well kept trim too.

I am now and always will be a trim for the win kind of guy. That goes for me and her.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Nope.
I like trimmed.
I used to wonder why they called it a “Beaver”, then I saw some old ‘60s/‘70s porn.

 

[Endless_Night]

Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

Really? Per usual, I had no idea. Are we going all hipster? Like, with designs and braids and coiffed into shapes?

Alas, I will not be participating. I'm like one of those guys unable to grow a full beard. My genetic spin of the wheel did not supply me with much body hair.

or... sadly my eyebrows.

Dye. Otherwise known as eyebrows' best friend. *nods sagely*

(That sentence structure reads wrong but I couldn't figure out how to fix it. )

I don’t think I could be dommed by someone younger than me. At least, not by a man.

You are not the only person I've heard say this. I find it interesting that gender makes a difference.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I'm like one of those guys unable to grow a full beard.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

I'm pro bush.

While a bare little kitty is pretty to look at, growing a bit of hair makes me feel more grown I guess? I also love how soft it is when you pet it.

Meow.

 

[EvaLane]

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

I honestly love body hair on women, I always have. It doesn’t read as masculine to me at all, quite the opposite. Hair on a man feels rough, utilitarian. It belongs on the backs of their hands, jawlines, chests.

But on a woman? It feels soft, secretive. Almost luxurious.

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

I’ve been shaving for as long as I can remember. No one taught me. I just… did. I think I felt ashamed of my body hair, especially with my dark hair/light skin combo.

It wasn’t until my late teens or maybe even early twenties that I let it grow out. I was surprised how much I liked it.

There was something comforting about idly tangling my fingers in the soft little patch that grew in. Not for pain, just mindless, like the way you might stroke the nape of your neck with your fingers and not even realize it.

I didn’t love the growth right near the labia and clit, though. Had to trim. I still remember my first time doing it, hunched over like some awkward thing with safety scissors, trying not to knick anything important (luckily I didn’t)

Now I kind of shift between clean shaven and trimmed depending on my mood.

None of my partners have ever expressed a clear preference, but if any had said something stupid like

“but what if I get a pube in my mouth??”

I probably would have just tucked him into bed, let him know his mommy would be in to check on him soon, and that I had a super duper fun time babysitting

 

[lavendersilk]

Dye. Otherwise known as eyebrows' best friend. *nods sagely*

It's more fun to draw them on with a pencil. Some days I want to look more pensive and some days I want to look like I am expressionless.

I have thought about microblading.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I know this is Cock Talk and all, but can we talk bush for a second? I’m sure it’s been discussed before but amuse me

View attachment 2523228

Apparently it’s the Summer of the Bush and no one sent the memo. I stumbled across a board that reminded me of this sudden resurgence -

View attachment 2523231

So now I’m genuinely curious: are we doing this? Like, as a collective, are we really going back to bush?

Are the boys hyped to relive their ’80s fever dreams, and are the girls ready for some proper cushion for the pushin’?

Ladies - do you feel more clarity, more confidence, rocking a full bush in a tiny thong?

Men - would you be hyped to hit the beach this summer and see some cute ‘n curlies peeking out from bikini briefs?

Let’s talk preferences. Bush or bare… and why?

And yes, yes we know, fellas. It’s oh-so-much nicer for your delicate little faces to go down on a smooth, bare cunt. You’ve made that very clear. But maybe, just maybe, we can graduate past the obvious cliches for a minute? Thank youuuuu

Wondering how you "stumbled" across that board

 

[hotoldrguy]

I've never shaved/waxed, just trimmed. I'm pretty lucky I guess because I have very light color hair that doesn't grow much down there, on my legs, my armpits or... sadly my eyebrows.

I am of the opinion that you should do what makes you feel comfortable, not what society tells you is fashionable or trendy.

Which begs the question. Are women more comfortable with a bush or shaved or trimmed?

 

[EvaLane]

It's more fun to draw them on with a pencil. Some days I want to look more pensive and some days I want to look like I am expressionless.

I have thought about microblading.

My best friend shaves and pencils on beautiful hues of purple, pink, and blue elaborate eyebrows almost every morning to match her hair.

Sometimes she comes in, rushing from running behind, and she’ll let one of us do her eyebrows for her.

Many a unibrow have been drawn.

Gosh I miss her

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

No true. It was an hour - but the link broke, but I fixed it.

Once again being quick on the draw has deprived me of joy. *sigh*

 

[EvaLane]

Wondering how you "stumbled" across that board

I searched “lonely” on the sex.com site, under the boards category.

A girl has to find content somewhere and pad her own boards.